5 Things We Learned Listening to Other People’s Orgasms

Find out what we learned when we tuned in to the Orgasm Library, a sound library of more than 1,000 real, live audio orgasms.

Fleshlight Launch and Kiiroo Fuse Review

These high-tech sex toys can interact with each other - but they're tons of fun on their own too.

Top 9 Contraception Misconceptions

Before society allowed frank and open discussion about sex, ignorance reigned supreme. We set you straight on nine common contraception misconceptions.

Got a Vagina? Here Are 12 Things Your Medical Practitioner Wishes You Knew About Your Sexual Health

People are often embarrassed about any problems they experience 'down there.' Here are some things your healthcare provider wishes you knew.

Sex Stories We Love: The Wonderful World of Kink

In this week's Sex Stories We Love, we look at some stories that highlight the wonderful world of kink!

The Best Sex Positions For Quickies

Being short on time doesn't have to mean being short on pleasure. Here are some fun positions to help you get 'er done.

candle wax

Interested in playing with hot wax and candles? Here's what you need to know.

Squirting: Why It May Never Happen to You (and That's OK)

Here's something that most sex sites won't tell you: Despite your best efforts, you may never squirt. Here's why.

Self-Love on TV: 8 TV Scenes That Lent a Little More Acceptance to Self Love

Self-love on TV? Oh yes! Here are 8 scenes you probably missed!

8 Reasons Why You Might Love a Sex Convention

Meet your favorite porn stars, buy sex toys, learn to up your game and more.

Sex Stories We Love: The Wide World of Sex Positions!

In this week's Sex Stories We Love, we look at the big, wide world of sex positions!

Sex Blogger of the Month: The Ersties Podcast

Surprise! This month's featured blogger isn't a blog ... it's a podcast.

lelo sona

This toy is cute and fun and provides a whole new kind of stimulation.

The Great Rabbit Vibrator Debate

In the world of sex toys, rabbit vibrators seem to evoke some very strong opinions on both sides.

7 Ways to Incorporate More Lube Into Sex With Yourself

Looking to change up your self-love routine? 7 ways you can use lube to spice things up for yourself!


What are some good sex positions when using a butt plug?

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My orgasm keeps getting stuck during sex. How do I stop this from happening?

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Here's the thing: People are built to either have sex or go pee, but not do them at the same time. If you did have big muscular contractions and a lot of pressure...


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