Ascent to desire is a somewhat advanced sex position that requires strength and balance. To get into this position, the giver should stand with their feet shoulder-width apart, and the receiver should stand facing them. Once the receiver wraps their arms around their partner's neck, the giver holds the receiver up as they wrap their legs around the standing giver's waist.
Some couples may find it difficult to get into this position while standing. An easier option would be to start in a sitting position, with the giver on the edge of a bed or chair and the receiver straddling them, similar to the cowgirl position.
The giver can then stand up as they hold onto their partner's thighs or butt. To make this position even easier, the receiver can help by planting her feet on a bed or table, which will help support some of her weight.
