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Venereal Disease

Venereal diseases (VD) are more commonly referred to as sexually transmitted diseases (STD) or sexually transmitted infections (STI). These are any illnesses or infections that are highly likely to be... (Read on)

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Wondering how to approach the topic of STIs with your partner(s)? Sometimes just opening up to a conversation like this is the hardest part.
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Squirting is often looked at like the holy grail of sex. But it's not always as awesome for as we're led to believe.
How to Keep Casual Sex (More) Casual

Keeping casual sex truly casual means you have to make extra efforts to set boundaries not just for others but for yourself as well.
Sex Stories We Love: Dirtiest Word in Relationships, Problems with Porn Privacy, & Sexually Transmitted Understanding

In this week's Sex Stories We Love, we play 'Have you ever?' You'll learn about the dirtiest word in relationships, problems with porn privacy, STDs, and more.
11 Stereotypes About Genital Herpes You Probably Believe (And Why You Shouldn’t)

Many STI-positive people face harassment, judgment, or rejection for their status. But much of this discrimination is fueled by harmful stereotypes about the kinds of people that have genital herpes.
One-Handed Reading: 5 Reasons to Read Erotica

Erotica is a wonderful genre for sexually curious readers. Here are five reasons to read erotica literature, as well as some current hot-off-the-presses erotica books that are sure to please, educate, and intrigue.
The Ultimate Guide to Impact Play

From a little tap to a burning slap, there's plenty to learn, try and enjoy in the world of impact play. Get the lowdown on spanking, whipping, flogging and more.
Scared of STD Tests? Here's Why You Shouldn't Be

Think STD testing will be awkward and embarrassing? In fact, you're more likely to feel empowered and in control of your sexual health. Find out what it entails and why you need it.
Sex Stories We Love: Beware - Con Condoms, Reinventing Sex Ed, & Freeing Pleasure

In this week's Sex Stories We Love, we talk about counterfeit condoms (yes really!), free sex toys (yes, really!), and why we need to reinvent sex ed.
6 Simple Ways to Make Safer Sex Super Hot

Whether you are in a new relationship or an ongoing romance, it’s never too late to start practicing safer sex! Get some tips on how to make it hot.
Sex and Online Dating - How Soon Is Too Soon?

Online dating isn't going away. If you meet someone online, how soon is too soon for sex?
It's STD Awareness Month!

April is STD awareness month. Here's why it matters - and what we have on tap.
Sex Blogger of the Month: Epiphora of

Epiphora may just be the queen of sex toy prose, but she isn't above a good pun. Check out her profile here.
Quiz: Test the Strength of Your Condom (Knowledge)

Condoms are one of the simplest, most effective ways to protect yourself from sexually transmitted infections. Do you know what it takes to play safe? Take our quiz to test the strength of your condom knowledge.
Sex Stories We Love: Super Secret Sex, Have a Seat, & Some Privacy Please

In this week's Sex Stories We Love, we're looking at secret sex, sex furniture, sexual privacy, afterglow, and more!
Try It Tonight: Lotus Sex Position

Learn more about this sensual face-to-face sexual position that dates back to the Kama Sutra.
Satisfyer Pro Penguin

The Satisyer Pro Penguin has a few annoying design features, but it makes up for them in orgasms. Read the full review here.
10 Things to Know About Teledildonic Toys (Including How to Use Them)

New toys and technologies have finally made having virtual sex fully possible - and oh-so-pleasurable. Find out about it here.
7 Things to Know About Rabbit Vibrators

Are you a rabbit lover? Here are some things to know about these vibrators, past, present and future.
You've Got Options! 6 Super-Hot Things You Can Do With a Couples' Vibrator

These unique sex toys were designed to be worn during intercourse but with a little creativity, you can get a lot more bang for your buck.
Sex Stories We Love: A Bold Statement, Price of Beauty, & Sounds of Pain

In this week's Sex Stories We Love, we look at whether conjugal visits should be given to prisoners, why beautiful people apparently suck at relationships, sounding, and much more!
Hate Your Body? How It's Ruining Your Sex Life and What to Do About It

Bad body image can have a serious impact on sexual performance - and pleasure. Here's what to do about it.
8 Weird-Looking Things You Can Put In Your Butt for Pleasure

A lot of anal toys look pretty, well, weird. But, hey, they weren't designed for their looks - and they shouldn't be judged by them either!
Woman Holding Condom

Women are buying, carrying and insisting on the use of a condom in greater numbers. Here are some reasons behind the shift.
Go Deep! The 8 Best Sex Positions for Deep Penetration

Looking for a good, old-fashioned, super-intense boning? It's time to go deep! Here are a few top positions to try.
The Birth Control I Never Thought I'd Use

Female condoms have gotten a bum rap for years. But take it from me: This prophylaxis is way underrated. Here's why I love them.
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Everything You Need to Know About Masturbation

Curious about masturbation? Here's everything you need to know about getting it on with yourself! 
BDSM 101

Class is in session! It's time to learn all the basics about BDSM. C' know you want to! 
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A snake whip is a variety of single-tailed whip used for managing cattle and BDSM play. This braided whip gets its name because when it is curled into a small... Read more

A rubber latex fetish is a sexual preference or desire for rubber latex items, usually apparel and accessories. People with rubber latex fetishes may want to wear... Read more

A sex object is a person that another person sees as only being valuable for their sexual desirability or attractiveness. When someone is viewed as a sex object, we... Read more

Gender activism is political action or involvement driven by issues related to gender. Men’s rights activists are engaged in gender activism related to issues that... Read more

Sexualize means to make something sexual or give it sexual characteristics. People most often sexualize other people or objects.The term sexualize has been used for... Read more
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