Taoist Erotic Massage (TEM)

Any other type of relaxing massage, such as a traditional massage or a tantric massage, is a good warm-up for a Taoist erotic massage. During a Taoist erotic massage, the person being massaged is encouraged to focus on controlled breathing in time with manipulation of the genitals, anus or prostate. A Taoist erotic massage is usually performed on a massage table with the aid of oils or lotions, like other types of therapeutic massages.

Unlike other types of erotic massage, such as hand jobs, a person with a penis receiving a Taoist erotic massage is encouraged to not ejaculate. It’s believed that in doing so, sexual energy can circulate throughout the body, making the recipient stronger and healthier. It also helps people remember that the journey towards orgasm is a beautiful thing, and that satisfying sexual touch doesn’t always need to end with climax.

That does not mean that Taoist erotic massages never end in orgasms. Instead, those who receive these massages learn to orgasm without ejaculation. It’s not uncommon for people who’ve received a Taoist erotic massage to report entering a transformative altered state during the massage.