What are some good sex positions when using a butt plug?

Q:

My husband and I just got an inflatable butt plug and it's awesome, but his penis slips out of my vagina sometimes. I can't find anywhere to ask about what positions would work best to keep it in?

A:

Great question! This is a common issue but there are a lot of variables that come into play here. What positions have you tried already? How full is the inflatable butt plug? Are your knees down flat or raised up to your chest? Does his penis have a bend in it? Do you have a tilted uterus? Are bellies getting in the way? Are you tall and he is short?

To answer this most effectively, try these things first. Insert the butt plug, but do not fill it up all the way. Get it to a level where you can squeeze more air in when needed. Try the missionary position first as gravity will be your friend and help the penis stay in a tad easier. While you are on your back also try raising the knees up slightly. It may be more helpful to eventually raise your knees all the way to the chest as this aligns your colon in a better way. If slippage is still an issue consider putting pillows (or a foam wedge) under your rear to tilt the vulva in a more favorable position. If this doesn't work, next try it in the doggy position but with a pillow under your hips to raise them up. It is all about angles and how your bodies fit together. I think if you try all of these variables you will come to a favorable solution.

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Ken Melvoin-Berg is a Chicago based freelance writer, author, professional pervert, TV producer, BDSM/sex educator, adult industry consultant, and male sex toy advocate. He is also the Consulting Producer/Sharon Osbourne of Showtime’s “Sex with Sunny Megatron.”

Ken is an “edutainer” armed with knowledge of all things sexual, a humorous lecturing style, and a professional background in medicine/biology. He has been writing and lecturing on these subjects since 1997. Ken is known for his amazing facial hair and tattoos. He also loves his family, Aquaman, his amazing pug, Nathan, and the USA.

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