Head Rest Position

Updated: JUNE 25, 2021

The Head Rest sex position is an oral sex position most commonly used to facilitate fellatio.

Head rest sex position. The receiving partner is laying on the left hip with their knees spread. The giving partner is giving oral sex while using the bottom-most thigh as a pillow. The receiving partner holds a wand massager between the giving partner's legs.

To get into this sex position, the receiving partner should lie on their side with their top leg lifted up and moved slightly back so their ankle is slightly behind their bottom leg. The partner performing the oral sex can then lie facing the receiving partner, resting their head on the receiving partner's bottom leg.

As this position leaves the receiving partner's hands free, it is an great sex position for including sex toys. For example, in the image above, the receiving partner is using a wand massager, like the LELO Smart Wand Medium or Satisfyer Wand-er Woman, to stimulate the performing partner's clitoris. A penis stroker or penis vibrator could also be used on the giving partner. Smaller toys, like a Magic Wand Micro, can also be used, but the wide, open space in front of the giving partner means any sex toy size can be on the menu!

Including sex toys means both partners are receive stimulation instead of just one!

The receiving partner's leg acts as a head rest of their partner which is how the position got its name.

More About Head Rest Position

While in the Head Rest sex position, the performing partner is often much more comfortable and at a good angle to give oral sex compared to other positions, like the 69 position, which some find can cause neck soreness.

Besides incorporating sex toys into the position, the receiving partner can also manually stimulate their nipples or genitals. In addition, the Head Rest position makes it easy to maneuver into a side-by-side 69 position so both partners can orally stimulate each other or partners can simply switch positions and take turns pleasuring one another.



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