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The Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes of 2021

by TARA STRUYK
Published: NOVEMBER 8, 2021 | Updated: NOVEMBER 9, 2021
Sex bloggers provide sex education and solace that, in some cases, can't be found anywhere else. Here are some top picks for 2021.

Every October, we put out a call to readers to vote for their favorite sex blogs. We’ve run this list every single year since rolling it out in 2013 (please forgive the graphics - we were a brand-new site with VERY limited resources!)

Why did we even start doing this anyway? The impetus for launching the list came when we, a brand-new sex education website, sent out a call to our readers and friends to nominate us for a Best Websites list being advertised by Forbes. We didn’t expect to win, but we did think it might provide some visibility for our fledgling site.


However, even though we received dozens of responses from readers and supporters saying they’d voted for us, those votes and comments never appeared on Forbes’ site.

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Reality check. We were in the sex ed space and, as a result, there were a lot of places where we - and many others - just weren’t welcome.

And, frankly, we thought that was total BS. So, we decided to launch our own party. There is so much sex education needed out there and we wanted to not only help people find it, but to celebrate it. We also believed sex bloggers were on the forefront in this space, especially on topics like kink, BDSM, LGBTQ-friendly and inclusive content, and anything more mainstream publications considered too “taboo” to touch.

Speaking more personally, I also really believe in the mission behind this list. When we launched Kinkly, one of the things that inspired me is that I had gotten a lot of my sex ed online. Whereas in my own life questions about sex tended to met with a closed door, the internet was full of places that were informative, unbiased and open-minded. It made me feel empowered. And safe. It made feel like when I came to sex, I would be OK. And it made me think about how many other people out there need that, whether they want to learn about contraception, or pleasure, or orgasms, or kink, or just get the information from someone who understands what they were going through.

Sex Blogging Superheroes was designed to celebrate top bloggers and what they bring to the world as well as use our platform to show people that no matter who you are or what you're into, there's probably a resource out there for you. Please note that this list - any list - is just a snapshot of what's out there. You can find more awesome blogs in our more comprehensive Sex Blogger Directory. There are other great lists out there as well that might present a different perspective or flavor, including the lists run by Molly's Daily Kiss and Sexual Alpha.

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About 2021 Sex Blogging Superheroes

If you're unfamiliar with Sex Blogging Superheroes, new to the list and wondering how you got here, or want to be involved next year, you can find answers to your questions here. This year we'll be donating to each category winner's charity of choice. We hope this helps expand the good we and sex blogging community can do.

Have other questions about this year's list? Contact us here.

