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Infatuation is an intense feeling, similar to love, directed towards another person or entity. Unlike love, infatuation is a temporary feeling. It may develop into love or simply fade. Infatuation is... (Read on)

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When you say sex with your current partner isn’t like what you remember, I am not sure what you mean. Based on your follow-up question about not being into him, I am venturing to... (Read on)
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Regardless of sex, age, gender or sexual orientation, strong Kegel muscles can make for bigger, better and more frequent orgasms, not to mention better overall health.
Sex Blogger of the Month: Malin James of

Our Sex Blogger of the Month for December 2016 is the both naughty and nice Malin James.
Sex Stories We Love: Celebrating Porn Week!

In this week's Sex Stories We Love, we're giving a one-handed round of applause to the magnificent invention of porn with some stories around the topic.
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Being polyamorous taught me things about love that I wish I had known when I was monogamous.
Woman annoyed at text message

Where’s the line between expanding what’s acceptable to talk about and violating someone’s boundaries? Here are a few questions that might help you decide.
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What's better than ordering something sexy? Getting it on sale! We've pulled together all the best sex toy deals and sales from our partners.
10 Sexy Ways to Spend Thanksgiving Weekend

Do something sexy this weekend! Seriously. It's way better than hanging around Target. Here are a few fun ideas.
Woman with bondage rope

Thinking about introducing bondage play into your relationship? We know that can be hard; we have tips on how you can make it easier!
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These eight awesome sex toys shine as gifts. Which one is right for your partner?
Do not disturb sign on door

The holidays typically brings a bevy of articles exploring whether it's OK to have sex when you're a guest in other people's homes. This isn't one of them. Get tips from a sex educator on how to be a sex positive hostess with the mostest.
Sex Stories We Love: Discovering Consent, Waiting or Wanting, & Spoonful of Semen

In this week's Sex Stories We Love, we're exploring how VR helps people learn more about consent, what it's really like to wait until marriage, and the unusual ingredient a vegan woman swears by in her morning smoothie.
Review: The Mimi Vibe by Je Joue

Aesthetic, discreet, velvet smooth: this is Mimi. Check out what our reviewer thought about this cute clitoral stimulator.
7 Things to Know About Couples' Vibrators

Couples' vibrators are designed to make intercourse explosively pleasurable - for both partners. Find out how they work.
Woman licking candied lips

Part of the mouth’s erogenous zone, the tongue embodies the power to turn you and your partner on, inciting overwhelming fits of euphoria. Master the ultimate language of lust with these five essential lingual tips.
Are you Over 50 and Having Sex? You Should Be

Middle aged women, don't be shy! Reap the benefits of a positive sexual attitude and active sex life on your overall health.
Sex Stories We Love: Paper Cut Porn, RIP Leonard Cohen, & Peek-a-boo or Perv?

In this week's Sex Stories We Love, we examine sexual pleasures! Is paper porn done for? We pay our respects to Leonard Cohen. We explore exhibitionism!
4 Safer Sex Tips for Women Who Sleep With Women

Safer sex practices between lesbians or two (or more) people who have vulvas and do not identify as women are not always talked about or seen as a need for concern, but they are so important. Why? Because everyone's sexual health is important.
Is Casual Sex Right for You? 9 Questions That'll Help You Figure It Out

Casual sex isn't harmful or beneficial: It's both. Find out how it's likely to turn out for you by answering these nine questions.
Woman in ecstasy on bed

Some things in life are all about the journey, not the destination, like the delicious sensations of edging closer and closer to an orgasm you’re not sure you ever want to reach. We provide some tips on how to play along the edge for an explosive orgasm.
Crop gag cuffs on red background

Thanks to porn, fantasy-filled erotica, and a lot of our own screwed up ideas about sex, there are plenty of myths out there about kinky sex. It’s time to bust those myths and get back to what really matters: having hot-ass sex.
5 Ways to Add Heat to Long-Distance Love Affairs

You and your partner can always find pleasure together - even when you're not in the same place. Here are some tools and tips to help.
Dominant with whip

Want to be not just a Dominant but a good Dominant? Here's a complete, step-by-step guide on how to use your powers as a Dominant for good.
Sex Stories We Love: Changing the Game, A Creative Bent, & the Erotic Earth

In this week's Sex Stories We Love, we look at how sexy times are influenced by creativity, ecosexuals, and more!
A closed fist

Fisting is a fantasy for many, but most people don't really understand how it works. You're in luck: Here's your step-by-step guide to fisting.
The Right - and Wrong - Way to Have a Threesome

With multiple partners comes multiple desires and points of view. That can mean excitement and fun, but there's plenty of room for trouble too.
No sex symbol

Having sex is good for your health... but what if not having sex is actually bad for you?
Sex Blogger of the Month: Sarah Brynn Holliday of Formidable Femme

This blogger bills herself as a queer femme lady and feminist activist. Her blog delivers a unique combination of feisty personal essays and sex toy reviews.
Our Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes of 2016

Cold weather is on its way. This year's top sex blogs serve up plenty of hot content and sexy tips to keep you toasty until spring.
Food for Love: Do These Aphrodisiacs Really Work?

Historically, aphrodisiacs were chosen for their resemblance to sexual organs, or their alluring smell and taste. Centuries later, modern science gives us cause to doubt whether these old remedies really work ... or does it?
5 Reasons Why Americans Need Sex Toys

Can sex toys solve all the world's problems? Maybe not, but they can't hurt either! Find out what they have to offer.
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Everything You Need to Know About Masturbation

Curious about masturbation? Here's everything you need to know about getting it on with yourself! 
BDSM 101

Class is in session! It's time to learn all the basics about BDSM. C' know you want to! 
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ParaGard is an intrauterine device or IUD used for reversible, non-hormonal, long-term birth control. The only copper IUD available in the United States, ParaGard... Read more

The Comstock Act was passed by Congress in 1873. Its stated purpose was "Suppression of Trade in, and Circulation of, Obscene Literature and Articles of Immoral Use... Read more

The cremasteric reflex is a contraction of the cremaster muscle that causes the testicles to retract. This reflex can be triggered by stroking or poking the inner... Read more

A binder is a garment worn to flatten the breasts and create a less stereo-typically feminine appearance. They are commonly worn by trans men and gender... Read more

Toxic shock syndrome (TSS) is a rare, life-threatening complication of certain bacterial infections, specifically (but not exclusively) Staphylococcus aureus... Read more
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