My wife wants to use a strap-on. Does that feel good for men?

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Q:

My wife and I have a healthy sex life. We're always trying new things. Recently, she told me that she wants to use a strap-on with me. Honestly, it's freaking me out a little bit. I'm willing to give it a try, but I'm worried it might hurt. Does it even feel good for men?

A:

The simple answer is yes, it can feel good for men. Men have a prostate that is located inside of them and it feels incredible when it is stimulated. It's sometimes called the male g-spot.

You should definitely explain to your wife how you feel. It sounds like it's the first time for both of you to try pegging. One tip I would suggest is to pick a strap-on that is thin and smooth. You could check out some of our Vac-U-Lock options. The platinum line is great. We have some items in there that are specifically made for pegging purposes because of how thin and smooth they are.

Use a lot of lube and really warm up to something like this. Communicate with your wife during the entire process and go slow. Only start with a couple of inches. You do not necessarily have to use the full length.

Agree on a safe word. However, it shouldn't be a word like "Ouch." Make it something that the two of you aren't necessarily going to say when you're both in the mood.

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