It can be as simple as just moving your hips.
Getting Free From Desire
Sex and desire often relate to an end goal: ‘having’ a particular person, achieving that orgasm, or getting that release. Orgasms are great, but our sexual desires can leave us feeling needy, thinking that satisfaction is only possible if we ‘get’ a certain person, or have a good ending to goal-orientated sex.
Erotic dance is a way of simply enjoying the sexual pleasure of the moment. As I danced, I found some of the moves were quite a turn on. I experienced waves of sexual energy in my body. Yet, the process wasn’t linear or about getting to the end. I simply enjoyed the feelings that flowed through my body as I tried out the different moves.
A Boost in Libido
If you are experiencing low libido, this can sometimes be due to stress and exhaustion. Perhaps you want to connect with a partner and just can’t seem to get in the mood. The idea of pleasing someone else can seem overwhelming when you feel disconnected from your own sexual self. Erotic dance can be like a bridge acting as a way to help you connect with yourself so that you can then connect with another.
Sexual Pleasure in Itself
You know that feeling when a partner touches you in just the right spot that makes your body, mind, and soul sing? Well, what I realised through the practise of erotic dance is that you can experience that bliss for yourself...without a partner.
With masturbation, most people don’t think about caressing or enjoying their whole body. We tend to go straight to the pleasure points that cause orgasm. It can be mechanical, rather than sensual.
As I danced, I enjoyed being in my body in a sensual way. I noticed sensations of well-being in my hips, arms, and fingers, as well as the more obvious places!
So if you need a sexy boost to your day, check out Shaney Marie’s work. You will find that sexual pleasure is just a few dance moves away.