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Richard von Krafft-Ebing

Richard von Krafft-Ebing was a German-born psychiatrist whose 1886 text “Psychopathia Sexualis” broke new ground in the area of sexual deviance. He was the first... Read more 

Havelock Ellis

Henry “Havelock” Ellis was an English physician with a special interest in human sexuality. His 1896 academic text “Sexual Inversion” was the first medical work... Read more 

Wilhelm Stekel

Wilhelm Stekel was an Austrian physician and psychologist. His special interest in sexual deviations led him to coin the term paraphilia, used to describe specific... Read more 

Kurt Freund

Kurt Freund was a sex theorist and researcher. He was the first person to apply plethysmography, or the measurement of bloodflow, to studies of the penis. This work... Read more 

Albert Ellis

Albert Ellis is an American psychologist best known for developing Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy in 1955. He is considered the founder of cognitive-behavioral... Read more 
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