Looking to pleasure a penis or prostate - whether it's your own or someone else's? Well, this holiday season, you don't need to gift something that might flop. Instead, go with these tried-and-true options to help that gift recipient experience some serious pleasure from their new sex toy!
- How We Chose These Products
- For Unique Stroking Sensations: Tenga Spinner
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- For Hands-Free Vibrations: Hot Octopuss Jett
- To Hit Multiple Spots at Once: Nexus Simul8
- For Penetration without an Erection: Balldo
- For a Cock Ring That Always Fits Right: Blush Stay Hard Silicone Loop
- Beginner-Friendly Introduction to Prostate Pleasure: Cloud 9 Flexible Neck Prostate Stimulator
- Instantly Add Girth: Perfect Fit XPlay Breeder
- Flaccid - or Erect - Vibrations: Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Essential
- Full-shaft Penis Vibrations: Satisfyer Men Wand
- Prostate Stimulation with a Side of Huge: Nexus Revo Extreme
How We Chose These ProductsThere are hundreds of thousands of different sex toys out there. (Really! We're not exaggerating!) But out of those options, we curate this list with a few important factors in mind:
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For Unique Stroking Sensations: Tenga Spinner
Award-Winning Penis Stroker that Swirls with Each Stroke
- Best-selling toy on Kinkly Shop
- 2019 Reddot Design Award winner
- 9 variations at a budget-friendly price; collect them all!
- Included drying stand doubles as a storage case
Customers are saying:
- "It’s amazing how it spins" - V.C.
- "I came pretty damned fast and hard with this thing. It was quite a surprise! The spinning motion is really nice and the fact that there's no hard case around it means you can vary the tightness as you need to." - R.K.
- "I have used Tenga products in the past and I have enjoyed them. The spinner on the other hand puts them to shame. That twist or spin makes for a very pleasurable experience." - M.
- "To be honest, the Tenga Spinner won that Reddot Design Award because there isn't anything out there that replicates this sensation—especially at this price point. Until the Tenga Spinner, electronics or your own hand movements were the only way to get twisting sensations within masturbation sleeves. However, the twisting sensation may not be for everyone (and may, in fact, just be too intense for you!) With that in mind, there are a few other alternatives to the Tenga Spinner." - Mistress Kay
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For Hands-Free Vibrations: Hot Octopuss Jett
Strap the powerful bullets onto the penis for hands-free pleasure!
- Long cord on the remote makes for comfortable use of the remote; no straining required!
- Pop the two vibrators out of the silicone harness to use them on other parts of the body - or with a partner!
- Battery operated to ensure you never have to deal with waiting for a toy to recharge
- Treble and Bass Technology lets you choose your perfect mix of buzzy/rumbly sensations
Customers are saying:
- "I have been enjoying the Jett for two months now and it continues to amaze me! I spend at least 2 hrs. edging and the controls allow me to reduce the vibration strength, patterns, or even stop very easily. When I'm ready, I sit back and allow the Jett to do it's magic. I enjoy letting it provide a few moments of post-orgasm pleasure before turning it off. " - E.R.
- "I have no control with this thing, laying there enjoying myself and the next thing I know I explode! Very intense orgasms, see how long you can take it after you explode, not long for me, but the wife says I will do better." - S.W.
- "The intensity of the vibrations could be stronger but was surprisingly good,
I use it almost every day & recommend it for a good time." - M.R. - "Just wanted to commend your company on a great toy. It was everything that was advertised..and more. It's very refreshing having [an] online store that sells such nice quality products..." - G.B.
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To Hit Multiple Spots at Once: Nexus Simul8
Prostate, perineum, testicles, and base stimulation all at once!
- Best-selling prostate massager on Kinkly Shop
- Targeted prostate massager with dual-loop cock ring
- Leaves the entire shaft open for even more pleasure!
- Two vibration motors - one at the tip of the massager and one in the base
- Control each motor separately for 49 pleasure combinations
- Rechargeable and waterproof for easy care
Customers are saying:
- "This has fast become my favorite toy. Its really powerful and feels amazing. It also keeps me super hard!" - C.
- "The vibrations feel good but as soon as I moved it slide out" E.G.
"Love it nothing else needs said" - L.
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For Penetration without an Erection: Balldo
Revolutionary toy that straps onto the testicles to turn the balls into a "dildo"!
- Only toy on the market designed for ball sex and ballgasm
- Leaves the ultra-sensitive skin of the balls to rub against your partner
- Customizable with the included spacer rings for a perfect fit
- No erection required: ready to play anytime!
Customers are saying:
- "I have a tight nut sack. I use one ring to help stretch my sack for about an hour. Then I slip my nuts into the holder. Wife loves [it]. - D.J.
