SEX TOYS AND PRODUCTS
The Ultimate Sex-Positive Gift Guide
Published: DECEMBER 4, 2018
| Updated: OCTOBER 25, 2021 09:47:23
24 sex-positive presents for the coolest people on your list.
It’s the merriest time of the season! We're all about sex toys here at Kinkly, and we've created a number of gift guides around them. But, well, sex toy gifts aren't a fit for everyone - and not everyone is into sex. So, here are 24 non-sex-toy gifts to give to your most sex-positive friends. Enjoy!
Reclaim the c-word with this fierce glittery vinyl clutch designed by Julie Mollo, designer, and stylist for Katy Perry.
Buy: $28.00 at Babeland
Exhausting Patriarchy Panties
Fighting the patriarchy is exhausting. Speak your mind with these super soft cotton panties.
Buy: $22.00 at Kidd Bell
"Color Me Swoon: The Beefcake Activity Book for Good Color-Inners as well as Beginners"
This coloring book is packed with 125 pages of fun activities and hunky penis-havers just waiting to be colored in.
Buy: $14.00 at Amazon
Randy’s Reproductive System Sweater
This statement-making sweater is a must-have for every sex-positive fashionista.
Buy: $198.00 at Rachel Antonoff
Queer Eye Fab Five Mug
Show off your love of the Fab Five with this cute mug that pays homage to the guys who make the world a better place, one episode at a time.
Buy: $10.86 at GiftGang
The Boob Pillowcase
Snuggle up and rest your head on these boob print pillowcases. They're made of fancy 230-thread count Pima cotton so you can bet you'll have sweet dreams.
Buy: $32.00 at GRAVEL & GOLD
Vadge of Honor Pin
Here’s one of my fave vulva stocking stuffers for my feminist besties.
Buy: $12.00 at People I’ve Loved
Golden Snatch Necklace
Instead of chasing after the Golden Snitch (à la Harry Potter), get your hands on this Golden Snatch necklace. Or, as I like to call it, the Flying Fuck. Whatever you call it, this flying vulva is a fab, empowering conversation piece.
Buy: $43.00 at ScrewUJewelry
Betty Dodson Cuntflower Tee
Best-known as the “Mother of Masturbation,” Dodson has fought to liberate female sexuality for more than four decades. Her books, "Liberating Masturbation: A Meditation on Selflove" (1974) and "Sex for One; The Joy of Self-Loving" (1987) are feminist classics. Her Bodysex workshops, where she teaches women to overcome sexual shame and connect with their orgasm, are legendary. This soft, stylish tee embodies Dodson’s mantra that masturbation is a meditation on self-love.
Buy: $40.00 at BettyDodsonDesigns
Cheeky Wrapping Paper by Pinky Weber
Make sure your presents are opened first with this hilarious, bootylicious wrapping paper.
Buy: $8.00 at Witchsy
Pronoun Lapel Pin
Pronouns are just as important as learning someone’s name. Using them correctly is a mark of respect and makes for good communication. Own yours (he/she/they) with this cute color wheel-style pin.
Buy: $10.00 at Babeland
Vibrator Tote Bags
Sex-positive icons, such as Samantha Jones ("Sex and the City") or Abbi ("Broad Street") have made it easier to talk about vibrators as a pleasure. Author and academic Lynn Comella raises sexual consciousness in her book "Vibrator Nation: How Feminist Sex-Toy Stores Changed the Business of Pleasure." Her cute totes, designed by Ryan Olbrysh, are a must.
Buy: $18.00 at Happy Orange
“Badass” Twiggy Signet Ring by My Story
For the fearless feminist in your life who isn’t afraid to tell it like it is (while acknowledging their privilege and not undermining other people’s experiences, of course) – this ring is for them.
Buy: $525.00 at Barney’s
“We Are All Babes” Crew
There’s nothing I love more than women supporting other women. I mean, we’re all in this together, right? Empower your favorite gal pal with this cute crew and propel her forward. We’re way more powerful as a kickass collective.
Buy: $79.00 at Brunette The Label
Remind the favorite feminist in your life of what a badass she is with stickers like, “I Am Deliberate and Afraid Of Nothing,” a feminist uterus or a “The Future Is Female.”
Buy: $3.00-$3.50 each at LittleWomanGoods
WANK – An Illustrated Guide of Female Masturbation
This 28-page book, focused on the magnificence that is female masturbation, takes 12 real-life confessions of the way women masturbate and illustrates it in striking line drawings. Basically, this book is all about the eye candy of female pleasure.
Buy: $4.76 at TheOysterKnife
Erika Lust’s Power Pussy Collection
I can’t pick favorites when it comes to Lust’s Pussy Power Collection. From the “Kink Is The New Black Tee” to her “Monogamy – It’s Overrated” tote, everything from the feminist porn director’s store is pretty fucking amazing. For sexy visual gift recipients, give a subscription to XConfessions, which is some of the best user-inspired, woman-produced porn on the web right now.
Buy: $38.25 and up, at ErikaLust
Safer sex is sexy sex. An easy way to break the ice on those safer sex conversation is with these straight-to-the-point condoms. Consent is essential. Model good behavior and healthy sexual habits with this fun take on contraception.
Buy: 99 cents each at SayItWithACondom
"Ultimate Guide to Bondage: Creating Intimacy through the Art of Restraint" by Mistress Couple
Most people can wrap their brain around vanilla sex. But the world of kink and fetishes is rife with myths, misconceptions and straight-up confusion. This book helps to demystify the world of bondage and is a great starting point for anyone wanting to explore pleasure and play with restraints.
Buy: $16.95 at Amazon