The Wild Flower Enby 2 does everything the original did, but waterproofed and with more flexibility and power.
The Rating: 4/5
The original Wild Flower Enby took the world by storm. One of the first genderless vibrators, the Wild Flower Enby was specifically crafted to fit any body - and to pleasure whatever happened to be between your legs. With a surprisingly detailed design that managed to slide between penis stroking to partnered grinding to pegging pleasure with ease, it's no surprise that the Wild Flower Enby was such an amazing seller - and got some serious hype.
And, of course, when a company has a big seller, one of the next-biggest things they do is upgrade it - so it's even more awesome (and hopefully encourages some of the original Enby lovers to upgrade!) In this case, the Enby 2 was upgraded with a new motor (that's twice as powerful) as well as a softer, squishier silicone that's more flexible than the original Enby.
The Enby 2 also received a charging upgrade with a waterproof design (instead of a splashproof design like the original) and a magnetic charging port (instead of the plug-in charging port that was likely keeping the Enby from being waterproof on the first iteration).
The Wild Flower Enby 2 still comes with everything amazing people loved about the original Enby - like its physical design. The "wings" of the Enby 2 are still made from a super-flexible silicone while the vibrator lays flat for the perfect surface to grind against for clitoral stimulation.
The ridges along the "bottom" of the Enby 2 still function perfectly for penis stimulation when the Enby 2 is wrapped around a penis. Unlike some sex toy company upgrades, Wild Flower just upgraded the things that customers had requested - and left the best-selling base design alone.
So let's pack into my Wild Flower Enby 2 review:
How to Use the Wild Flower Enby 2
The neat thing about the Wild Flower Enby 2 is how gender non-specific it is. There is no "one use" for the Wild Flower Enby 2. Trying to write a "how to" manual for it would just be a bunch of question marks - and that's the point. The Enby 2 was designed to excel at multiple different things - and encourage you to explore the toy and/or your partner's body to figure out how things work best. (The Enby 2 still works well for solo play too!)
However, that doesn't mean you don't want some inspiration. Some of these "odd shaped" sex toys like this don't instantly bring uses to mind, so let me help you out there. Some of my suggestions for how to use the Wild Flower Enby 2 would include:
The Wild Flower Enby 2 can be slipped inside of a strap-on harness to provide pleasure to the harness-wearer during strap-on-sex.
You can slip the Enby 2 between your bodies in a Rider on Top position
The Wild Flower Enby 2 can be laid flat on any surface to grind on top of it.
Try lying on the Enby 2 when performing oral sex in a prone position
...or add a little buzz to your oral sex, giving and receiving!
The Wild Flower Enby 2's wings can "wrap" around a penis to provide vibrations perfectly-matched to your pleasure area.
How'd You Use It?
There are SO many different ways to use the Enby 2 vibrator. Instead of attempting to make a general list of how the vibrator feels, I'm going to separate it out into the different activities that we've used the Enby 2 for - and how well those activities went for us.
As a Hands-Free Vibrator
At this point, I think my favorite way to use the Enby 2 is as a hands-free vibrator. The Enby 2 easily slides into a pair of panties, and it'll stay pretty much exactly where you put it without requiring any specialized underwear or straps that are tight on your body. This means you can easily slide this vibrator into your underwear, lay back, and enjoy yourself while the vibrator does its job.
This makes for easy, great teasing during foreplay (like when I'm focused on my partner and don't have the hands to spare - but still want some pleasure of my own), and it also makes for really fun masturbation sessions. I can lay back and read a book or watch videos - or use my hands elsewhere - while still receiving pleasure from the Enby 2 without needing to actively "use" it. It also can easily slide into the underwear of anyone restrained with kinky restraints - for some low-key pleasure while you're doing other things to their body (like impact play).
I find that I actively need movement to orgasm alongside the vibrations of the Enby 2, so "laying back and enjoying" does all of the foreplay and prepwork for me, but I find that grinding against the Enby 2 is really where the orgasmic "magic" is for me. It feels good (and is great foreplay) with the vibrations alone, but it doesn't start hitting the orgasmic note unless I start grinding against it. Just pressing it against my body doesn't quite do it like a wand massager would. (This is coming from the woman who never uses the vibrations with the Rocks-Off Ruby Glow, though, and just uses grinding, so I'm definitely very pressure-heavy with my pleasure.)
