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BDSM and kink are attracting new players who are experimenting with new styles and bringing a different energy to the scene. Here are a few of them:

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Spreader bars are simple, sexy and can make bound sex better than ever. Here are a few key sex positions to try.

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A key component of the original Pride parades was being visibly queer. The pandemic has made that feel impossible.

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Endometriosis can rob you of getting pleasure from sex...even from sex with yourself! Here's how to get back on track with masturbation and endometriosis.

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Just like with your favorite dish, the right ingredients are important when it comes to a great sex toy. Here are six things shoppers should look for.

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The pandemic has been tough. Taking the time to masturbate makes it a bit better.

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This sex toy retailer has been around for more than 40 years but it represents new wave in the industry.

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Here are the top 10 activities to help you get your kinky motor revving.

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BDSM D/s contracts: worth it? Not worth it? Can't you just do what you want, when you want, to whom you want? A Domme shares her thoughts.

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Masturbation is like a party in your pants and, while no one else is invited, we highly recommend putting in the effort to ensure it goes off with a bang.

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Kinkly reviews the FemmeFunn Vortex Wireless Turbo. This rotating, vibrating dildo goes deep and long to give you the just-right feels.

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We went to the pleasure pros and collected the ultimate list of expert masturbation tips. We have a feeling these will rub you the right way.

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Think just one vibrator's enough? There's a reason why people tend to keep adding to their collection.


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When trying new things it can help to start by playing with things you already have around, before investing in new tools. Sex and kink toys can be expensive! Luckily,...

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The short answer, as it turns out, is yes. Decreased sexual activity is linked to lower testosterone levels. This research is still developing, but it looks pretty...

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As a clinician, I’m hesitant to pathologize any legal sexual activity that brings someone joy, pleasure, or is self-soothing. Masturbation is used for many...

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Times of crisis, of any kind, can create intense reactions to everyday scenarios and heighten our emotional needs. The tricky part is that we are often matched with...

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Loss of sensation after any surgery is common and equally disheartening if not traumatic. We often hear from our doctors that it is a possible side effect only in...