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The term cis-woman is used in reference to one whose gender identity is consistent with their gender as perceived at birth. Typically, this means that the person in question was born with a vulva (though... (Read on)

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Rope Bunny

Rope Bunny is a term used within the bondage community to denote a person who is tied up with rope by another individual, known as a rigger or rope artist. Usually... Read more 

Sex Hangups

Sex hangups pertain to personal issues, either emotional or psychological, that get in the way of engaging or enjoying physical intimacy. These are mostly... Read more 

The Pill

The pill refers to combined oral contraceptive pill or COCP. It is a form of birth control pill that combines a progestogen and an estrogen. It should be taken... Read more 


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Psychological bondage is bondage that does not require equipment or harness. It involves the mind and the heart, and may have abusive connotations in some instances... Read more 
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