- "Beginning with getting into it and then onto using it, I’d call the time I spent with a Balldo to be notably different. Keep in mind this is from someone with a bedside table drawer jam-packed with practically every kind of cock ring ever made, so I’m far from inexperienced in the aches and pains that sometimes come with trying to put them on." - M. Christian
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For a Cock Ring That Always Fits Right: Blush Stay Hard Silicone Loop
Tighten or loosen in seconds for the perfect fit
- Fantastic choice for a great first cock ring; it can't fit incorrectly!
- Tighten the ring for more restriction - and loosen for less restriction
- Simple design makes it very budget-friendly
- Available in multiple colors
Customers are saying:
- "Everything I've bought from here has been perfect,not to mention fun for her and I!" R.H.
- How We Chose These Products
- For Unique Stroking Sensations: Tenga Spinner
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- For Hands-Free Vibrations: Hot Octopuss Jett
- To Hit Multiple Spots at Once: Nexus Simul8
- For Penetration without an Erection: Balldo
- For a Cock Ring That Always Fits Right: Blush Stay Hard Silicone Loop
- Beginner-Friendly Introduction to Prostate Pleasure: Cloud 9 Flexible Neck Prostate Stimulator
- Instantly Add Girth: Perfect Fit XPlay Breeder
- Flaccid - or Erect - Vibrations: Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Essential
- Full-shaft Penis Vibrations: Satisfyer Men Wand
- Prostate Stimulation with a Side of Huge: Nexus Revo Extreme
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Beginner-Friendly Introduction to Prostate Pleasure: Cloud 9 Flexible Neck Prostate Stimulator
Try prostate massagers without breaking the bank!
- Targeted p-spot tip offers slight flexibility for rocking stimulation that stays in place
- Slim tip - and slender shaft - will work for most - even those without anal experience!
- Sturdy looped base makes it easy to manipulate the toy
- Simple design makes it very budget-friendly
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Instantly Add Girth: Perfect Fit XPlay Breeder
Plushy material instantly adds girth without removing sensation
- Unique design leaves the tip of the penis available
- Plushy Silaskin material makes penetration feel thicker for the receiver
- Internal texturing ensures it all feels even-more amazing for the wearer
- Anchors around the testicles for a secure fit that stays in place
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Flaccid - or Erect - Vibrations: Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Essential
Rumbly, oscillating penis vibrator that works regardless of erection strength!
- PulsePlate Technology offers piston-like oscillations on the super-sensitive frenulum
- Designed for stationary use - but ribbed interior works magic for stroking too
- Available in a remote control version with more power in the Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Lux.
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Full-shaft Penis Vibrations: Satisfyer Men Wand
A vibrator made specifically for the shape of the penis!
- Best-selling penis vibrator on Kinkly Shop
- Wrap-around "wings" transfer sensation throughout the tip
- Ribbed interior lends itself well to stroking too - if that's your thing!
- 50 vibration combinations to easily slide from "teasing" to "extra effective"
- 15-year manufacturer's warranty
Customers are saying:
- "What a great product. My wife and I have used this baby every day for a week untill it wore us out. But we did have lots of fun finding new ways to use it. " - R.W.
- "I purchased this hoping it would help with delayed ejaculation. So far it hasn’t. We’ll see." - C.
- "really, really, really good. It applies the perfect amount of pressure." - M.
- "The two top parts feel like small wings that touches my penis and feels great!" - D.
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Prostate Stimulation with a Side of Huge: Nexus Revo Extreme
Extra-thick prostate stimulator for people who like it large
- Extra-wide tip rotates to hit the prostate - and continue the stimulation
- Powerful vibrating base offers 34 vibration combinations for perineum stimulation
- Wireless remote control for easy intensity changes - or partner play!
- 10 hours of playtime on a single charge!
- 2.13" diameter at the widest point: we meant it was thick!
Customers are saying:
- "It’s a very big toy so it takes time too ease it in but once it’s seated it fills you up well. The vibrations are very powerful and mixed in with the rotating head it felt amazing! I’ve rarely cum from anal stimulation alone but was able to with this toy. Glad I got it." - A.J.
- "The size isn't for the faint of heart, but if you're used to larger toys, this is the prostate massager you've been dreaming of. The head rotations are amazing, and with each rotation, the vibrating base presses into the perineum which adds even more to the experience. Maybe it's just the sheer size of the prostate massager compared to most massagers, but it always seems to hit the right spot." - M.S.
- "The rotational power and the prostate massager's size is really what puts Revo Extreme near the top of the "amazing prostate massager" list. The prostate massager's big size means that it's near-impossible for it to miss the prostate (assuming you're used to larger toys), and its larger head means that it's constantly making more contact with the prostate area too." - Mistress Kay
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Mistress Kay has a fondness for all things sexual. With a house that's quickly running out of room for all of her reading and vibrating pleasures, she spends her free time reading, writing, and learning about the sexual universe with her partners. She can be reached at Kinky World.