Collection: Collars & Leashes & Gags

What is a BDSM collar? A BDSM Collar (which is a bondage restraint that safely wraps around the neck) is a common part of kinky play for a lot of people. Not only is a BDSM collar extremely easy to use (just wrap it around the neck, check for tightness, and go!), but it also is extremely functional.

First off, a BDSM collar and leash offer a fantastic bondage option. Now that you have a bondage point around someone's neck, you have a new place to attach restraints. A BDSM leash is a common attachment to a collar (for leading your partner around!), but you can also get more creative. A BDSM leather collar can become the attachment point for any restrictive bondage - like tying your partner to their favorite chair, so they just ask permission to leave. Not only that, but it can be used as an attachment point for other pieces of bondage, so you can use nylon tethers to attach your partner's kinky cuffs and kinky restraints to the collar's O-ring itself.

Second off, a BDSM collar can have a lot of sentimental and intimate meaning. Our necks are one of the most personal (and vulnerable!) spots on our bodies. Slipping a piece of fabric around this area can feel highly charged. When you add the fact that BDSM collars are regularly represented in media and education as the "mark of ownership", this can be an extremely emotional activity.  (Read about how much a collar means to this writer.)

(Does that all sound amazing? Our 9 Tips for Choosing a Play Collar will help you select a BDSM collar that's best for you!)

If you're looking for sex collars, you've come to the right place! Our curated selection of the best BDSM collars means you'll find a great neck restraint - whether you're using it for self-collaring, purchasing it for a partner, or just want to create some sexy selfies. We especially recommend checking out our cute bdsm collar, our bdsm collar and leash, our bdsm collar with nipple clamps, our metal bdsm collar, our discreet bdsm collar, our pink bdsm collar, our bdsm collar for men, our bdsm posture collar, and many more! Most of our bdsm collars are beginner-friendly, so don't be afraid to pick from any of our collars; they can all be a great fit!

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Everything included within the Master Series Pink Kitty Bondage Set laid out up against a plain white background. All of the items included within the kit are included via text within the product description. | Kinkly ShopAn illustrated anime character is bound up with the Master Series Pink Kitty Bondage Set, wearing the collar, blindfold, cuffs, leash, and hogtie connector. Text on the image reads: "Durable vegan material that remains intact throughout playtime." | Kinkly Shop
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Sportsheets Amor Breathable Ball Gag up against a white background | Kinkly ShopA person in lingerie is smiling as they hold the heart-shaped Sportsheets Amor Breathable Ball Gag in their mouth | Kinkly Shop
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Sportsheets Velvet Noir Collar and Leash in front of a plain white background | KinklyEvery part of the Sportsheets Velvet Noir Collar and Leash laid out flat to showcase how it all looks. | Kinkly
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The Ouch! Paris Collection Collar with Leash shown in front of a plain white background | Kinkly ShopOuch! Paris Collection Collar with Leash
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Master Series Ass Face in front of a plain white background | Kinkly ShopThe Master Series Ass Face shown with the TPE "sleeve" removed from the front of the gag, showcasing the structured cylinder tube of the interior. | Kinkly Shop
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The NS Novelties Cara Collar in front of a plain white background. It's a thin, circular black color that goes all around the neck with a small gold O-ring on the front of the collar. It looks like a discreet fashion collar. | Kinkly ShopPackaging for the NS Novelties Cara Collar | Kinkly Shop
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Sportsheets Saffron Silicone Bit Gag up against a white background. The silicone bit looks smooth and easy to bite down on. It's black in color in contrast to the dark red of the faux leather head strap. | Kinkly ShopClose-up on the buckle fastener of the Sportsheets Saffron Silicone Bit Gag. It is a standard buckle that you'd expect to see on a belt. It has a lot of adjustment points to get a good fit for a variety of head sizes. | Kinkly Shop
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The NS Novelties Elvira Collar in front of a plain white background. It's made of a black faux leather with blood "droplets" built into the collar's shape. There's a gold charm and a gem on the center front of the collar. It has a color-matching gold buckle on the backside of the collar to adjust the circumference. | Kinkly ShopPackaging for the NS Novelties Elvira Collar | Kinkly Shop
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Shots Ouch! Printed Collar and Leash in Love Street Art | Kinkly ShopShots Ouch! Printed Collar and Leash in Love Street Art | Kinkly Shop
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Rouge Leather Spider Gag in front of a white background. The O-ring is attached to four 90-degree angle metal "arms" that attached to a leather strap that wraps around the back of the head. | Kinkly ShopBackside of the Rouge Leather Spider Gag. It's fastened, showing the standard belt buckle and 6 reinforced adjustment positions to allow for a comfortable, snug fit with the Rouge Leather Spider Gag. | Kinkly Shop
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A topless person is wearing the Coquette Pleasure Collar. Their arms cover their chest. The collar is particularly wide, and it covers up a lot of their neck with a large, eye-catching O-ring on the front of the collar. | Kinkly ShopThe Coquette Pleasure Collar in White against a black background. The Rose Gold hardware really stands out on the white collar with the white background. | Kinkly Shop
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Everything included in the Blush Temptasia Safe Word Bondage Kit, spread out against a white background. The full list of contents is included within the text description of the set. | Kinkly ShopA person in a brightly lit room is sitting on the floor with their legs spread. Between their legs is the case for the Blush Temptasia Safe Word Bondage Kit. They have the case opened to the camera, showcasing all of the items included within the Blush Temptasia Safe Word Bondage Kit hanging in the case. | Kinkly Shop
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