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Top Sex Toy Gifts Your Vulva (or Your Partner’s) Will Thank You For

Published: NOVEMBER 3, 2023 | Updated: NOVEMBER 16, 2023
Looking for a sex toy gift for your partner? It's not gonna be a Silent Night with these pickes! 

Looking to pleasure a clitoris, vagina, G-spot - or anywhere in-between?! When you're looking for sex toys to specifically hit those erogenous zones, we have you covered. With air suction toys, insertable toys, vibrators. and more. This sex toy gift guide offers a wide range of pleasurable toys all designed to hit these nerve-packed sensitive areas.


Make sure your gift (whether it's one for yourself or for someone you love!) really hits it out of the park this year with one of these options. Even better, this sex toy gift guide might introduce you to new toys and technologies you didn't know were out there.

And so, without further delay, here are the top sex toy gifts for people with vulvas in 2023.

Looking for our other 2023 gift guides? Check out the Top Gifts for People with Penises, Top Gifts for Different, Kinkier or More Challenging Sex Positions and 20 Sex-Positive Gifts That Aren't Sex Toys.

How We Chose These Products

There are hundreds of thousands of different sex toys out there. (Really! We're not exaggerating!) But out of those options, we curate this list with a few important factors in mind:


  • It works as intended. While every sex toy isn't made for every body, we only recommend sex toys that provide the sensations they claim to provide.
  • It's as body-safe as possible. For insertable toys, this might mean medical-grade silicone or stainless steel! For external toys, this might mean plastics or phthalate-free TPR. This also means the majority of these toys are scent-free too!
  • Customers love them! While your body is unique to you, crowdsourcing opinions helps us curate the selection of toys on Kinkly Shop - and this list! We're recommending some of the most well-loved (and best-selling!) toys from the past year!
  • Staff loves them! In many cases, the toys you see on this list are well-loved by members of our staff. We don't just talk the talk - we use the sex toys too!

Pocket-Sized Power: Magic Wand Micro

The Magic Wand Micro wand massager vibrator next to a set of two standard keys on a key ring. Two keys laid next to each other, tip to tip, would be the exact length of the Mini. It's slightly thicker than the size of a key. | Kinkly Shop

Everything you love about the Magic Wand - but in a smaller size!


  • Top intensity at an incredible 6,500RPM!
  • At 4.5" in length, it fits into most pockets - even the barely-there "girl jean" pockets!
  • Optional wrist strap and 3-ounce weight makes for featherlight play
  • Rechargeable design means freedom to play anywhere you want
  • Three hours of playtime to support your marathon sessions
  • Plushy silicone head feels fantastic against the skin
  • 3 vibration intensities easily controlled by the push-button control panel

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Give Your Finger Superpowers: FemmeFunn Dioni

FemmeFunn Dioni finger vibrator

  • The best-selling bullet vibrator on Kinkly Shop
  • Finger vibrator slides overtop of a finger to instantly add vibrations to your usual movements
  • 20 vibration modes let you choose how intense - or gentle - you want to go
  • Instantly tip yourself into orgasm with the Boost function that instantly flips the Dioni to the strongest setting
  • Available in a Small and Large to fit different finger sizes


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Blast from the Past - Now Updated: FemmeFunn Booster Rabbit

  • Classically-styled rabbit vibrator with the features you expect from modern luxury toys
  • Tip of the rotating shaft provides 360-degree motion with 3 rotation speeds
  • "Rabbit ears" clit stimulator offers 7 vibration intensities
  • Shaft and clit vibrator are independently controlled with the control panel base
  • Hit the Turbo Boost button to push the toy to its most powerful for instant orgasms
  • Rechargeable and waterproof for play anywhere you want

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Penetration The Way You Want It: Fun Factory Limba Flex

Fun Factory Limba Flex dildo


  • Bendable dildo can achieve new angles in seconds
  • Suction cup base makes for hands-free fun against flat surfaces
  • Ultra-thin base makes for comfortable wear within a harness (or a piece of sex furniture!)
  • Slimmer diameters for easier insertion
  • Perfect for G-spot and p-spot exploration; simply remove and rebend until you hit that perfect spot!

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Try Air Suction: Satisfyer Pro 2 - The New Generation

See how your body responds to air suction instead of vibrations


  • The best-selling air suction vibrator on Kinkly Shop
  • Gentle suction seal provides clitoral sensations without direct clit contact
  • 11 suction intensities and 12 vibration intensities to start gentle - and go hard
  • Available with optional app-control functionality for online play
  • Removable silicone tip makes for extremely easy cleaning
  • 15-Year manufacturer's warranty

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The Easiest Clean-Up Ever: Liberator Throw

  • Waterproof blanket to keep your messiest sex off of your expensive furniture
  • Super plushy velvish material feels luxurious against naked skin
  • Machine-washable for easy clean-up after passionate sex that leaves you exhausted
  • Looks just like a standard blanket when it's folded up for amazing discretion
  • Available in multiple sizes for the fit that's best for you
  • Great for kink scenes and period protection as well!

