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Top Gifts for Different, Kinkier or More Challenging Sex Positions

Published: NOVEMBER 17, 2023
Turn your home into the kinky play-space you've always wanted it to be with these top gifts to help you up your sex positions game.

Looking for easy ways to spice up the "usual"? Sex experts agree: novelty in the bedroom can make us feel closer to our partners and more sexually satisfied! (The latter can apply to your solo sex sessions too!) ;)


These must-have pieces for exploring new activities and sex positions can be your springboard into new sexual adventures, no matter the adventure.

Are you looking for new sex positions? Ways to make favorite sex positions feel new? Exploring anal for the first time? Trying a new kink?

This list has it all!

Looking for our other 2023 gift guides? Check out the Top Gifts for People with Vulvas, Top Gifts for People with Penises and 20 Sex-Positive Gifts That Aren't Sex Toys.


Give Your Mattress New Life: Sportsheets Under-the-Bed Restraint System

Illustrated image shows the Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraints in use. A person is tied down on the bed, spread eagle, with their wrists and ankles near the edges of the bed. The straps that hold the cuffs around their wrists and ankles disappear underneath the mattress. | Kinkly Shop

Make favorite positions feel new with just a bit of bondage!

  • Strappy frame fits under your mattress to hold all of the cuffs in place
  • Four cuffs poke out from the sides of your mattress to easily restrain your partner's limbs anywhere along the mattress
  • Velcro cuffs make for easy in and out. Use 1 cuff - or all 4 - to match your comfort level!
  • Tighten - or loosen - the tether straps for a secure (or comfortable!) bondage experience
  • Included four Velcro cuffs means the set is ready to go as soon as it arrives at your house
  • When you're done, simply tuck the cuffs back underneath the mattress for the ultimate in discretion
  • Hundreds of bondage options without changing a thing about your bedroom's look

"I purchased it and surprised my wife and we had one of the hottest and most intense encounters in the history of our relationship." - J


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Look at Vibrators in a Brand New Way: Satisfyer Multifun 3

Satisfyer Partner Multifun 3 - Kinkly Shop

Everyone gets to enjoy in the fun with a vibrator designed to fit all anatomies!


  • Uniquely designed vibrator crafted to pleasure all anatomies for a perfect toy share with a partner
  • Equipped with 3 motors to ensure all ends of the toy are equally pleasurable
  • Head rotates 180-degrees to fit exactly where you need it
  • Try to use the toy together - or swap on and off to see what spots feel best; the Multifun 3 encourages playful exploration!
  • 10 vibration settings on each motor with over 100 different ways to use the Multifun 3
  • Our product page includes images of all of the amazing ways you can use it!

"Easy and light.. works well with solo or play together.. also feels really nice for me with the ring around my head." - H.

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Experience New Sensations During Sex: Vibrating Girth Enhancer Extension

The Zero Tolerance Vibrating Girth Enhancer Extension is strapped onto a realistic-looking sand-color dildo. This shows the stability straps for the penis vibrator along the base of the shaft and beneath the testicles. | Kinkly Shop


Add vibrations and feelings of fullness to the sex positions you already love!

  • Long, slender vibrator worn alongside a penis or dildo shaft to add vibrations and a bit of extra girth during intercourse.
  • Protruding bump at the base provides clitoral or external anal stimulation for the receiving partner.
  • 2 penis straps allow for a secure fit on the shaft while leaving the majority of the shaft available to enjoy the familiar sensations of intercourse.
  • Included remote control allows for easy adjustable of the 2 vibrating motors for easy adjustment on the fly without interrupting your pleasure.
  • Partner the Vibrating Girth Enhancer with our sex positions that make the penis feel larger to amplify the fullness!

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Try Sex Furniture: Liberator Black Label Wedge

Liberator Black Label Wedge | Kinkly Shop


Get the best of both worlds: bondage and better sex angles!

  • Liberator Black Label Wedge equips the best-selling Wedge with two bondage points
  • Use the bondage points with the included cuffs and blindfold (when you're feeling it!) or just use the Wedge for better sex angles when you're not
    27-degree angle is specifically crafted to make the g-spot/p-spot more accessible during sex
  • High-density foam offers a soft, comfortable surface that still holds its shape
  • Black Label Wedge really shines with missionary, doggy style, and oral sex - but the only limit is your imagination!
  • Zip-off the outermost cover and toss it in the washing machine for easy clean-up when you're exhausted from amazing sex
  • If you choose to continue your Liberator sex furniture adventure, the Black Label Wedge offers a no-slip surface against other pieces from the company

"Great product to put we enjoy using this every chance we get easy to keep clean and adjust" - C.T.

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Simplify a Kinky Position: Sportsheets Expandable Spreader Bar & Cuff Set

Vertical X Bondage sex position. A person is kneeling. Their wrists, wrapped in bondage cuffs, are raised in the sky. The two cuffs are attached to a spreader bar which is chained to the ceiling above them.

A simple spreader bar kit makes the hardcore-looking Vertical X Bondage position accessible to many!

