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Pancake With a Pillow Position

The pancake with a pillow position is a simple sex position that provides maximum penetration. The addition of a pillow - either under the head or lower back - can help make this position more comfortable... (Read on)

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In this erotic excerpt, a successful executive brings her fantasies about her sexy assistant to life.
Sex Stories We Love: The Meaning of Sex Positive, Disabled Folks Have Sex Too & Coffee Cock

In this week's Sex Stories We Love, we explore whether the idea of sex positivity is going awry, the beginning of change in how we see the disabled, and whether coffee can help with erections.
Wheelbarrow Sex Position

This sex position requires muscular strength and endurance, so skip the gym and get in bed!
Reading erotica

Your teachers probably had something else in mind when they encouraged you to read widely and read for pleasure. Even so, these rules hold true for anyone discovering erotic literature.
Sexy Excerpt: All That Glitters

In this sexy excerpt, a long-awaited kiss at a New Year's Eve party leads to fireworks.
Phthalates: What Are They and Why Do They Matter?

If you have a collection of sex toys, some of them probably contain phthalates. Find out why you should be concerned.
The 8 Best Sex Positions for Exhausted Parents

Treat sex as special time between you and your partner. Plan for it. Anticipate. Make it happen. Here are 8 positions to make it more fun.
Sex Stories We Love: Sexy Science, Bound for Play, & Pushing Porn

Who says organization isn't sexy? In this week's Sex Stories We Love, we talk about lists from 2016 involving sex.
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Things that were once considered kinky and perverse are starting to be accepted as what they are - fun options for exploring our sexuality. Here's a looking into getting a buzz with electro-sex.
Uvee sex toy storage and sanitation

Kickstarter's latest adult venture isn't a sex toy; it's a unique and interesting device for those who own them.
Sex and Psychology Dr. Justin Lehmiller

Who says science isn't sexy? Dr. Justin Lehmiller of Sex & Psychology is our Sex Blogger of the Month! Why? Because science is sexy!
Pop Your Cork: The Ultimate Guide to Squirting Orgasms

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Looking for ways to spice up your love life, but short on time? We've got seven ways you can make a hot minute.
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When it comes to making a sex bucket list, for many people, anal is where it’s at. We answer a few key questions for shy newbies.
Sex Stories We Love: New Way to Pay for Porn, Reach Out & Virtually Touch Someone, & Complex Sexual Identities

In this week's Sex Stories We Love, we look at a crazy idea by the South Carolina government to make you pay for porn, you'll learn about how you can reach out and touch your long-distance lover, & we'll look at why sexual identities are so complex.
The Ultimate Guide to Giving a Great Blow Job

Want to be awesome at giving head? Here are eight simple steps to get you from the setup to a happy ending.
Woman holding a vibrator

I’ve heard from several women in their late 50s and early 60s with questions about vibrators. Here's everything they need to know.
A New, Sexy Tradition: Giving Pleasure

It really is better to give than to receive. These sexy ways to give your partner pleasure during the holidays will be a gift to you as well.
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This short erotic store features a sexy gift, an unexpected surprise and lots of merry-making.
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The pancake with a pillow position is a simple sex position that provides maximum penetration. The addition of a pillow - either under the head or lower back - can... Read more

The reverse missionary is a gentle but intimate receiver-on-top position. It is great for gentle sex, and can be helpful for partners who suffer from back pain. It... Read more

A long-acting reversible contraception is a product designed to prevent pregnancy for an extended period only. Once this period expires, the user should be able to... Read more

Lactational amenorrhea method (LAM) is the practice of relying on breast feeding as birth control. This method is considered 98-99% effective as long as a woman is... Read more

Fertility awareness methods are ways to prevent pregnancy by tracking ovulation and thus being aware of when a woman might be fertile. The idea is to keep sperm out... Read more
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