BDSM


Thanks to "Fifty Shades of Grey," BDSM is going mainstream and is more popular than ever. BDSM is the acronym for bondage, discipline, sadism, masochism. It is a term used to describe various types of kinky sex play. BDSM can include bondage, plain play, sensation play, role playing and power exchange. Plain vanilla isn't for everyone, but consent is key; this type of sex play often involves some level of risk.


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