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Behavior Modification

Behavior modification is a type of consensual domination practice that involves changing undesired behaviors into more desirable ones by using reinforcement or punishment. For example, a Dominant would... (Read on)

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Seniors in intimate moment

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Man and woman in erotic position

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Woman wearing leather BDSM collar

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Dominatrix holding a crop

During the day, I look like any other mom sitting in a local cafe. If you see me later in the day, you might not recognize me.
Sexy man grabbing woman by the hair

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Mystim Pure Vibes Nervstimulator TENS machine

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Woman drinking tea and reading

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Abuse victim holding up hand

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Woman scratching man back during sex

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Loving More is a non-profit organization dedicated to supporting, raising awareness, and advocating for the rights of the polyamorous community. Its origins date... Read more

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