I'm dating a man with a small penis. What can I do to make sure that I have an orgasm?

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Q:

I recently started dating a guy that I really like after getting out of a long-term relationship. He’s perfect in every way. There’s only one problem. He has a really small penis. It’s not like I need a huge penis to be satisfied, but I also have been able to orgasm with past partners. It's not happening with my new partner! What can I do in bed to up my chances of the big-O?

A:

You do have some options. You can always opt to touch yourself during sex. Clitoral stimulation can be a big help. There are also a lot of positions that can make a penis feel bigger or can hit specific areas of the vaginal cavity. That can help with g-spot stimulation.

Doggie-style is a good position. A couch arm or just using pillows for underneath your stomach and breast area can raise you up enough to make it feel like he's bigger than he is.

You can orgasm in other ways besides penetration. He can go down on you. Just don’t say that he has to do it because he has a small penis. Don’t ever say that. You can both engage in mutual masturbation. You have a lot of options. It just requires that you figure out what you want to try and do it. You don't need to mention his penis size. That can cause more problems.

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