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Impact play isn't just about paddles, floggers, and whips. This activity can help make you and your partner closer, too.

We-Vibe Sync and We-Vibe Verge

I wasn't sold on using an app to control my vibrator - or my partner's. But this app is intuitive, easy and fun.

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Faking your orgasms? You're not alone. Here's why you should stop faking it.

The G-Spot, the P-Spot, and Other Erogenous Zones You Should Know About

There isn’t an X marks the spot that will lead you to your most pleasurable spots. Everyone is different, but there are some general starting points to help you find...

The Climax Quiz: What Do You Know About the Big O?

Most people don't know much about orgasms besides how they feel. Take our quiz to test your knowledge - and learn more.

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Unlike many other things you might buy, orgasms never get old or go out of style. Take great care of your quality sex toys and you'll be able so use them for many years...

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Hand signals create a fun, sexy and easy way for Dominants to interact with their submissives.

Sex Stories We Love: The List Edition!

Here are some things that people adore: puppies and kittens, a beautiful sunset, french fries, and lists. People freakin' adore lists. Welcome to the latest Installment...

Multiple Orgasms: Is It a Skill You Can Learn?

Are multiple orgasms an unachievable standard, or is it something you can learn to do? Our writer tries to find out.

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A recent survey found that nearly half of people were interested in a kink, even if they haven't tried it. Here are 7 common kinky acts, along with everything you need...

Hook Ups Without Hang Ups: How to Keep Casual Sex Ethical, Drama-Free, and Fun

Learn how to keep your hook up adventures ethical, drama free, and fun. Check out our must read article on casual sex!

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While pee itself is an interesting kink on its own, what's most fascinating is how many different forms it takes. Learn all about them here.

Sex Blogger of the Month: Kirsten of Chronic Sex

Expand your understanding of how illness, disability and chronic pain can impact - but not necessarily limit - people's sex lives by checking out this month's featured...

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You (and your penis) are probably pretty cool to someone. It's all in how you use it.

Sex Stories We Love: Reconsidering BDSM, Hard Therapy, & Another Peg on the Notch

In this week's edition of Sex Stories We Love, we look at how we can learn from and celebrate our sexual differences


I'm freaked out by his costume requests! What do I do?

I want to start by asking you, if this is new and you are totally freaked out, is it enough to just end the relationship? Or is this a guy that you like enough about...

Do most people experience pain during intercourse? Isn't it just inherently painful?

Here's the truth: Having painful vaginal penetration may be common for some, but it should never become the norm for you. If penetrative sex is painful for you, you...

I know BDSM is all the rage, but the idea of tying someone up and spanking them totally freaks me out! Am I abnormal, or what?

First, I think you have to recognize that your fear around BDSM and some of the things it involves probably comes from a real place. If you've experienced unwanted...

Are sex toys a new thing or have people been using them for a long time?

Sex toys have been around for a very long time - and we have the artifacts to prove it! Read the news and you will see - it seems like you can't do an archaeological...

I've heard that some sex toy materials are dangerous. Which sex toy materials are good and which are not so good?

There are lots of different sex toy materials out there and, as you said, some are not so good for our bodies. Beyond materials like wood, glass and metal, which are...