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A Vibrator You Can Sit On: Orion VibePad 2

Orion VibePad 2 with the remote control | Kinkly Shop

  • Entire wide seat of the Orion VibePad 2 vibrates
  • Simply set the VibePad 2 on a flat surface, sit on it and ride to orgasm!
  • Take things to the next level with the VibePad 2's pre-heating functionality and flicking tongue
  • Equipped with 7 vibration modes and 7 levels of licking
  • Firm, swelling mounds of the VibePad 2 crafted to hit the clitoris, labia and anus
  • Instantly control all of the functionality with the wireless remote control

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Panty Vibrator with Double Penetration: Satisfyer Top Secret+

  • Hands-free vaginal, anal, and clitoral pleasure in a design made to fit all underwear
  • App-controlled with the free app for local and worldwide play possibilities!
  • TWO vibration motors to ensure power flows through every inch of the toy
  • 12 built-in vibration modes to jump start your play with an unlimited range of options once connected to the app
  • Super-slender anal probe offers a beginner-friendly adventure into double penetration
  • BYOU (Bring Your Own Underwear! It fits into any pair!)
  • Rechargeable and waterproof design makes for easy clean-up

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Oral Sex On Demand: Inya Triple Delight

A hand holds the Inya Triple Delight. It looks like an extra-long dildo in the hand, with the fingers easily enclosed around the "shaft/handle" of the Inya Triple Delight. The licking tongue and pussy pump cap stick out at the top of the toy. | Kinkly Shop

  • Called "damn near as close [to oral sex] as we have in a sex toy right now." by professional toy reviewers
  • Offers full-vulva suction with a powerful, licking tongue to zero in on the clitoris
  • Craving penetration? The handle offers pleasurable vibrations and is fully insertable!
  • Includes multiple acrylic pussy pump cups to get the right fit for your body.
  • That's right! Tongue licking, pussy pumping, vibrating penetration all in a single toy!
  • Multi-button control panel allows individual control of all of the different functionalities. Customize the suction and tongue-licking you need at any given moment.
  • Rechargeable design offers 90 minutes off a full charge - and ensures you won't need to go to the grocery store to grab batteries!

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Simultaneous Anal and Vaginal Pleasure: Rocks-Off Cocktail

Rocks-Off Cocktail in Burgundy | Kinkly Shop

  • Anal plug designed to be worn for simultaneous vaginal play
  • Cocktail's vaginal attachment can be slid in concurrently with the plug
  • Equipped with two motors for targeted sensations
  • Wireless remote control allows for adjustment without interrupting your fun

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An Eye-catching Anal Plug: Master Series Booty Bloom

A 3/4ths view of the Master Series Booty Bloom. This showcases the shallow retention area, rounded plug with tapered tip, and a rose-like base. | Kinkly Shop

  • Decorative rose base keeps the plug outside the body - and makes sure you can't look away!
  • Available in three sizes to ensure you have the perfect fit (the "Small" is the perfect size for someone brand new to anal play!)
  • Oval-shaped, tapered tip makes for gradual, comfortable penetration
  • Body-safe, silicone design is comfortable and flexible between the cheeks
  • (Prefer a jewel? The Blush Temptasia Bling offers a similar, eye-catching design!)

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Rethink Bathtub Masturbation: Waterslyde

  • Easily ties onto the faucet to redirect and target the water to the center of your bathtub
  • Fits most forward-facing faucets
  • Ties on in seconds - and unties in seconds

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Upgrade Your Favorite Toys: Liberator Tula

Liberator Tula sex toy mount with dildo and Magic Wand

  • Innovative pocket at the top of the Tula grips the base of most vibrators/dildos to hold them in place
  • Additional pocket on the side of the Tula holds full-size wand massagers in place
  • High-density, supportive foam makes for a supportive "seat" to ride your favorite toys
  • Moisture-resistant interior liner protects the Tula - and lets you go wild
  • Machine-washable cover makes for easy clean-up after your satisfying fun
  • Can be used as a "standard" sex furniture bolster at any point with its sturdy shape for all new sex positions

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Kinkly Staff

Sex is a bit like a secret society; everyone's doing it, it's just that no one talks about it. Kinkly's mission is to start that conversation, answer your questions and help you discover new and exciting things about sex, love and your body. We guarantee it'll be illuminating, enlightening, fun ... and a little kinky. And that's OK with us.No innuendos, no judgments and no apologies, just fearless, straight-up talk about sex.

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