Real-life erotic adventures outside of your own living environment may be off-limits right now, but there’s an unexplored world out there with erotic adventures of infinite potential.
How to Expand Your Online Erotic Adventures
Turn your computer or phone on, and get turned on with these suggestions for online pleasures.
With online resources you can explore different ways to touching yourself so that masturbation is much more than simply a quick fix for making up for a lack of partner.
Certified sex educator and sex/relationship writer Susannah Weiss has some awesome ideas. She recommends Emjoy: ‘’Through audio guides and teachings, users can find new techniques to try and discover what masturbation methods work for them.’’
Also check out OMGYES, ‘’a visual guide based on research on what kinds of touch people with vulvas like, with a virtual vulva you can try them out on. Great to do for masturbation or to hone fingering skills to please others.’’
Or if you’d like to use the extra time to really slow down and be present then check out Inscape ‘’a meditation app with specific meditations for getting into your body and feeling more sexual pleasure.’’
There’s never been a better time to take a more mindful approach to our sex lives.
Learn more in: Can Mindfulness Improve Your Sex Life?
Check out LitErotica.com or The Cliterature for some steamy erotic literature.Dipsea is a female founded startup with the belief that ‘’feeling turned on is more than a wind-up to sex. It’s a way to feel more alive, unlock confidence, and enhance intimacy. Dipsea empowers you to tap into those feelings whenever you damm well please!’’
So don’t let staying home stop you, the only thing you need to feel sexy is your own body.
Masturbation May is the perfect time to let your imagination run wild. Why not use the stories to inspire your own fantasy life and make a sexual bucket list!
Hosted by Burlesque dancer Michelle L’amour the Quarantine Cabaret is a show where nightclub performers from around the globe send in videos of acts from their homes. She features burlesque, magic, music, circus, drag etc, and also performs herself. Shows are free to watch and you can also tip the artists to support their work while they can’t earn a living in the real world.
Also hosted by Michelle L’amour is Barebookclub is a live nude literary salon coming to you via Patreon. The club just celebrated their 11 year anniversary. It originally started in Chicago and now has chapters all over the world. The readings can be from any genre. So if you want a nice bed time story or something heavy, it’s all there for you for $9/month.
PleazeMe is a virtual world full of chat forums, messaging, sexy curated stories, articles and entertainment. This is a place where you can meet new like-personal support and healthy doses of erotic exhilaration.
PleazeMe’s platform offers many of the same features found in popular social media apps, including, user feed posting, commenting, friend suggestions, private messaging, allowing you to explore and connect.
Direct Erotic Visualisation
This is a method of sensual hypnosis that allows you to go beyond simply reading or listening to a fantasy, and immerse yourself into the experience fully body and mind, and perhaps even allow you to experience hands free orgasm!
Check out Club E-Sensual on Patreon, where for small monthly fees you can take a deep dive into this world of bringing imagination to life.
Calls, Messages and Teledildonics
Whether it’s with a current partner or someone new you meet online, technology gives you the chance to have all sorts of erotic encounters without being in the same room together.
Video sex or sexting allow you to share sexual pleasure together in visual or verbal form, and teledildonics - using sex toys that can be remotely controlled by a partner, adds in a kinaesthetic element.
Check out sexting apps, likes Dust and Confide, that have security options like preventing screenshots being taken and messages that automatically disappear within 24 hours. Self-isolation can be like on long foreplay session before meeting or being reunited with a lover in person.
Learn About Tantra and Spiritual Sexuality
Online resources can actually be a springboard to turning off the technology and exploring the infinite sexual potential of your own body instead. Learning Tantra can allow you to increase your capacity for pleasure and find that sometimes enjoyment is about doing less with more presence, rather than doing more.
Many Tantra teachers are now bringing their resources online, offering group courses or 1-1 support. Check out Sofia Sundari , Laurie Handlers, and Helena Nista, who is currently offering her Tantra for Beginners course completely free!
Staying home doesn’t have to get in the way of your sexual energy flowing or experiencing orgasmic bliss. You might want to spend your time doing DIY and jigsaw puzzles, or you could surf the endless web-induced waves of sexual ecstasy.
Kate Orson is a freelance writer, and author of Tears Heal: How to listen to our children. She writes, about self-help, parenting, and more recently, sex! She is currently working on a memoir; A Cut in The Brain, about her experience of having the LEEP procedure, and her recovery from side effects that doctors didn't warn her about.