Ducky Doolittle

Ducky DooLittle is a pleasure-based sex educator and the resident sex toy expert for Blush Novelties and Sola. She also leads the marketing team, does some sex toy design work, tests prototypes and brings pleasure to the world! She's also a certified Sexual Assault and Violence Intervention Counselor and the author of "Sex With the Lights On: 200 Illuminating Sex Questions Answered." Ducky has appeared in the New York Times, HBO's "Real Sex", "The Morning Show", MTV, NPR, "The Howard Stern Show" and Playboy TV.

She loves to bake, cook, garden, make things and write.

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Articles by Ducky Doolittle


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there’s a lot more to navigating menopause than just whipping out the lube bottle and hoping for the best. We bust some myths and provides...

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It's still possible to find joy in your body after experiencing trauma. Here are some things that might help.

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Whether they're big and bouncy or cute and pert, breasts - and their nipples - have a lot in common. But they're also all a little bit...

Sex Toy Review: Liberator Flip Ramp Sex Toy Review: Liberator Flip Ramp Sex Toy Review: Liberator Flip Ramp Sex Toy Review: Liberator Flip Ramp


This product really inspires creative, comfortable, playful sex. Learn more about it in the this full review of the product and features.

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Your hands are so sexy, but are you using all the petting possibilities available to you? Check out these petting possibilities.

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About 75 percent of men are foreskin free, which means that there are quite a number of women who may not have a lot of experience with the...

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Whether you're wooing a new lover or spicing things up with an old one, flirting can be a great way to send a sublte message - with major...

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Anal sex can be healthy - and orgasmic - but only if you do it right. Here are some things you shouldn't do.

Q&A by Ducky Doolittle


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Desire; desire is the first thing because you’re dealing with muscles that you have to have the ability to relax, and if you can...

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Here's the thing: People are built to either have sex or go pee, but not do them at the same time. If you did have big muscular...

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Maybe the toy doesn't work for you. That's totally OK - all bodies are different. But I always tell people that if they haven't...

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If it only happens occasionally, you are likely normal and healthy. In fact, this is likely just your partner hitting up against your...

What are the major sexual hot spots on a female body? What are the major sexual hot spots on a female body? What are the major sexual hot spots on a female body? What are the major sexual hot spots on a female body?


Everyone is different in what excites them, but there are five points on the female pleasure anatomy that are well worth exploring. When I...

I've heard that some sex toy materials are dangerous. Which sex toy materials are good and which are not so good? I've heard that some sex toy materials are dangerous. Which sex toy materials are good and which are not so good? I've heard that some sex toy materials are dangerous. Which sex toy materials are good and which are not so good? I've heard that some sex toy materials are dangerous. Which sex toy materials are good and which are not so good?


There are lots of different sex toy materials out there and, as you said, some are not so good for our bodies. Beyond materials like wood,...

Are sex toys a new thing or have people been using them for a long time? Are sex toys a new thing or have people been using them for a long time? Are sex toys a new thing or have people been using them for a long time? Are sex toys a new thing or have people been using them for a long time?


Sex toys have been around for a very long time - and we have the artifacts to prove it! Read the news and you will see - it seems like you...

Do most people experience pain during intercourse? Isn't it just inherently painful? Do most people experience pain during intercourse? Isn't it just inherently painful? Do most people experience pain during intercourse? Isn't it just inherently painful? Do most people experience pain during intercourse? Isn't it just inherently painful?


Here's the truth: Having painful vaginal penetration may be common for some, but it should never become the norm for you. If...

I know BDSM is all the rage, but the idea of tying someone up and spanking them totally freaks me out! Am I abnormal, or what? I know BDSM is all the rage, but the idea of tying someone up and spanking them totally freaks me out! Am I abnormal, or what? I know BDSM is all the rage, but the idea of tying someone up and spanking them totally freaks me out! Am I abnormal, or what? I know BDSM is all the rage, but the idea of tying someone up and spanking them totally freaks me out! Am I abnormal, or what?


First, I think you have to recognize that your fear around BDSM and some of the things it involves probably comes from a real place. If...

How can I convey to my children that I have sexual feelings and thoughts without embarrassing them? How can I convey to my children that I have sexual feelings and thoughts without embarrassing them? How can I convey to my children that I have sexual feelings and thoughts without embarrassing them? How can I convey to my children that I have sexual feelings and thoughts without embarrassing them?


Embarrassment can be a very natural and normal response. I recommend developing a balance of being both honest and private. Let them know...

What household items make good sex toys? What household items make good sex toys? What household items make good sex toys? What household items make good sex toys?


Spontaneity and creativity can be some of the very best driving forces of BDSM play. This is why household items are so easily adapted into...


Ben Wa balls are just that, balls. They are designed for vaginal insertion, and holding them inside the body for a period of time can bring...

