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What is the best harness to use with a "strapless" double dildo?

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What is the best harness to use with a "strapless" double dildo?

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Double dildos can be a bit daunting, especially because they are so frequently referred to as "strapless", implying that they are to be used without a harness. While that is possible, double dildos are designed with a bulb end that penetrates the wearer as well as the phallus, or what we would typically picture as the dildo to penetrate their partner. That takes a lot of strength, practice, dexterity and, frankly, is just a lot more challenging. I like pegging superstar Ruby Ryder's approach of referring to them simply as "doubles;" it takes away that expectation. Now, as far as good harnesses go, harnesses are often a matter of personal preference but my favorite recommendation is always the SpareParts Joque. It's comfortable (and keeps the wearing comfortable while using it), super-adjustable, looks great, and works with just about any dildo you throw at it.

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Written by JoEllen Notte
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JoEllen is a writer, speaker, researcher and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken on her award-winning site The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen is currently writing her first book: “The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having”

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