Then your partner says, “No” or they stop touching you altogether.
For those of us who enjoy that kind of play, it’s a delicious agony. Your body is tense and ready to orgasm. Your mind takes over, wills the rest of you to calm down, stop, don’t come. Then your partner begins again, bringing you to the edge. Believe me, it hurts so good.
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Big Orgasms Are Headed Your Way
I like edging for plenty of reasons - the power, the pain, the submission, the way my body feels as I’m being stimulated. My favorite part of edged orgasms, whether it’s for a few minutes, a few hours, or even days and weeks, is the ending. The first orgasm after being edged is an explosion.
After edging, every part of my body is more sensitive. The floodgates are opened, sometimes literally. Ever read some erotica or romance that talked about electricity, lightning, or fireworks at the point of climax? Those sensations are real, especially if the orgasm has been built up and denied for a while. For some, multiple orgasms occur more easily after this first one. For others, the one they have is so big, they melt into a puddle and don’t need anything else. Either way, it’s a big ending to a kinky game.
Edged orgasms are fun on multiple levels and hit several kinks. The important thing is to remember is that this is supposed to be fun. You won’t always succeeding in holding back your orgasm, and that's OK. It happens. Relax, try again, and enjoy the sensations, the power, the pain, or whatever other kink it hits for you.