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Whiskey Dick

Whiskey dick is a slang phrase to refer to the inability to produce an erection after drinking alcohol. It is used as a synonym for a flaccid penis.

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A stunt dick is more popularly referred to as a stunt cock. It is a substitute cock in porn movies, replacing the main actor's cock in close-up sex scenes. The main... Read more

A virgin is a person who has never had sexual intercourse. This definition can be limited to penis-in-vagina sex, but may also be expanded to include oral sex, anal... Read more
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