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Polyphallic is a descriptive word used to refer to the fantasy of possessing, or being possessed by, many phalluses or penises. The term is a combination of the Greek prefix poly, meaning much or many,... (Read on)

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It's Time! Vote for the Sex Blogging Superheroes of 2016

We're looking to honor your favorite sex bloggers, the ones who have influenced, educated and inspired your sex life. Read about how to vote!
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A frenum is a mucous membrane skin fold which supports or restricts the movement of a body part. The plural word for frenum is frena. The piece of flesh that... Read more

Sexcellence is a term for experimenting with and learning about sexuality, intimacy, and pleasure with the aim of excelling in these areas. Underpinning sexcellence... Read more

Pubephilia is a sexual attraction to pubic hair. Most commonly people with pubephilia, known as pubephiles, are attracted to women with noticeable pubic hair, but... Read more

Polyphallic is a descriptive word used to refer to the fantasy of possessing, or being possessed by, many phalluses or penises. The term is a combination of the... Read more

Polyiterophilia is a sexual preference for or interest in having group sex where specific sex acts are repeated with multiple partners. People with this preference... Read more
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