Grinding on the Enby 2 on a Flat Surface
Laying the Enby 2 flat on a surface and grinding against it doesn't really work for me, but I'm 95% sure that's a "my body" thing and not the toy itself. Since I have a plushier vulva with more squish around the clitoris, it means I really need a taller, pronounced ridge to have good clitoral contact for grinding. For me, the Rocks-Off Ruby Glow is a much better fit (though still not great), and the Ruby Glow's pronounced area is almost twice and tall as the Enby 2.
THAT being said, even if it isn't as effective, the Enby 2 is always the grind-on vibrator we pull out for partnered play. While I do prefer the Ruby Glow for solo grinding, we've figured out that placing the Ruby Glow on my partner's body - and grinding on that - just hurts him. The edges are too sharp. That isn't the case with the Enby 2.
Since the edges of the Enby 2 are super-soft and super-flexible silicone, they don't hurt or press uncomfortably into the skin. This means that I can place it on my partner's body (like his thigh) and grind into it during foreplay or as our "main event".
As noted, it still isn't orgasmic for me unless I really get it between my labia, but it's actually pretty comfortable for him, and I could see this being a primary way that couples might want to use the Enby 2 - especially if one of them is particularly into grinding.
Strap-On Harness Use
I don't have the same "harder to orgasm" issue when using the Enby 2 in a strap-on harness. I think this is because of the pressure the dildo provides. Since the dildo presses down on the entire Enby 2 (including the pubic mound), I would guess that it, effectively, stimulates my clitoris for all-around pleasure. (Similar to using a full palm to press along the upper half of the vulva). The Enby 2 offers a slight pronunciation to try to hit my clitoris, but it isn't a good fit unless I really "spread" the labia to get it in there. That being said, it's still more pronounced than the BumpHer - and it offers vibrations too.
I will say that "getting it to align right" when using it in a strap-on harness does take a bit of time. We've found that it stays in place best when we're using a moderately stable sex position. For example, when it's him-on-top, he slides onto the dildo - then leaves some space between him and I for me to reach down and spread the labia and get the Enby 2 into a great spot. Then we can go the entire rest of the pegging session with the Enby 2 staying in the perfect spot for me.
That isn't necessarily the case with more active pegging sessions. Since there's nothing to really "hold" the Enby 2 in place under the strap-on harness, it can definitely wiggle around when the body is really active. I find I have to pause for more adjustments to keep the Enby 2 where I want it (if I actually want to orgasm off of it) during strap-on sex positions where I'm more active like doggy style or some of the more athletic options. (This one in particular). If I don't stop to adjust it, it's still pleasurable, but it isn't as simply orgasmic as if I had stopped to readjust the Enby 2 to where I needed it.
To Stroke a Peen
This is probably one of our least favorite ways to use it - though, admittedly, that may be because we have hundreds of toys specifically designed to pleasure a penis, no dysphoria about using them, and he generally prefers all-encompassing pleasure to single-area stroking and vibrations. He's the kind of person that really loves the Tenga Spinner and KIIROO KEON (review of the KIIROO KEON here), so while I was open to giving the Enby 2 a spin, I wasn't expecting a ton of success.
And "lukewarm" was effectively what we got. While he can definitely orgasm with it, it isn't nearly as fluid or functional as using it as a stroker. While the Enby 2 claims to have more flexibility than the original Enby for curling the vibe up into a stroking motion, it still doesn't translate into "easy to curl". It isn't impossible, but after about five minutes, your forearm gets tired - and it feels a bit like you're using one of those forearm muscle training squeezers more than a sex toy.
