Ducky is a Certified Sex Educator and a Sexual Assault & Violence Intervention Counselor. She brings a warm, nonjudgmental, holistic (whole body) approach to sexual wellness.
She is also the author of Sex with the Lights On: 200 Illuminating Sex Questions Answered. Ducky has been featured with Playboy, The New York Times, The History of Sex on the History Channel, NPR, HBO, MTV, Vice, ABC News, and MSNBC, to name a few.
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Everyone is different in what excites them, but there are five points on the female pleasure anatomy that are well worth exploring. When I...Read More
There are lots of different sex toy materials out there and, as you said, some are not so good for our bodies. Beyond materials like wood,...Read More
Sex toys have been around for a very long time - and we have the artifacts to prove it! Read the news and you will see - it seems like you...Read More
Here's the truth: Having painful vaginal penetration may be common for some, but it should never become the norm for you. If penetrative...Read More
First, I think you have to recognize that your fear around BDSM and some of the things it involves probably comes from a real place. If...Read More
Embarrassment can be a very natural and normal response. I recommend developing a balance of being both honest and private. Let them know...Read More
You are smart to ask this question. Paddles might seem like a no-brainer to some people, but not so. Size, shape and material can all have...Read More