Collection: Collars & Leashes & Gags

What is a BDSM collar? A BDSM Collar (which is a bondage restraint that safely wraps around the neck) is a common part of kinky play for a lot of people. Not only is a BDSM collar extremely easy to use (just wrap it around the neck, check for tightness, and go!), but it also is extremely functional.

First off, a BDSM collar and leash offer a fantastic bondage option. Now that you have a bondage point around someone's neck, you have a new place to attach restraints. A BDSM leash is a common attachment to a collar (for leading your partner around!), but you can also get more creative. A BDSM leather collar can become the attachment point for any restrictive bondage - like tying your partner to their favorite chair, so they just ask permission to leave. Not only that, but it can be used as an attachment point for other pieces of bondage, so you can use nylon tethers to attach your partner's kinky cuffs and kinky restraints to the collar's O-ring itself.

Second off, a BDSM collar can have a lot of sentimental and intimate meaning. Our necks are one of the most personal (and vulnerable!) spots on our bodies. Slipping a piece of fabric around this area can feel highly charged. When you add the fact that BDSM collars are regularly represented in media and education as the "mark of ownership", this can be an extremely emotional activity.  (Read about how much a collar means to this writer.)

(Does that all sound amazing? Our 9 Tips for Choosing a Play Collar will help you select a BDSM collar that's best for you!)

If you're looking for sex collars, you've come to the right place! Our curated selection of the best BDSM collars means you'll find a great neck restraint - whether you're using it for self-collaring, purchasing it for a partner, or just want to create some sexy selfies. We especially recommend checking out our cute bdsm collar, our bdsm collar and leash, our bdsm collar with nipple clamps, our metal bdsm collar, our discreet bdsm collar, our pink bdsm collar, our bdsm collar for men, our bdsm posture collar, and many more! Most of our bdsm collars are beginner-friendly, so don't be afraid to pick from any of our collars; they can all be a great fit!

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The Kinklab Cock Ring and Chain Leash Set up against a white background. The leash is currently connected to the cock ring which is looped like it would be worn. | Kinkly ShopThe background of the image is a naked person wearing the Kinklab Cock Ring and Chain Leash Set. They are holding onto their own leash. Covering anything explicit is a picture-in-picture that shows the Kinklab Cock Ring and Chain Leash Set laid flat in front a white background. | Kinkly Shop
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The Master Series Gag Order resting on a flat surface in front of a plain white background | Kinkly ShopA person's mouth is open, sliding the Master Series Gag Order inside of it, showcasing the unique, mouth-filling design that has a full, comfortable resting place for the teeth once the gag is fully in the mouth. | Kinkly Shop
Master Series Master Series Gag Order
$82.95 $51.99
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Sportsheets Saffron Soft Bit Gag up against a white background. The red gag portion looks extremely soft and pillowy like a literal pillow for your mouth. | Kinkly ShopClose-up on the buckle of the Sportsheets Saffron Soft Bit Gag. This showcases the circular buckle on the buckle that allows you to lock the gag onto the head if desired. It will still fasten without the lock. | Kinkly Shop
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Creative Conceptions SEI MIO Twin Tweaks
$24.99 $19.99
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The Sportsheets Orbit Day Collar in front of a white background. It has a single O-ring on the center front, and the black material looks like it shines. | Kinkly ShopBackside of the Sportsheets Orbit Day Collar. It features a standard belt-buckle-style clasp in the back of the collar. The interior layer of the Sportsheets Orbit Day Collar has two rivets that can be felt by the wearer that help fasten in the O-ring on the front of the collar. | Kinkly Shop
Sportsheets Sportsheets Orbit Day Collar
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The Sportsheets Heart Day Collar in front of a white background. The collar is made up of heart-shaped designs along the entire length of the collar. | Kinkly ShopThe heart-shaped hex code key shown unlocking the two sides of the Sportsheets Heart Day Collar from one another. There's no clear buckle on the collar; just the discreet hex key lock spot. | Kinkly Shop
Sportsheets Sportsheets Heart Day Collar
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The Sportsheets Double Buckle Day Collarin front of a plain white background. It offers a beautiful fashion statement while simultaneously allowing for a wide range of adjustment. | Kinkly ShopTop-down view of the Sportsheets Double Buckle Day Collar showcases that the backside of the collar is a simple, single piece of faux leather. | Kinkly Shop
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Rainbow wrist cuffs, rainbow ankle cuffs, and rainbow collar all sit out to display the Master Series Kinky Pride Rainbow Bondage Set | Kinkly ShopA naked person wears the Master Series Kinky Pride Rainbow Bondage Set with rainbow leash | Kinkly Shop
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A mannequin head wears the Pivot In Your Face Strap-On. The strap-on harness has two behind-the-head straps to support the weight of the dildo in the front. | Kinkly ShopPcakaging for the Pivot In Your Face Strap-On | Kinkly Shop
Sportsheets Pivot In Your Face Strap-On
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Master Series Pussy Face gag with the vulva pointed directly at the camera | Kinkly ShopThe internal loop that forces the wearer's mouth open while wearing the Master Series Pussy Face. The locking loop on the locking buckle can also be seen. | Kinkly Shop
Master Series Master Series Pussy Face
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