What kind of lubricant should I use for anal sex? What kind of lubricant should I use for anal sex? What kind of lubricant should I use for anal sex? What kind of lubricant should I use for anal sex?


An online poll of my friends and fans showed the anal sex favorites to be Sliquid Sassy and Maximus. But please note that lube is a...


You are smart to ask this question. Paddles might seem like a no-brainer to some people, but not so. Size, shape and material can all have...

What's the best way to keep sex interesting? What's the best way to keep sex interesting? What's the best way to keep sex interesting? What's the best way to keep sex interesting?


You want more licking, rubbing, thrusting, hips pointed up to the ceiling super-hot sex? I’ve got some ideas on how to create more of that...


Fear of poopage (I made that word up!) during anal sex is a major inhibitor for some people. Let me help you better understand how your...


The simple answer? No. Can you have multiple orgasms? Perhaps. Every orgasm is unique to the woman experiencing it. Some women will be...


Every woman produces ejaculatory fluid. It differs from urine, and comes from the Skene's gland sometime around orgasm. Now, does that mean...


Every guy will give you a different answer. His favorite sex position depends upon how your bodies are shaped, how your pleasure anatomy...


Some guys are very adamant about wanting their partners to swallow their ejaculate. Other guys just want their partner to do exactly what...

Help! I need some foolproof hand job tips! Help! I need some foolproof hand job tips! Help! I need some foolproof hand job tips! Help! I need some foolproof hand job tips!


If you are touching him and paying attention to his response, he will guide you. If he says something feels good, trust him. Beyond that, I...

Why is anal sex still taboo? Why is anal sex still taboo? Why is anal sex still taboo? Why is anal sex still taboo?


Anal sex is not taboo for everyone, but it may be taboo to some for various moral or emotional reasons. For example, some people believe...

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You are one of those awesome lovers who will give your partner pleasure despite your own discomfort. I really hope your partner has the...

What can I do to help my partner maintain his erection? What can I do to help my partner maintain his erection? What can I do to help my partner maintain his erection? What can I do to help my partner maintain his erection?


Issues with his erection are almost always a side effect of a greater problem. The number one thing that has an impact on the health of a...

How quickly can a guy get another erection after ejaculating? How quickly can a guy get another erection after ejaculating? How quickly can a guy get another erection after ejaculating? How quickly can a guy get another erection after ejaculating?


You have been lucky. What you refer to as "lag time" is sometimes called the refractory period. This term is used to describe the amount of...

What is a sex educator? What is a sex educator? What is a sex educator? What is a sex educator?


Understanding sex is a life skill. I often associate the understanding of sexuality with having an understanding of food and cooking or...

Are there different types of female orgasm? Are there different types of female orgasm? Are there different types of female orgasm? Are there different types of female orgasm?


Do a search for "types of female orgasms" and you will easily find lists and lists of types of female orgasm. Experts and authors speak of...

Do you have any tips for coaching a guy who isn’t great in bed? Do you have any tips for coaching a guy who isn’t great in bed? Do you have any tips for coaching a guy who isn’t great in bed? Do you have any tips for coaching a guy who isn’t great in bed?


Studies show that the number one way we all learn about sex is through gossip. It’s not true for every guy, but the second most popular way...

Can I increase the sensitivity of my clitoris? Can I increase the sensitivity of my clitoris? Can I increase the sensitivity of my clitoris? Can I increase the sensitivity of my clitoris?


You probably can. If you've never had a lot of sensation or any sensation in your clitoris, I must ask if you've ever had a pelvic injury...

What is the swing lifestyle? What is the swing lifestyle? What is the swing lifestyle? What is the swing lifestyle?


Yes, I can! Keep in mind that every party will be a little different. I can give you enough insight to help you navigate your way around...

Do men have control over when they orgasm and ejaculate? Do men have control over when they orgasm and ejaculate? Do men have control over when they orgasm and ejaculate? Do men have control over when they orgasm and ejaculate?


This depends on the guy. Some men have a lot of control. Other guys have to spend time and energy to gain control over this natural...

How can I orgasm from penetration alone? How can I orgasm from penetration alone? How can I orgasm from penetration alone? How can I orgasm from penetration alone?


Most women don’t orgasm from penetration alone. You may be able to learn to orgasm purely from penetration. If not, you will at the very...

How exactly does one massage a guy’s prostate? How exactly does one massage a guy’s prostate? How exactly does one massage a guy’s prostate? How exactly does one massage a guy’s prostate?


You can massage a man's prostate from the outside or the inside of his body. And, yes, I'm talking about his butt here. Why would you want...

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Nope. This will never happen. Sex toys are awesome tools. If you find a strong toy you love and use it vigorously, you may experience a...