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As a sexual assault survivor, I find all the recent allegations of sexual assault in the news really upsetting and triggering. What can I do to survive them?
The last few years have been really hard, especially if you are a survivor or someone who falls under the marginalized identity structure. And goodness forbid you fall...
How do I know someone is safe for me?
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Do you have any advice or tips for people who are experimenting with bondage on a budget?
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What is a SART exam and how can you support your friend if they have to get one?
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I'm curious about bondage but uneasy about giving up control and becoming so vulnerable. Do you have any tips?
One of the beautiful things about power exchange is that vulnerability that you can find. But yes, it is really important to make sure that whoever you are trusting with...
