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Make Sure Your Partner Speaks Your Nonmonogamy Language


Polyamory and open relationships can be tricky waters to navigate - here are some questions to ask yourself before you enter the world of nonmonogamy.

Culture and Consent: The Things We Have to Unlearn to Get It Right


Why changing the culture around consent will involve un-learning everything we have previously been taught.

How to Party Like a Cockstar


Having sex is easy. Making sex last can take a little more engineering.

Stay Safe: Tips for Protecting Yourself When You're Dating Online


Online dating can be dangerous. Use these tips to protect yourself.

The Key to Good Sex Isn’t Spontaneity - It’s Proper Planning


When it comes to sex, those with the best-laid plans finish first.

Sex Stories We Love: Why Not Everyone Is Into Having Sex


From asexuality to religious identity, this week's Sex Stories We Love looks at the reasons people aren't into sex.

Happy Belated National Sex Toy Day! Here Are 6 Sweet Toys to Help You Celebrate
Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes 2018


These are some of the best sex blogs on the web. And while each has its own unique audience, what they all have in common is that they're all awesome.

What Good Kinky and Vanilla Relationships Have in Common


Surprised to think that kinky and vanilla relationships have anything in common? Well, they have more in common than you think!

Sex Blogger of the Month: Kayla Lords of A Sexual Being


For November, we are super thankful to feature one of our own: Kayla Lords of A Sexual Being!

Trick or Treat? 10 Halloweenie Sex Toys That Are Fun All Year Round


These Halloween-esque sex toys are howlingly good fun anytime.

Sex Stories We Love: Spooky, Scary and Sexy!


In honor of Halloween, this week's Sex Stories We Love focuses on the spooky, the scary and the sexy!

sex education


In the best of cases, not providing kids with proper knowledge about sex, bodies, relationships and gender identity sets them up for awkward embarrassments. More likely,...

bondage tape


Bondage can amp up all kinds of sex play. And bondage tape makes it super simple, easy and safe to do. Here are 8 ways to bind a willing partner.

Behold! A Comfy Menstrual Cup You Can Wear During Intercourse


Menstrual cups have loads of benefits - and fans - but this one boasts an extra perk: comfortable, leak-free period sex.

Experts


I want to make my blindfolded submissive partner feel like there's a third person in the room. Any suggestions?


Using fantasy and dirty talk is a great way to incorporate experiences into your sex life that may be either logistically impractical or simply outside of your comfort...

My girlfriend doesn't believe I am just not that interested in sex. Help me!


Repeat after me: you are not broken! More often than one might think, I see males in my office that just don’t have the “sex drive” society has...

I'm too anxious to enjoy sex. Can you help?


You sound like a lot of people I see in my practice. I say that to say, what you are going through is relatively normal. Especially if you deal with anxiety in other...

What are some good sex positions when using a butt plug?


Great question! This is a common issue but there are a lot of variables that come into play here. What positions have you tried already? How full is the inflatable butt...

My orgasm keeps getting stuck during sex. How do I stop this from happening?


That does sound quite frustrating, although not uncommon. I actually hear this more frequently from people than you might think, and it isn’t just from women. More...