Collection: Collars & Leashes & Gags

What is a BDSM collar? A BDSM Collar (which is a bondage restraint that safely wraps around the neck) is a common part of kinky play for a lot of people. Not only is a BDSM collar extremely easy to use (just wrap it around the neck, check for tightness, and go!), but it also is extremely functional.

First off, a BDSM collar and leash offer a fantastic bondage option. Now that you have a bondage point around someone's neck, you have a new place to attach restraints. A BDSM leash is a common attachment to a collar (for leading your partner around!), but you can also get more creative. A BDSM leather collar can become the attachment point for any restrictive bondage - like tying your partner to their favorite chair, so they just ask permission to leave. Not only that, but it can be used as an attachment point for other pieces of bondage, so you can use nylon tethers to attach your partner's kinky cuffs and kinky restraints to the collar's O-ring itself.

Second off, a BDSM collar can have a lot of sentimental and intimate meaning. Our necks are one of the most personal (and vulnerable!) spots on our bodies. Slipping a piece of fabric around this area can feel highly charged. When you add the fact that BDSM collars are regularly represented in media and education as the "mark of ownership", this can be an extremely emotional activity.  (Read about how much a collar means to this writer.)

(Does that all sound amazing? Our 9 Tips for Choosing a Play Collar will help you select a BDSM collar that's best for you!)

If you're looking for sex collars, you've come to the right place! Our curated selection of the best BDSM collars means you'll find a great neck restraint - whether you're using it for self-collaring, purchasing it for a partner, or just want to create some sexy selfies. We especially recommend checking out our cute bdsm collar, our bdsm collar and leash, our bdsm collar with nipple clamps, our metal bdsm collar, our discreet bdsm collar, our pink bdsm collar, our bdsm collar for men, our bdsm posture collar, and many more! Most of our bdsm collars are beginner-friendly, so don't be afraid to pick from any of our collars; they can all be a great fit!

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Slut Talk Dirty to Me Collar. It's a slend, black collar that has multiple snap closures on the backside of the collar. On the front, the collar's text has the word written out in silver capital letters. | Kinkly ShopSlave Talk Dirty to Me Collar. It's a slend, black collar that has multiple snap closures on the backside of the collar. On the front, the collar's text has the word written out in silver capital letters. | Kinkly Shop
Kinkly Talk Dirty to Me Collars
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Sportsheets Saffron Breathable Ball Gag in front of a plain white background. The ball itself has three holes in it to make it easier to breathe through. | Kinkly ShopA person's mouth is wide open while their partner slides the Sportsheets Saffron Breathable Ball Gag into it. The ball looks particularly large in the person's mouth. | Kinkly Shop
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Spartacus Inflatable Penis Gag with the gag facing the camera. The penis-shape of the gag looks like the first two thirds of a biological penis, and this angle showcases the large, wide faceplate that the penis gag is attached to for comfort. The inflatation bulb can be seen in the background. | Kinkly ShopTop-down view of the Spartacus Inflatable Penis Gag laid out against a white background. The gag's strap is fastened as if it was fitted onto a person's head, and the penis gag protrudes inward to the invisible "wearer". The inflation bulb and cord hang outside of the gag with the squishy, inflation-ready bulb ready to inflate the gag at a moment's notice. | Kinkly Shop
Spartacus Spartacus Inflatable Penis Gag
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The Sportsheets Cougar Day Collar in front of a plain white background | Kinkly ShopA mannequin wears the Sportsheets Cougar Day Collar. The O-ring and chains hang in the front, looking like a piece of gorgeous statement jewelry in addition to being a collar. | Kinkly Shop
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In A Bag Ball Gag in front of a plain white background | Kinkly ShopThe In A Bag Ball Gag facing the camera, showcasing all of the holes in it designed to make it easily breathable. | Kinkly Shop
Doc Johnson In A Bag Ball Gag
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A person wears the Coquette White and Rose Gold Leash around their neck like a necklace. | Kinkly ShopCoquette White and Rose Gold Leash against a white background | Kinkly Shop
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Sportsheets Cougar Fur Collar & Leash in front of a plain white background. | Kinkly ShopThe backside of the Sportsheets Cougar Fur Collar & Leash. The collar has matching gold hardware with a standard fastening buckle. The leash matches in material color and metal. | Kinkly Shop

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