Consent in BDSM: Navigating Heightened Emotion
Intense emotions can make the lines of consent a little fuzzier. Here's how to make sure no one's boundaries are crossed.
Latest
6 Girl-on-Girl Sex Positions That Will Rock Your Vulva-Centered Sex Life
Here are six vulva-on-vulva sex positions of varying difficulties that you need to try.
Can Watching More Porn Make You Bisexual? No. But It Might Make You More Open About It.
If bisexuals watch more porn does that mean watching porn causes bisexuality? Nope.
Can You Be Religious and Kinky?
Can being kinky and a person of faith co-exist? We take a look at religion in the kink community.
5 Things to Understand about Addyi, the 'Female Viagra' Pill
The development of a drug for female sexual desire may be an important step, but this particular drug has faced lots of criticism.
Sex Stories We Love: Legalese Made Easy, Safety in Decriminalization, & Sex Workers on Film
In this week's edition of Sex Stories We Love, we look at one of the most hotly debated topics: sex work!
You've Heard of Polyamory, but What About Ambiamory?
Polyamory? We're sure you know what that is ... but have you ever heard of ambiamory? Here's what you should know about it.
Got an STI? Here's How, When and Why You Should Disclose That
STI stigma makes disclosure difficult, but you have to do it anyway.
How Using and Enforcing D/s Protocol and Behavior in the Boardrooom Can Promote Better Gender Balance
If our gender-based social interactions worldwide involved women-led spaces and female domination protocol, would the world be a better place?
How Hosting Sex Parties Taught Me That Consent Isn't Black and White
Think consent is black and white? Think again. Here's how one person learned the intricacies of consent by hosting sex parties.
Sex Stories We Love: Casual Sex Edition
In this week's Sex Stories We Love, we're looking at the attempts, successes, and mishaps that come along with casual sex.
5 Subtle Sexual Behaviors That Are Actually Abusive
Not sure if you're in an abusive relationship? These behaviors are subtle signs of sexual abuse.
8 Fetish Gear Ideas for Kinksters Who Aren't into Leather or Latex
Express yourself! Whether you dig leather and latex or not, the world of kinky fashion is your oyster.
Sex Blogger of the Month: Miss Ruby of Miss Ruby Reviews
April's Sex Blogger of the Month: Miss Ruby of Miss Ruby Reviews!
4 Ways Using a Menstrual Cup Makes You a Better Vagina Owner
Who knew a little silicone cup could do so much? Here are a few of the positive changes menstrual cups are putting out into the world.
BDSM Is Older Than You Think. Way Older.
More people may now be familiar with BDSM than ever but this lifestyle is hardly new. In fact, evidence suggests its been around for thousands of years.
Experts
How can I reclaim my sexuality after sexual assault?
When I talk to survivors after they have experienced an assault, they tend to have had plenty of people talking at them and never actually listening to what they needed...
My partner often wants to have sex when I don't. Should I go through it to please them or just tell them I'm not into it?
Yes to both. It is always OK to say no – ALWAYS. Being pressured to have sex when you aren’t in the mood is never sexy but there are some exceptions. There...
When I'm having sex, my inner critic seems to take over. How can I learn to say more positive things about myself and feel sexier?
We all have an inner critic. Rarely do we realize how impactful that critic can be. When it comes to desire, arousal and pleasure our inner critic can short circuit...
How do you define trauma and what are some of the less common markers of trauma that some people may not recognize?
Trauma can be a psychological, emotional and/or physical response to an event or multiple experiences that are distressing and disturbing. Trauma is just a guideline...
I feel like stress often shuts down my sex life. What can I do to manage better and keep me in the mood?
Stress is the antithesis of desire and pleasure. Therefore, when you are stressed sex will be at the bottom of your emotional and physical to-do list. If you want to...
