Collection: Collars & Leashes & Gags

What is a BDSM collar? A BDSM Collar (which is a bondage restraint that safely wraps around the neck) is a common part of kinky play for a lot of people. Not only is a BDSM collar extremely easy to use (just wrap it around the neck, check for tightness, and go!), but it also is extremely functional.

First off, a BDSM collar and leash offer a fantastic bondage option. Now that you have a bondage point around someone's neck, you have a new place to attach restraints. A BDSM leash is a common attachment to a collar (for leading your partner around!), but you can also get more creative. A BDSM leather collar can become the attachment point for any restrictive bondage - like tying your partner to their favorite chair, so they just ask permission to leave. Not only that, but it can be used as an attachment point for other pieces of bondage, so you can use nylon tethers to attach your partner's kinky cuffs and kinky restraints to the collar's O-ring itself.

Second off, a BDSM collar can have a lot of sentimental and intimate meaning. Our necks are one of the most personal (and vulnerable!) spots on our bodies. Slipping a piece of fabric around this area can feel highly charged. When you add the fact that BDSM collars are regularly represented in media and education as the "mark of ownership", this can be an extremely emotional activity.  (Read about how much a collar means to this writer.)

(Does that all sound amazing? Our 9 Tips for Choosing a Play Collar will help you select a BDSM collar that's best for you!)

If you're looking for sex collars, you've come to the right place! Our curated selection of the best BDSM collars means you'll find a great neck restraint - whether you're using it for self-collaring, purchasing it for a partner, or just want to create some sexy selfies. We especially recommend checking out our cute bdsm collar, our bdsm collar and leash, our bdsm collar with nipple clamps, our metal bdsm collar, our discreet bdsm collar, our pink bdsm collar, our bdsm collar for men, our bdsm posture collar, and many more! Most of our bdsm collars are beginner-friendly, so don't be afraid to pick from any of our collars; they can all be a great fit!

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NS Novelties Cosmo Bondage Collar and Leash | Kinkly ShopPackaging for the NS Novelties Cosmo Bondage Collar and Leash | Kinkly Shop
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Spartacus Brown Collar and Leash laid out against a white background. The leash is connected to the collar. | Kinkly ShopThe Spartacus Brown Collar and Leash laid flat against a black background. The collar is completely flat and unfastened, and the leash handle is flat as well. The leash's chain connects the collar to the leash and is laying out flat. | Kinkly Shop
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Oxballs Watersports Gag shown up against a plain white background. The gag is shown around an invisible face to showcase how the straps would fit around a head. | Kinkly ShopTop-down view of a mannequin head wearing the Oxballs Watersports Gag. The gag offers a very large trough for liquid to go in with a tube that goes inside of the mouth. | Kinkly Shop
Oxballs Oxballs Watersports Gag
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The Strict Ball Stretcher with Leash up against a white background. The Ball Stretcher is shown connected to the leash to showcase how both of the pieces fit together. | Kinkly ShopBoth the Strict Ball Stretcher with Leash sit next to one another, unattached. This showcases how both straps of the Ball Stretcher come together for a single "D-ring" that the leash can be clipped onto. Since the two items come apart, this same design allows the Ball Stretcher to hang weights from it as well. | Kinkly Shop
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NS Novelties Electra Play Things Collar and Leash in Green. The attached leash is a chain leash, and the handle of the leash is black. | Kinkly ShopNS Novelties Electra Play Things Collar and Leash in Pink. The attached leash is a chain leash, and the handle of the leash is black. | Kinkly Shop
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A close-up of the Ple'sur Posture Collar which showcases the gigantic O-ring on the front of it as well as the very tall height of the collar that makes it a posture collar. | Kinkly ShopThe Ple'sur Posture Collar with its included chain leash attached to the large O-ring on the front of the collar. | Kinkly Shop
Plesur Ple'sur Posture Collar
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Kinklab Bondage Basics Leather Leash up against a plain white background. It looks like a single, long strip of leather with a looped handle (fastened by a rivet) on one end. On the opposing end, a loop with a rivet contains a metal fastener that is attached to a swivel-friendly metal clasp. | Kinkly ShopA couple using the Kinklab Bondage Basics Leather Leash. The bound partner is wearing a leash and kneeling in front of their partner. The standing partner is holding the leash which is clipped to the kneeling partner's collar. The kneeling partner looks surprised while the standing partner looks domineering. | Kinkly Shop
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Rouge Rouge Vegan Leather Ball Gag
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