People Share the Hottest Fantasies They Masturbate To

Need a little fodder for the spank bank? We got a few people to open up about the steamy fantasies they use to get themselves worked up.

What We Teach Women When We Tell Them Not to Be Easy

We need to stop teaching women not to be easy, because when we do, we also teach them these destructive ideas.

orgasm woman

Masturbation is like a party in your pants and, while no one else is invited, we highly recommend putting in the effort to ensure it goes off with a bang.

Our Readers' 10 Favorite Sex Toys: Vote One the Winner of Kinkly's Readers' Choice Award

Is one of your top sex toys on our list? Show the super-cool company who made it some love by giving it a vote!

g spot toys

Thinking about trying a G-spot toy? Here are 20 - yes, 20! - of the very best ones money can buy.

couple in bed

Masturbation is fun if it's just you, but it's even more fun with your partner. Here's why.

Sex Stories We Love: Stories About Mixing Things Up in the Bedroom

In this week's Sex Stories We Love, we look at some new possibilities for changing up sex and how we view it.

spanking paddle

A good paddlin' is definitely part of the popular BDSM repertoire. Learn about the different paddle types, and how to use them safely.

flirting couple

Whether you're wooing a new lover or spicing things up with an old one, flirting can be a great way to send a sublte message - with major impact.

touching hands

Americans tend to believe that physicality should be reserved for only the closest relationships: family and partners. That can leave some people starved for touch.

squirting in bed

Squirting and not squirting are both normal. So let's all just chill out about it, OK?

Jenelle Marie Pierce, The STD Project

May's Sex Blogger of the Month is Jenelle Marie Pierce, founder of and Spokesperson for

Sex Stories We Love: The Different Ways That Sex Can Go Wrong

In this week's Sex Stories We Love, we highlight news stories that show you just how sex can go wrong.

Why Masturbation Month Matters (and Why We're Celebrating)

Awareness, openness and discussion around sexuality and sexual health are growing. We think that's something worth celebrating.

Tantric yoga

Tantric yoga won't fix everything, but a boost in feel-good chemicals and sexual life force sure doesn't hurt.



Desire; desire is the first thing because you’re dealing with muscles that you have to have the ability to relax, and if you can relax these muscles, the body is...

bed wetting

Here's the thing: People are built to either have sex or go pee, but not do them at the same time. If you did have big muscular contractions and a lot of pressure...


Maybe the toy doesn't work for you. That's totally OK - all bodies are different. But I always tell people that if they haven't tried a toy at least five...

couple having sex

If it only happens occasionally, you are likely normal and healthy. In fact, this is likely just your partner hitting up against your cervix. Most people, when they'...

I'm freaked out by his costume requests! What do I do?

I want to start by asking you, if this is new and you are totally freaked out, is it enough to just end the relationship? Or is this a guy that you like enough about...