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Sexological Bodywork

Sexological bodywork is an educational technique or therapy for learning about sex. Sexological bodywork is focused around practical exercises designed to help people discover their own erotic potential.... (Read on)

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The super-fun thing about fetishes that involve everyday items is that your play doesn't have to be limited to the bedroom; you can take it out into the world completely... (Read on)

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Yoni egg

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All The Deals! Check Out Valentine's Day Sales on Sex Toys From Our Partners!

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Sexy Excerpt: 'Performance' by Jordan Monroe

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The Ultimate Guide to Using Household Items as Sex Toys

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Balanitis is the medical term for inflammation of the glans or end of the penis. It is caused by a variety of medical conditions including candidiasis, some skin... Read more

Parabens are a common type of chemical preservative used in a variety of personal care products, including personal lubricants. While the Food and Drug... Read more

Xeronisus is a little-used term for the inability to reach orgasm. It’s likely that the term comes from the Greek word xeros, meaning dry or withered. However, as... Read more

A sex cell is a cell produced in the body’s reproductive system that, when combined with a sex cell belonging to a member of the opposite sex, creates life. In... Read more

Leukorrhea is the medical term for vaginal discharge. It is usually thick, sticky, and either a white or yellow color. It may have a mild odor or no smell at all.... Read more
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