  • "Hardcore" bondage sex position that's surprisingly easy to replicate at home with a simple kit!
  • Spreader bar breaks down into three pieces for more discreet storage
  • "Expandable" design also allows the spreader bar to be shortened or lengthened to fit any position you had in mind
  • Fully-adjustable cuffs allow the kit to transfer between ankle and wrist use on any partner with ease
  • Spreader bar and cuffs can be used for a large variety of other bondage positions to really get your money's worth

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Try Discreet Public Play: Lovense Gemini

GIF of the Lovense Gemini remote control nipple clamps on a white table. They are powered on and vibrating, and the clamps are wiggling all over the table. The text on the GIF reads "Strong vibrations." | Kinkly Shop

World's first remote/app-controlled vibrating nipple clamps for a visit to your favorite restaurant you won't forget!

  • Powerful vibrations on a pair of nipple clamps designed to be worn underneath clothing
  • Adjustable clamp design allows the toy to fit on most nipple sizes
  • Help secure the nipple clamps in place with the included bra/tank top clip and necklace
  • Pairs with the well-loved, free cell phone app that allows for local (or long-distance!) control of the clamps
  • Easily play at a moment's notice with manual adjustment buttons on the center console; no cell phone required!

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DIY a "Good Girl Chair": Liberator Tula

Liberator Tula holding a dildo and a wand massager at the same time | Kinkly Shop

Sex toy mount for hands-free use of the sex toys you already love

  • Innovative pocket at the top of the Tula grips the base of most vibrators/dildos to hold them in place
  • Additional pocket on the side of the Tula holds full-size wand massagers in place
  • High-density, supportive foam makes for a supportive "seat" to ride your favorite toys
  • Moisture-resistant interior liner protects the Tula - and lets you go wild
  • Machine-washable cover makes for easy clean-up after your satisfying fun
  • Can be used as a "standard" sex furniture bolster at any point with its sturdy shape

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Have Sex Anywhere in the House: Liberator Throw

A couple embraces on top of a Aubergine, Standard Liberator Fascinator Throw in purple. | Kinkly Shop

No place is off-limits!

  • Waterproof blanket to keep your messiest sex off of your expensive furniture
  • Super plushy velvish material feels luxurious against naked skin
  • Machine-washable for easy clean-up after passionate sex that leaves you exhausted
  • Looks just like a standard blanket when it's folded up for amazing discretion
  • Available in multiple sizes for the fit that's best for you
  • Great for period protection as well!

"It is an attractive blanket and excellent absorbent covering for sex." - D.R.

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Try a Sex Swing: Sportsheets Door Jam Sex Sling Special Edition

Sportsheets Door Jam Sex Sling Special Edition plus size sex swing shown hanging from an invisible door with a dildo attached to the bottom seat. | Kinkly Shop

Who said you need to make complicated ceiling mounts for a sex swing?

  • Entire sex swing is held by a closed, locked door with a sturdy doorframe (it as a similar functionality as doorway pull-up bars do!)
  • Sex swing provides a large, padded, supportive seat (no tiny straps here!), two bar-equipped handles, and two foot/thigh supports
  • Adjustable-length straps make it easy to swap up the different supports for different positions
  • Sets up, and comes down, in seconds. Easily fold it up for storage.
  • Optional dildo pad can be attached to the seat to secure your favorite flared base dildo onto the seat of the sex swing - perfect for solo play, double penetration, or kink fun!
  • 325 pound weight limit
  • Kinkly even has inspirational sex swing sex positions to get you started

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Bring a Bucket List Fantasy to Life: Satisfyer Top Secret+

Satisfyer Top Secret+ in the center of an image. To the left are two boxes that say "Also usable with free app" and "CES Innovation Awards 2021 Honoree". A small illustration in the lower right corner shows a person in underwear with a toy vibrating inside of their underwear. It states "Wearable" underneath. | Kinkly Shop

Remote-controlled panty vibrator offer triple stimulation to bring double penetration fantasies to life

  • "Panty" vibrator with triple stimulation: clitoral, vaginal, and anal
  • Super-slender anal probe offers a beginner-friendly adventure into double penetration
  • Works with any pair of underwear or snug clothing that helps anchor the toy in place
  • Is controlled by a free, award-winning cell phone app for hands-free enjoyment whether solo or with a partner
  • Designed for public play as well as at-home fun

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Get Off Hands-Free: Liberator Axis

A solo person is laying down on their stomach. A triangular piece of sex furniture is propped underneath them, holding a vibrator between their thighs. The person uses their laptop with both hands as the sex furniture is holding the vibrator in place for them..

The Axis makes the "Browse and Buzz" position a reality for your own bedroom!

  • Specially-designed sex furniture holds your favorite wand massager at the perfect position for grinding and pressing against the head
  • Not just for vulva-owners; penis owners can love the Axis too!
  • Bring your own wand! You're not limited to any proprietary wand; the Axis works with most full-sized ones (including the corded Magic Wand Original!)
  • When you're done, the outer cover zips off and can be washed in the washing machine.
  • Add a partner behind the "browsee" or explore the Twin Standing Pleasure Position for more ways to use the Axis!

