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Blended Orgasm

Blended orgasm is a term used to refer to an orgasm produced by stimulating both the G-spot and clitoris at the same time. Some people report that clitoral and G-spot orgasms feel qualitatively different.... (Read on)

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There’s a lot to unpack in that question. I’d venture to guess that you, like a lot of my clients, are experiencing a lot of stress in life outside of sex right now, right? Are... (Read on)

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    - Gail Dines

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