Collection: Collars & Leashes & Gags

What is a BDSM collar? A BDSM Collar (which is a bondage restraint that safely wraps around the neck) is a common part of kinky play for a lot of people. Not only is a BDSM collar extremely easy to use (just wrap it around the neck, check for tightness, and go!), but it also is extremely functional.

First off, a BDSM collar and leash offer a fantastic bondage option. Now that you have a bondage point around someone's neck, you have a new place to attach restraints. A BDSM leash is a common attachment to a collar (for leading your partner around!), but you can also get more creative. A BDSM leather collar can become the attachment point for any restrictive bondage - like tying your partner to their favorite chair, so they just ask permission to leave. Not only that, but it can be used as an attachment point for other pieces of bondage, so you can use nylon tethers to attach your partner's kinky cuffs and kinky restraints to the collar's O-ring itself.

Second off, a BDSM collar can have a lot of sentimental and intimate meaning. Our necks are one of the most personal (and vulnerable!) spots on our bodies. Slipping a piece of fabric around this area can feel highly charged. When you add the fact that BDSM collars are regularly represented in media and education as the "mark of ownership", this can be an extremely emotional activity.  (Read about how much a collar means to this writer.)

(Does that all sound amazing? Our 9 Tips for Choosing a Play Collar will help you select a BDSM collar that's best for you!)

If you're looking for sex collars, you've come to the right place! Our curated selection of the best BDSM collars means you'll find a great neck restraint - whether you're using it for self-collaring, purchasing it for a partner, or just want to create some sexy selfies. We especially recommend checking out our cute bdsm collar, our bdsm collar and leash, our bdsm collar with nipple clamps, our metal bdsm collar, our discreet bdsm collar, our pink bdsm collar, our bdsm collar for men, our bdsm posture collar, and many more! Most of our bdsm collars are beginner-friendly, so don't be afraid to pick from any of our collars; they can all be a great fit!