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Reinvigorate Your Connection: Discover Your Lover Romantic Board Game

Board for the Discover Your Lover Couple's Game laying out flat with pieces and cards set up with the board game box sitting in the background. | Kinkly Shop

Go on a sexual journey with your partner with the help of a successful game that's been translated into all major languages!

  • A board game for two crafted to bring you closer together while simultaneously turning you on
  • Start with affectionate and romantic tasks that remind you of why you both started dating before progressing into the sexual tension of steamy foreplay
  • Mutual consent is built into the game's framework with optional "outs" of assigned tasks and questions
  • Expansive game with 480 questions and tasks to offer replayability whenever your connection needs a boost

"This game does a really good job of walking the line between intimate questions that make you feel connected." - M.K.

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Go All In: Liberator Equus Wave

Liberator Equus Wave | Kinkly Shop

Finally got an extra room to use? Equus Wave brings the magic.

  • Two wavy halves fit together for Liberator's most versatile sex furniture piece
  • Utilize any of the delicious angles from the curved surfaces - or stack them together for a perfectly-positioned flat surface
  • Both sides are made from high-density supportive foam that cushions your body without compressing
  • Equus Wave's unique material provides a no-slip material to other Liberator microfiber shapes; make your own playground!
  • Zip-off velvish cover is machine-washable for when you're exhausted after utilizing aforementioned sexual playground
  • Stacked-up shape looks like a modern foot of the bed chaise for easy discretion

"Versatile, firm, but soft and comfy. I love it!" - J.

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Have Sex in a Brand New Way: Fun Factory Bootie Fem

Fun Factory Bootie Fem in Dark Taupe | Kinkly Shop

Innovative butt plug designed for the unique needs of a vulva-owner to add fullness and make the g-spot easier to hit during penis-in-vagina sex

  • Anal plug specifically crafted to be worn by the receiver during PIV sex
  • Asymmetrical base ensures the base doesn't interfere with the vaginal entrance
  • Off-center probe presses up, internally, against the vaginal-side of the bum to add fullness for both partners during penis-in-vagina sex
  • Tapered tip and slim design is beginner-friendly
  • Crafted entirely from body-safe silicone for easy clean-up when you're done

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Make Bondage Playful Again: Liberator Bondi

Private Rubdown Sex Position: The receiving partner is laying flat on their stomach on top of a soft surface with their wrists bound above their head. The giving partner straddles them, rubbing their back and aligning the genitals for penetration.

Your padded bondage playground that lets your imagination run wild - anywhere inspiration strikes!

  • Bondi folds up into a smaller, compact size to be hidden away in a bag when not in use
  • Folds flat for a padded, 48" long board covered in bondage points
  • Use it to bring your sex room anywhere - including the floor, bed, or even your backyard!
  • Snap clips make for easy snapping in - and removal - of cuffs to instantly swap up bondage (Prefer O-rings? Each clip also includes an O-ring!)
  • Includes six cuffs, two extenders, and a blindfold to instantly get started with play

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Put Oral Sex Back on the Menu: Queening Chair

XR Master Series Queening Chair shown from the front to see the hanging head sling, the under-the-arm bondage straps, and the size of the kinging chair | Kinkly Shop

Change how you look at oral sex with a chair that removes everyone's discomfort!

  • Padded, sturdy "box" that allows the receiving partner to sit on top while the giving partner slips in below
  • Removes pressure, breathing concerns, and neck strain from the giving partner while giving the receiving partner a comfortable seat to enjoy marathon sessions
  • Adjustable neck sling can be raised or lowered for the perfect fit
  • Under-the-armpit straps and side D-rings allow for bondage possibilities, if desired
  • Made from solid wood covered in padding and PU leather for easy cleaning

"Not only can we do facesitting again with zero of the discomfort, but he can easily breathe when he needs to and he has had zero spinal flare-ups since using this chair." - M.K.

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Turn Your Bedroom Into a Dungeon: DIY Sex Dungeon Kit

DIY Sex Dungeon image | Kinkly

Enjoy savings - and the coolest thing you've ever had sent to you - with this pre-built sex room kit

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Hide All Your New Toys: Liberator Tallulah Bag

A pile of the Liberator Tallulah Locking Toy Bag artfully arranged. This photo shows the different colors of the Liberator Tallulah Locking Toy Bag and how they compare to one another. | Kinkly Shop

Tallulah keeps toys contained - and looking great - between uses

  • Triangular design offers more space for a larger collection
  • Double-zipper design includes a lock and keys to lock up your Tallulah
  • Long length can fit multiple sex toys - including many wand massagers!
  • Interior is lined with water-resistant fabric in case of an unwanted lube spill
  • Microsuede material looks - and feels - amazing
  • Available in four colors to perfectly match your sex room

"Look very chic on our bedside tables .. match our playroom decor .. hold all our toys & lube .. inside wipes clean with rubbing alcohol .. just the best! " - M.

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Mistress Kay

Mistress Kay has a fondness for all things sexual. With a house that's quickly running out of room for all of her reading and vibrating pleasures, she spends her free time reading, writing, and learning about the sexual universe with her partners. She can be reached at Kinky World.

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