How to please a vulva

Take the quiz and find you know how to please a vulva, and a vulva owner?

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Temperature play can heat things up or make your sex life cooler than cool. Here's what you need to keep in mind.

Sex Stories We Love: The Conversations We NEED to Have about Sex

In this week's Sex Stories We Love, we're talking about some of the conversations we all NEED to have about sex.

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Take this quiz to find out how hot your are, test your temperature play prowess and pick up a few new ideas for future fun!

Dame Arc Review

The Dame Arc is a curved g-spot vibrator. Our reviewer puts it through its paces to discover what's to love and what she would change.

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Orgasming during sex can be tricky business if you have a vagina. Here are 3 easy steps you can take to help achieve bigger and better orgasms!


Are you kinky or vanilla? How did you come to that conclusion and why? Here's what the experts say.

Sex Stories We Love: To Penetrate or Not to Penetrate

In this week's Sex Stories We Love, we're looking into all of the ways we can have sex without penetration!


Finding your fetish can unleash all kinds of delights in the bedroom and beyond. So how do you discover your kink?

nttk Fun Factory Limba Flex

The Fun Factory Limba Flex is a fun and flexible shape-shifter that makes this dildo our New Toy To Know for the week.

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Don't let things get boring for you as a Dominant. Here are 7 ways you can challenge your creativity.

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Take your downtown game to the next level with these tips to improve your cunnilingus skills.

Sex Stories We Love: ADHD & Sex, Throw a Curve, & DIY Dungeon

In this week's edition of Sex Stories We Love, we're looking at ways we can learn more about each other and ourselves through sexuality.

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Being mindful of your body can lead to amazing orgasms. Here are some practical tips for bringing present moment awareness into your sex life.

NTTK OhMiBod Rev

The OhMiBod Rev provides pleasure for every body, any body, and everybody! Is it right for you?


How do we stay connected in a time of anxiety?

Times of crisis, of any kind, can create intense reactions to everyday scenarios and heighten our emotional needs. The tricky part is that we are often matched with...

Top surgery has caused me to lose feeling in my erogenous zones. What can I do?

Loss of sensation after any surgery is common and equally disheartening if not traumatic. We often hear from our doctors that it is a possible side effect only in...

I've never been able to orgasm through sex with my partner, but I'm afraid to tell them. What should I do?

Orgasming with a partner is something that movies and social narratives tell us is oh so easy, when, in fact, it poses and a continual challenge for many, especially for...

How can I last longer in bed?

Lasting longer in bed is something that many people with penises feel concerned about. They think that to please their partner and be a great lover, they must last as...

I'm interested in becoming a sex educator. Where do I begin?

Congratulations on realizing that sex education is part of the work you want to do to make the world a better place! I remember being fascinated by sex education as a...


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