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Pug Noshing

Pug noshing is a new term to refer to cunnilingus. It was coined in England. However, given the appeal of vaginas and pleasing women, the term is used all over the world. There are benefits to knowing the... (Read on)

Past Terms: Queer Goggles, Bust a Nut, Trainer

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The spectrum of adult human sexuality and desire encompasses a myriad of emotional needs, sexual kinks, and various fetishes. Please don't worry about whether what you're feeling... (Read on)
Sexy Excerpt: 'Double Feature'

In this hot number, a couple re-enacts a movie sex scene for a very happy ending.
Sex Blogger of the Month: Cheeky Minx of Love Hate Sex Cake

Cheeky Minx is our April Sex Blogger of the Month, and we're not foolin'! Make sure that you check out Love Hate Sex Cake for your delicious helping of intimate, erotically inspired posts.
Ouch! The Two Sex Positions Most Likely to Cause Penile Fracture

Sex is fun, but it can also cause injuries. We check out some stats about one of the worst sex injuries - penile fracture.
Here's What Could Get You Committed If You Were a Woman in the 1870s

She did what?! Many of things that got women committed in the 1870s would be considered normal behavior today.
Sex Stories We Love: The Game Is Rigged, Advancing Asexuality, & Not on the Menu

In this week's Sex Stories We Love, we discuss the Ghomesi verdict, the advancement of asexuality, oral sex, and more.
Sex Toy Safety: A Guide to Materials

Manufacturers aren't always honest about what's in there toys. We provide the scoop on sex toy materials so that you can ensure your play is pure, non-toxic fun.
Asking for It: 7 Tips to Getting the Sex Life You Always Wanted

When we don’t ask for what we want, we often end up settling for very little. Here's how to start speaking up for your sex life.
He Wants Me to Peg Him. Now What?

Has your partner asked to be pegged? Here are some tips on how to do the job - and make it enjoyable for both of you.
8 Tips for Buying Your First Spanking Paddle

Who doesn't love the erotic thrill involved in a good spanking? Here are 8 tips for buying for first paddle.
Sex Stories We Love: About Time, Growing Up Queer, & Women's Struggles Continue

What do the Xena reboot and people between the ages of 13 and 20 have in common? Find out in this week's Sex Stories We Love!
App-Controlled Sex Toys: A Fun, Modern Twist on Sex Play

Imagine if your partner could deliver orgasmic pleasure anytime, anywhere at the press of a button. Actually, they can, thanks to the latest remote-controlled vibrators.
7 Tips to Reclaiming Your Sex Life After Surviving Sexual Assault

After sexual assault, sex can become stressful and triggering. These seven steps offer some insight into how to make it a fun, positive experience again.
Bottoming: Getting Past the Myths to Get Past the Pain

Pain during anal sex is a sign that you should stop. But you can learn to get past the pain and move toward pleasure. Patience and communication are the key.
Sexy Excerpt: 'How a Bad Girl Fell in Love' by Girl on the Net

This sexy excerpt comes from a story about ordinary love and incredible sex. Enjoy!
How to Bounce Back After a Bedroom Embarrassment

There are two kinds of people in the world: people who have embarrassing sex stories, and people who lie about not having embarrassing sex stories. Here's how you can bounce back after a bedroom embarrassment.
Casual Sex Rules

It's 3 a.m. and the phone rings. But is no-strings-attached sex really possible? And even if it is, is it such a good idea?
Sex Stories We Love: Cumfort Level, Men and Sexual Assault, & BDSM Legal Battles Brewing?

In this week's Sex Stories We Love, Kardashian sexy selfies light a fire under Twitter, things you shouldn't say to men who've endured sexual assault, and a legal battle over BDSM.
How to Not Be a Jerk When It Comes to Gender

Millions of people don’t quite fit into the boxes placed around our ideas of gender. Find out how to address all people and genders with sensitivity - rather than coming off as a jerk.
Sex Stories We Love: United in Porn, The Bi/Queer Confluence, & Where to Play Rough

Porn searches, bi/queer word choice, and dungeon choices, oh my! Check out this week's Sex Stories We Love.
What Does a Real Dominant Look Like?

What traits do real dominants have in common? Kinkly finds out! Here's a hint - it's not all about sex.
The Ultimate Guide to Pregnant Sex

Sex and pregnancy - how to adapt to the changes of pregnancy and continue to enjoy a healthy sex life.
Bondage With Benefits: What I Learned From BDSM

A study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine in May concluded that BDSM practitioners may be "more psychologically healthy" than their vanilla counterparts. Find out what it did for the author's relationships - both in and out of the bedroom.
The Naked Truth About Body Confidence

The percentage of women who are unhappy with their bodies has more than doubled since the 1970s. This author examines her misplaced search for self love.
Orgasm Denial?!! It's More Fun Than You Might Think

There are benefits of orgasm denial? Actually, yes! And they just might surprise you!
Why I Cry After Sex

Feeling self-conscious and frustrated at this uncontrollable display of emotion? Here are some things you should know.
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BDSM 101

Class is in session! It's time to learn all the basics about BDSM. C'mon...you know you want to! ?? string.Empty) 
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Oscillation is the movement of an object from a resting place backwards and forwards. Oscillation is seen in a number of places in our daily lives, from the... Read more

"Pushing rope" is a slang term for penetration with a penis that is not erect. It's a metaphor that compares a soft penis to a piece of rope, which are equally... Read more

Fuck stick is a slang term used to refer to a penis. The term literally means the stick that does the fucking.

A spit fuck is a sexual encounter in which spit is used as the lubricant.

Topping refers to being the dominant partner in sex. The designated top takes control of the act and commands the designated bottom to abide by his or her will.... Read more
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