The Tabletop Position


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Definition - What does The Tabletop Position mean?

The tabletop position is a face-to-face vaginal or anal sex position that uses a table as a prop. It gets its name because the receiving partner literally sits on the top of the table, or tabletop, for sex.

To get into the tabletop position, the receiving partner should sit on a sturdy, waist-high tabletop. Their butt should be as close to the edge of the table as is comfortable and their legs should be slightly apart to allow penetration. Their penetrating partner then stands in front of them, so they are both face to face. From this position, the penetrating partner can enter the receiving partner.

Many penetrating partners enjoy holding onto the receiving partner’s hips as they thrust or grind into them. This position gives penetrating partners even more control in the tabletop position than they already do. The receiving partner can either embrace their partner, lean back with their hands flat on the table, or lay all the way down on the table. All of these different variations on the tabletop position will create different sensations by varying the angle of penetration during sex.

The tabletop position is also known as the torrid tabletop position or the love temple position.




Tabletop Sex Position

Kinkly explains The Tabletop Position

The tabletop position is perfect for kitchen sex. Sex on a kitchen tabletop can be exciting for many reasons. This sexual position is one of the better ones for clitoral stimulation.

The tabletop position also offers the excitement of a standing position without being as strenuous as many of these positions can be. It's much less work for both partners because the table supports the receiving partner's weight, and some of the penetrating partner's as well.

Moving sex out of the bedroom and changing the scenery can make sex more exciting and less monotonous. If you have neighbors close by, leave the kitchen curtains open to enjoy the thrill of exhibitionism.

A receiving partner can rest their feet or legs on their penetrating partner's shoulders. This small variation can deepen the penetration the receiving partner experiences in the tabletop position.

The tabletop position is also easily adapted for oral sex. With the receiving partner in the same position, the giving partner can simply bend down to perform fellatio or cunnilingus. Since the table elevates the receiving partner, this position is excellent for preventing neck strain.

There is the potential for injury if couples do not choose the right table. If the table is not strong enough to hold the receiving partner’s weight, they could snap the table and come crashing to the ground.

It is a good idea to try sitting on the table and bouncing around a little first to make sure it will hold the receiving partner’s weight. Alternatively, the receiving partner could bend over the table while performing a sexy striptease during foreplay to test its weight.

A hard table can also be a little uncomfortable for a lengthy sex session. You can make your table more inviting by throwing a blanket over the top. A specialized sex blanket is a great idea. These products are waterproof, so they make cleaning up lubricant and ejaculate a little easier.

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