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Female Masturbation

Female masturbation occurs when a female manually stimulates her genitals for sexual pleasure. Common techniques include rubbing the clitoris or inserting the fingers into the vagina, which is a practice... (Read on)

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NeoSkin is a trade name for a manmade sex toy material known as CyberSkin. This material is used in the manufacture of a range of adult toys including vibrators,... Read more

A chastity piercing is a type of body piercing that is meant to prevent sexual activity in order to preserve and impose chastity. For females, a device or ring can... Read more

A zip tie is a fastener often made of durable nylon. Most often, they are used to organize cords, cables, and attaching items together. Often, zip ties are very... Read more

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