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Male Masturbation

Male masturbation is the manual stimulation of the male genitals for sexual pleasure. Masturbation, both male and female, generally occurs outside of coitus, and may sometimes be used during foreplay.... (Read on)

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The simple answer is yes, it can feel good for men. Men have a prostate that is located inside of them and it feels incredible when it is stimulated. It's sometimes called the... (Read on)
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Sexy Excerpt: A Short History of Masturbation

The concept of masturbation as a sin isn't as old as you might think. Explore its origins in this excerpt on the history of masturbation.
10 of the Best Masturbation Movie Scenes

These scenes are as steamy as they come (no pun intended). Here are 10 of the best masturbation scenes found in mainstream movies. Be sure to lock the door in case inspiration strikes.
A Delicate Flower: The Vulva and Why We Should Appreciate It

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A few drops of lubricant can make everything you do in the bedroom even better - if you choose the right product for your purposes. Here are some tips on how to do that.
Our Interview With Jenny Block, Author of 'The Ultimate Guide to Solo Sex'

We catch up with Jenny about her perspective on solo sex, stigma and how surprising yourself can help you break out of a sexual rut.
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In this week's Sex Stories We Love, we look at ways that your self-love time can be spectacular!
Podcast Lovers: Here Are the Best Sex, Relationship, and BDSM Podcasts

Gear up your sexual and relationship intelligence with these smart, funny, sexy and informative podcasts that you can listen to anywhere.
Masturbation: The First Step in a One-Woman Sexual (R)Evolution

My personal road to kinky town started with the first stroke of a fingertip - and my very first orgasm.
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Multiple orgasms can be a major milestone. Here's how to boost your chances of getting there more than once.
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Sex Stories We Love: Touching on So Much, at Any Age, & End Shame for Girls

In this week's Sex Stories We Love, we touch on many aspects of masturbation, why it's good at any age, and why we should end the masturbation shame for girls.
4 Reasons Why Condoms Have Gotten a Bad Rap (and Why They Deserve Better)

One of the biggest strikes against condoms is that many people don't use them. We take a look at some of the key reasons why.
The Rise of Penis Pleasure Devices

The five knuckle shuffle isn't the only way for men to masturbate anymore. The rise of penis pleasure devices is totally changing the masturbation game for men!
Review: nJoy Pure Wand

This toy is designed to do one thing and one thing only: Hit the G-spot or P-spot with orgasmic precision. But does it live it up the hype? Read the review to find out.
It's Natural & Normal: How to Teach Your Kids About Masturbation

Masturbation is natural and normal for children. Here's how to make sure that's the way kids grow up seeing it too.
Sex Stories We Love: Highway to Hell, Solo for Science, & Self Service

In this week's Sex Stories We Love, we discuss a printing press that says masturbation is the highway to hell (but only for women), what it's like to rub one out for science, and the beauty of self-service!
Why Masturbation Is Essential to Unlocking the Secrets of Yourself

Masturbation can help shape who we are sexually and emotionally. Isn't it time that we remove the secrecy and the shame?
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Masochists like all types of pain, right? Wrong! You don't have to like all types of pain to be a masochist.
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