Well, this one comes up a lot. People want sex and threesomes to happen spontaneously and organically. And, well, I won't say that never in the history of threesomes has that happened, I actually don't think it's a very good idea. There are so many factors when it comes to any kind of sex, and then when you add more people, I think you're really looking for mishaps and hurt feelings if you don't talk about it first. That doesn't mean that it can't still feel spontaneous and fun and playful in the moment. Talking about it in advance doesn't have to ruin the mood. It doesn't have to spoil the fun. It just means that you're more likely to have everybody getting what they want out of their experience and having their needs met.
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