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Technophilia is a term for a strong attraction to technology. While the term is often used to connote an enthusiasm for technology, it refers more specifically to a sexual interest in technology. People... (Read on)

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I am really sorry to hear that you’re experiencing this. I can imagine it is frustrating. When it comes to performance anxiety or erectile dysfunction, there are several factors... (Read on)
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Shagable is an adjective that denotes someone attractive enough to have sex with, or colloquially, to "shag". A person of any gender can be deemed shagable.... Read more 


Smexy is an adjective used to indicate that a person is attractive, both physically and intellectually. The term is a portmanteau of the words smart and sexy.As a... Read more 


Technophilia is a term for a strong attraction to technology. While the term is often used to connote an enthusiasm for technology, it refers more specifically to a... Read more 

Tentacle Fetish

Tentacle fetish is a sexual interest in tentacles and the (real or imagined) creatures that have them. People with a tentacle fetish tend to spend an inordinate... Read more 

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Multilateral sexuality is an umbrella term that encompasses all of the sexual activities that individual members of a couple may, with the knowledge and consent of... Read more 
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