The Top 100 Sex Blogs of 2021

A Leap of Faith @thebarefootsub

A Sexual Being @KaylaLords

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A Shared Wife @ASharedWife

Arousibility @Arousability

Ask Carlos @AskCarlosTV

Ayzad - The Guide for Explorers of Unusual Sex @Ayzad

Backwoods Bedroom @bkwoodsbedroom

BDSM-COUPLE @BDSM_COUPLE

BedBible @BedBible

Bella LaVey

Betty Butch @betty_butch

bluesubmission

Bound Together @TogetherBound

Bridget Delaney @BrigitWrites

Cara Sutra @TheCaraSutra

Cleareyedgirl @_Masterseye

Deviant Succubus @DeviantSuccubus

Dildo or Dildont @Makeupandsin

Domme Chronicles @Ferns_

E.L. Byrne Writer @ELByrne1

Emma Austin @EmmaAus27418832

Erotic Scribes @ssshforwomen

f dot leonora @fdotleonora

Femdom Resource

Future of Sex @FutureofSex

Girl Boner @AugustMcLaughlin

Girl on the Net @girlonthenet

Girly Juice @Girly_Juice

Hedonish @hedonish

Her Dirty Little Heart @herdirtylittle

HerToysReview

Hey Epiphora @Epiphora

Holden and Camille @holden_cammie

In Bed With Married Women @Jill_Hamilton

Infernal Monkey @infernal_monkey

Insatiable Desire @RayneMillaray

Jayne Renault @jayne_renault

Joan Price Senior Sex Blog @JoanPrice

Joanne's Sex Machine Reviews @joannesreviews

Jupiter's Lair @GrantJupiter

Kelvin Sparks @kelvinsparks_

Kink Lovers @KinkLovers

Kinky World @mistress_kay

Kiss and Tell Magazine @kissandtellmag

Kitten Boheme @KittenBoheme

Knkstriped @ZebraRoseSub

Like a Porn Star

Liz BlackX @Lizblackx

Long Distance Fun

Love Hate Sex Cake @LoveHateSexCake

Love Letters to a Unicorn @auntievice

Love, Sex and Desire

Morag's Musings @MoggyMusings

Master's Pleasing Bitch @MPBjulie

Mischa Eliot, Smut Merchant @mischa_eliot

Miss Ruby Reviews @MissRubyReviews

Molly's Daily Kiss @Mollysdailykiss

Morgan Destera @MorganDestera

Naughty Nora

Nikki Nelson Writes @NikkiNWrites

Off the Cuffs Blog @ocpkink

Oh Joy, Sex Toy @ErikaMoen

On Queer Street @OnQueerStreet

On Her Back @On_Her_Back

Phallophile Reviews @PhallophileRev

Pillow Talk by Posy Churchgate @PosyChurchgate

Poly Land @PolydotLand

Pop My Cherry Review @dominadoll

Princess Previews @PrincessPreview

Rain DeGrey @raindegrey

Ruby Ryder's Pegging Paradise @Ruby_Ryder

Sex and Psychology @JustinLehmiller

Sex Blog (of Sorts) @sexblogofsorts

Sex for Every Body @sex4everybody

Sexpert.com @SexpertMedia

Sex Toy Collective @ST_Collective_

SexualAlpha @thesexualalpha

Sluttish @sluttishmedia

Slutty Girl Problems @sluttygrlprobs

Spanking Theatre @SpankingTheatre

Spices of Lust @spicesoflust

Submissive Blog @SubmissiveBlog

Submissive Feminist @SubFeminist

Submissive Guide @subguide

Sugarbutch Chronicles @mrsexsmith

Sunny Megatron @SunnyMegatron

Super Smash Cache @supersmashcache

Tabooless @TheTabooless

Temperature's Rising

The Bambi Biohazard @BambiBiohazard

The Big Gay Review @thebiggayreview

The Monogamish Marriage @Monogamish1

The Redhead Bedhead @JoEllenNotte

The Secret World of Cydney

The Sex Kitten

Toy With Me @ToyWithMe

Vanilla Free Sex @vanillafreesex

Venus O'hara @venusohara1111

What's My Body Doing @whatsmybodydoin

writingdirty @writingdirty

Reader's Choice Award

This award is based on a combination of readers' votes and Kinkly staff's evaluation of the blog's content. The winner of this category will receive a $250 donation to a charity of their choice.

Winner: Infernal Monkey @infernal_monkey

Girl on the Net @girlonthenet

Hey Epiphora @Epiphora

Naughty Nora

A Leap of Faith @thebarefootsub

Her Dirty Little Heart @herdirtylittle

Ruby Ryder's Pegging Paradise @Ruby_Ryder

Emma Austin @EmmaAus27418832

Girly Juice @Girly_Juice

Sugarbutch Chronicles @mrsexsmith

Ask Carlos @AskCarlosTV

Top New Sex Blog of 2021

This category is just for brand-new bloggers. These are blogs that are new to the scene and did not appear in last year's top 100. The winner of this category will receive a $100 donation to a charity of their choice.

Toy With Me @ToyWithMe

Top Sex Toy Review Blogs of 2021

This category celebrates the top blogs that include or focus on sex toy reviews. The winner of this category will receive a $100 donation to a charity of their choice.

Winner: Super Smash Cache @supersmashcache

Girly Juice @Girly_Juice

Hey Epiphora @Epiphora

Princess Previews @PrincessPreview

Miss Ruby Reviews @MissRubyReviews

Submissive Feminist @SubFeminist

Betty Butch @betty_butch

Nikki Nelson Writes @NikkiNWrites

Spices of Lust @spicesoflust

Phallophile Reviews @PhallophileRev

Top BIPOC Blogs of 2021

This goes to top bloggers who identify as BIPOC. We introduced this category in 2020 to help connect with blogs in this space.The winner of this category will receive a $100 donation to a charity of their choice.

Winner: Dildo or Dildont @Makeupandsin

Super Smash Cache @supersmashcache

The Perverted Negress @Mollena

Top LGBTQIA Blogs of 2021

This was a new category in 2018 and it's still going strong! We're looking to celebrate the best blogs with LGBTQIA content and/or writers. The winner of this category will receive a $100 donation to a charity of their choice.

Winner: Sugarbutch Chronicles @mrsexsmith

Girly Juice @Girly_Juice

Hey Epiphora @Epiphora

Ask Carlos @AskCarlosTV

Oh Joy, Sex Toy @ErikaMoen

Love Letters to a Unicorn @auntievice

Betty Butch @betty_butch

Top Blogs for/by Men 2021

In the sex blogging community, women and femmes tend to rule! This category is for blogs written by men and geared toward a male audience. The winner of this category will receive a $100 donation to a charity of their choice.

Winner: Sex and Psychology @JustinLehmiller

writingdirty @writingdirty

SexualAlpha @thesexualalpha

Infernal Monkey @infernal_monkey

Quickies in New York @Quickiesnewyork

Like a Porn Star

Femdom Resource

Top Erotica Blogs of 2021

This award goes to the top blog that includes erotica content (audio counts too!) The winner of this category will receive a $100 donation to a charity of their choice.

Winner: Girl on the Net @girlonthenet

Sugarbutch Chronicles @mrsexsmith

A Sexual Being @KaylaLords

writingdirty @writingdirty

Spices of Lust @spicesoflust

Spanking Theatre @SpankingTheatre

Jayne Renault @jayne_renault

Morag's Musings @MoggyMusings

Pillow Talk by Posy Churchgate @PosyChurchgate

f dot leonora @fdotleonora

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Tara Struyk

Tara Struyk is a co-founder and the editor-in-chief of Kinkly.com. She’s a content creation and management executive with 15 years of experience working in online media. As a writer, her work has appeared in dozens of publications, including Forbes, Glamour, MensHealth and Investopedia.

Tara is currently the VP of Content at Janalta.com, where she leads the editorial department and directs content production for a diverse portfolio of websites in niche verticals. She has launched several sites from the ground up, and has experience managing sites from pre-launch all the way to maturity. She has deep experience in online analytics, SEO optimization, content marketing and editorial direction.


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