Got a Vulva? Here's How to Love Oral Sex

Banish that wandering mind and those fears about smell, taste and the elusive orgasm. Stop worrying and start enjoying!

5 Steps to a Healthy and Orgasmic Pelvic Floor

Take care of your pelvic floor as you would the rest of your body by giving it the exercise and care it needs. It’ll repay you in better physical health, more...

10 Important Lessons I Learned When I Found My Local Kink Scene

Finding the kink scene was one of the most transformative experiences of my life. Here are the 10 important lessons I learned.

The Rise of Online Sex and Relationship Support

The number of high quality resources for sex education is increasing online. You just need to know where - and how - to look for them.

Rimming Risks  - and How to Play Safer

Just like any other sexual contact, analingus presents a few potential health risks - but there are ways to mitigate them.

Sex Stories We Love: The #AnalAugust Edition!

It's #AnalAugust! This week's Sex Stories We Love focuses on bum fun!

How Toxic Masculinity Hurts Everyone’s Sex Lives

Toxic masculinity is bad for people, society and our sex lives. Here's why.

The 6 Key Ingredients That Make a Great Sex Toy

The sex toy revolution is upon us, but not all sex toy companies make the grade. Here are six things consumers should look for when shopping.

Top Sex Educators to Follow on Twitter

Our favorite sex educators' feeds are divers, but what they have in common is that they're all awesome!

BDSM and Mental Health: When Kink Clears Your Head

While there’s a documented link between good mental health and BDSM, kink can help our mental health too - but it's no substitute for therapy.

6 Sex Positions for Great Anal Sex

Little adjustments can make a huge difference. Here are a few positions that are sure to please backdoor enthusiasts.

Sex Stories We Love: Pleasure as Purpose, Diet Desire & Fantasy Fascination

Sex is rarely something that just happens. Here are some ways that sex connects to other parts of our lives!

Rocks Off Ruby Glow

This unique sex toy won this year's Consumers' Choice Award. Here's why it rocks.

9 Creative Ways to Reinforce Your D/s Dynamic Using Sex Toys

Ordinary sexy toys can be a fun way to reinforce your power exchange dynamic. Consider these simple ways to incorporate your favorite sex toys into your play.

When Sex Dries Up, How to Get Your Sexy Back

If you aren't having the sex life you want to have, it often seems easier to just settle and get used to it. The truth is, you won't. Here's what to do when you aren't...


I'm too anxious to enjoy sex. Can you help?

You sound like a lot of people I see in my practice. I say that to say, what you are going through is relatively normal. Especially if you deal with anxiety in other...

What are some good sex positions when using a butt plug?

Great question! This is a common issue but there are a lot of variables that come into play here. What positions have you tried already? How full is the inflatable butt...

My orgasm keeps getting stuck during sex. How do I stop this from happening?

That does sound quite frustrating, although not uncommon. I actually hear this more frequently from people than you might think, and it isn’t just from women. More...


Desire; desire is the first thing because you’re dealing with muscles that you have to have the ability to relax, and if you can relax these muscles, the body is...

bed wetting

Here's the thing: People are built to either have sex or go pee, but not do them at the same time. If you did have big muscular contractions and a lot of pressure...