Do Swingers Have Better Sex? I Went on a Swingers' Retreat to Find Out

Do swingers have better sex? Hard to say ... but they have a lot of very hot encounters.

Thrusting Vibrators: How Close Are They to the Real Thing?

Are thrusting vibrators the ultimate lazy-day sex toy? It depends on your preferences.

LELO Smart Wand Review

The LELO Smart Wand is, in many ways, a traditional wand massager. In many others, it's much better. Read the full review here.

How Writing Erotica Helped Me Overcome Low Libido

Sometimes, boosting libido can be about stimulating your sexual imagination.

Sex Stories We Love: Stop Watching the Clock, Same Sex Rights in India & Getting What Everybody Wants

This week, we look at some of what people REALLY want when it comes to sex.

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Learn about McLaughlin's book, the orgasm that changed her life, and her mission to take shame out of the equation when talking about sex.

Mycoplasma Genitalium: The Common STI You've Never Heard Of

Mycoplasma genitalium is an STI that can cause inflammation of the urinary and genital tracts. It affects people regardless of gender. It's why haven't you...

I Wore Vibrating Panties to a Music Festival - and It Was Glorious

What happens when you add a little buzz to an already blissful day? Read on to find out.

Beyond the Bed: How You Can Use Your House to Spice Up Your Sex Life

Escape the bedroom rut and discover the sensual potential within the rest of your house.

Sex Toy Safety: A Guide to Materials

Choosing the right toy includes finding manufacturers who are invested in pure, non-toxic fun.

Sex Stories We Love: Sex Workers' Rights, Drunk Defenses & Catholic Abuse

In this week's Sex Stories We Love, we look at some of the legal situations that have recently come to light involving sex.

Here's What Happened When I Exercised My Vagina Every Day for a Month

Getting next-level strong can mean better sexual control - and better orgasms.

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This month's blog is fun, sexy and - if you aspire to a long and happy sex life - inspiring.

The Beginner's Guide to Anal Stretching

Anal stretching is an interesting kink. Here's why people are into it - and how to try it yourself.

5 Tips for Buying Anal Beads

Thinking about buying your first set of anal beads? Here are five tips to help you find the perfect set for your playtime!


My girlfriend doesn't believe I am just not that interested in sex. Help me!

Repeat after me: you are not broken! More often than one might think, I see males in my office that just don’t have the “sex drive” society has...

I'm too anxious to enjoy sex. Can you help?

You sound like a lot of people I see in my practice. I say that to say, what you are going through is relatively normal. Especially if you deal with anxiety in other...

What are some good sex positions when using a butt plug?

Great question! This is a common issue but there are a lot of variables that come into play here. What positions have you tried already? How full is the inflatable butt...

My orgasm keeps getting stuck during sex. How do I stop this from happening?

That does sound quite frustrating, although not uncommon. I actually hear this more frequently from people than you might think, and it isn’t just from women. More...


Desire; desire is the first thing because you’re dealing with muscles that you have to have the ability to relax, and if you can relax these muscles, the body is...