Then there's the lube issue. If you start actively stroking full strokes (and using the amount of lube that requires to not snag skin), it quickly starts to "spill over" the edges of the Enby 2. This then means you've lubricated the outside of the toy - and as soon as you do that, it's game over. The "outside" of the Enby 2 (when held as a penis stroker) is completely flat and smooth, and while it isn't hard to get the Enby 2 into a penis stroking shape, it isn't fluid either. This means your hands start slipping, your stroking gets pretty inefficient, and in our case, we generally give up and toss the toy onto the bed before he actually gets to orgasm from it.
To make the peen-stroking work well, I'd say you probably want to be someone who uses minimal amounts of lube and does minimal actual "stroking". If you're someone who is just going to wrap the vibrating Enby 2 around your penis for surrounding-the-shaft vibrations, you'll likely have a lot more luck than someone (like us) who prefers the full strokes of a penis stroker. I recommend ensuring you have good forearm strength or are comfortable unwrapping it sometimes to rest your forearm - otherwise, we fell in love with the Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Lux, and I'd highly, highly recommend that one if your sole goal is penis vibration.
How Else Could It Be Used?
Since the Enby 2 is waterproof, it can also be used in the shower or bath. We mostly enjoy its waterproof capabilities for easier cleaning, but it does open up aquatic ways to play. I could see this being fun to sit on if you had your own personal hot tub - or a bathtub that had a ledge on it for easy sitting.
While we haven't tried it that way, I could also see it being really simple to "sit" on the Enby 2 for vibrations around the anal area. Your mileage may vary on that depending on how much squish you have in your butt. A less-squishier butt will make it easier for the protruding Enby 2 bump to actually be able to touch your hole, but fluffing it up with some towels and spreading the cheeks before sitting may also increase success for squishier cheeks.
The Wild Flower Enby 2 is a long, flat vibrator that pretty much reminds you of a stingray. (My partner has taken to calling this a Stingray, and I'm 90% sure they're going to give it a pet name at some point). The "wings" of the Enby Two are thin and flat and flexible - while the "center" of the vibrator is much thicker, houses all of the vibration motors and moving parts, and is very rigid. While the edges of the Enby 2 vibrator are flexible and bendable, nothing about the toy is plushy or squishy. The entire toy is a very firm silicone.
As you move outwards towards the edge, there aren't any motorized parts, so it's all flexible silicone there. The 1" of silicone closest to the center is semi-flexible, but it feels thicker and more resistant to curling and flexing. The final 0.75"-ish along the edges of the Wild Flower Enby 2 is extremely flexible as a very-thin layer of silicone.
The Wild Flower Enby 2 has a really unique design - which is what makes it work as this "all-in-one vibrator" in the first place. Instead of being designed to pleasure just one area with one type of stimulation, the Wild Flower Enby 2 was crafted to pleasure multiple erogenous zones, and various features within the Wild Flower Enby 2 are focused specifically on that functionality.
- The very thin layer of silicone along the edges is to ensure that vibrator is comfortable when worn against the skin when moving around.
- The flexible design of the silicone-only "wings" of the Enby 2 are designed to "wrap around" cylindrical pleasure spots - like the penis.
- The three strips of edging texture along the "backside" of the vibrator are designed to add extra stimulation when the Enby 2 is used to stroke a penis.
- These underside ridges also help the toy stay in place for grinding against it on a flat, slick surface.
- The very thin, pronounced thickness at the tip of the vibrator is used to snuggle into small spots on the body for targeted stimulation - like against the anus or clitoris - during use.
The vibrations on the Enby 2 are focused at the tip of the vibrator that's slimmest in size. The entirety of that tip (and all of its sloped surfaces) seem to experience a similar amount of intensity from the vibrations. The vibrations can still be felt down the middle of the Enby 2 down the flat part of the vibrator, but it's a lot harder to feel the vibrations on the super-flexible "wings" of the Enby 2.
I'm really wondering what the vibrations were like on the first Enby because the Enby 2 is touted as having stronger vibrations - and I'm still not super sold on the intensity of the vibrations. I'd argue that the pleasure of the Enby 2 is in the design itself - and not necessarily in the vibrations. They aren't particularly weak, but they aren't super-strong either. I'd say the Enby 2's vibrations are stronger than average but not by a lot.