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Literotica refers to creatively written erotica. The term originated from the website Literotica.com. It features user-submitted erotic stories and poetry. The site's name, literotica, caught on and has... (Read on)

Past Terms: NormophiliaLady BonerFemale Muscle Fetish

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Technophilia is a term for a strong attraction to technology. While the term is often used to connote an enthusiasm for technology, it refers more specifically to... Read more 

Tentacle Fetish

Tentacle fetish is a sexual interest in tentacles and the (real or imagined) creatures that have them. People with a tentacle fetish tend to spend an inordinate... Read more 

Multilateral Sexuality

Multilateral sexuality is an umbrella term that encompasses all sexual activities that individual members of a couple may, with the knowledge and consent of their... Read more 

Giant Fetish

Giant fetish or macrophilia is a sexual fascination with or attraction to giants. While the cause of the sexual interest in a being larger than oneself may vary... Read more 

Giantess Porn

Giantess porn is pornography featuring very large women or giantesses. In these films, actresses of average size are shown (via camera tricks and the use of small... Read more 
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