5 Ways to Use a G-Spot Vibrator (That Have Nothing to Do With Your G-Spot)

Published: JUNE 11, 2019 | Updated: JUNE 17, 2019 09:11:30

G-spot vibrators are far more versatile than their name implies.

Ah, the G-spot. Its abilities have been called “controversial,” but if you’ve ever enjoyed yours, you know that’s BS. Whether you like the sensation or not, that spongy spot of tissue on the front side of the vaginal wall is an orgasmic area for some. It’s now believed to be an internal portion of the clitoris, and those who love G-spot stimulation will tell you it delivers a deeper, full-body sort of orgasm. G-spot stimulation also tends to be what leads to squirting, for those among you who can perform that cool trick.

When it comes to stimulating your own G-spot, doing it without a toy can get awkward, especially if you have short arms, a long torso, a larger body or some combination thereof. The good news is, G-spot toys do a great job of hitting this spot juuust so. That’s because they tend to be shaped like this:

LELO MONA 2 is a highly regarded G-spot vibe. It's available at Inidgo Honey.

Or this:

The Key by Jopen Comet II has a great shape for G-spotting, and works well as a vibrator or dildo. Get it at Indigo Honey.

Or this:

The So Exquisite G-spot vibe has a full shape for outstanding internal pleasure. Get it at Indigo Honey.

Can you see what these have in common? They all have a bulbous, curved head designed to press up against and massage that glorious G-spot.

If you’re into G-spot play, you may already know this. If you aren’t (or aren’t sure yet), you might assume that a G-spot vibrator isn’t for you.

But … you might be wrong about that.

In fact, G-spot vibrators are really versatile and can be great for a whole range of people and fun activities that have nothing to do with the G-spot. Here are a few of our favorite perversions.

Clitoral Vibe on a Stick

Most clitorises dig vibration but not all clitoris owners dig the shape of most vibes marketed as “clitoral vibes.” In general, these vibrators tend to be the kind you can hold in the palm of your hand, like the We-Vibe Touch or Clandestine Mimic. And while these easy-to-hold vibes can be awesome, they aren’t easy-to-hold for everyone. Depending on your arm length, body shape or physical limitations, it might be uncomfortable - or downright impossible - to apply these little vibes to your bits.

With a G-spot vibe like the Sensuelle Pearl or We-Vibe Rave or Sola Cue, you get some extra reach and an ergonomic angle for applying vibration to the clitoris. These vibes tend to be pretty powerful too!

Prostate Player

When it comes to stimulation, P-spots and G-spots have a lot in common. While the G-spot is located about 3 inches inside the vagina, the prostate, or P-spot, can be found (you guessed it) about 3 inches inside the anus, also toward the front side of the body. What that means is that a lot of G-spot toys work great on the P-spot too!

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A toy like the Lavish Attention Clitoral & G-Spot Vibrator could work nicely here, as would the SenseMax Sensevibe.

Just be sure that any toy you choose for anal play has a wider base or something to anchor it outside the body. Unlike the vagina, which ends at the cervix, the anus attaches to the rectum which attaches to your colon. And, guys, your colon is about five feet long, which means anything you put up your butt can travel to the point that you’ll need to have it removed at the hospital. You have been warned!

Couples Vibes

Using a vibrator while having partnered sex can be awesome, but it can also be awkward. The question is always how to press your body against your partner’s while still finding a way to get that vibrator in there? A G-spot vibrator can be one way to do it. For example, imagine Cowgirl position or Doggy Style. A G-spot vibe has just the right angle to make getting at your junk a lot easier and more comfortable. You’re welcome!

Getting Your Squirt On

OK, so this one will involve your G-spot, but many people don’t know how to use a vibrator for the best results here. For many people, enjoying G-spot play requires:

Gradual warm-up (often involving clitoral stimulation)
Increasingly intense G-spot stimulation

Very intense G-spot stimulation

The right kind of G-spot vibrator can be perfect for the whole job. You can use it on your clitoris, move on to increasing levels of internal vibration to ramp things up and then - THEN - you can thrust with your vibrator and use it as a dildo to finish the job. You know, if you want to. It’s not for everyone. But if it’s for you, oh boy. The Jopen Comet II is a great tool for this.

Parts Unexplored

If you’ve never applied vibration to nipples, thighs, testicles or pretty much any other erogenous zone you’re into, you might be missing out. So drag the toy around. Test the waters. See what feels good to you (and/or your partner). G-spot vibes tend to have several settings at both ends of the spectrum to please all parts and all people. G-spot vibes tend also tend to have good, powerful vibes and their curved head allows you to reach them to all kinds of places. So, they can be excellent tools for showing those other bits some love too.

G, That Feels Good …

G-spot vibrators are great for G-spotting, but even if that isn’t your thing, these vibrators are far more versatile than their categorization implies. Plus, as long as you’re keeping safety in mind, there’s no wrong way to use any sex toy. So get creative and find the way that works best for you.

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