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5 Top Gifts That Your or Your Partner’s Vulva Will Fall in Love With

Published: JANUARY 20, 2021 | Updated: JANUARY 21, 2021
These vulva pleasing toys are the gifts that will get you purring!

Shopping for a gift for yourself or a partner with a vulva? With so many pleasure-inducing options on the sex-toy market, it can be hard to know where to start or what to choose.


Have no fear! We’ve got five great gift ideas from Wet for Her that are sure to delight vulva-lovers everywhere (and just in time for all those lovely Valentine's Day sales!).

1. The Shagger

The Shagger is a soft, textured cover designed to surround the base of a dildo. It’s made from high-quality, body-safe silicone and lined down the middle with a row of flexible tips that rub against the vulva of the wearer of the dildo during harness play. This provides the person penetrating with stimulation to their clit and labia so they and their partner can feel pleasure simultaneously.

Though the Shagger does not come with a dildo, it will fit around the base of most dildos on the market and is compatible with both open O-ring and underwear harnesses. It’s easy to clean with mild soap and water, and can safely be boiled for up to three minutes for extra sterilization if desired. It’s phthalate-free, hypoallergenic, and is shipped in discreet packaging to protect the buyer’s privacy.


The Shagger is made from silicone and therefore not compatible with silicone lube, so use your favorite water-based formula while playing with this toy. For extra eye-popping pleasure, harness-wearers can slip a bullet vibrator inside the Shagger and get their buzz on. You might also consider using the Shagger to cover the head of a wand vibrator, either alone during masturbation or with a partner.

The Shagger sex toy

2. The Finger Extender

The Finger Extender is a soft, flexible silicone toy made to accommodate up to three fingers. Inserted inside the vagina, it offers potential for deep stimulation that you wouldn’t be able to achieve with fingers alone. It’s phthalate, latex, paraben, and fragrance-free and easy to clean with mild soap and warm water.


The Finger Extender is not just great for G-spot play, but A-spot and cervical stimulation as well. Unlike a dildo, this toy provides users with full control of the sensations it delivers. If you or your partner are fans of fingering, grab your favorite water-based or mixed formula of lube and dive in!

Finger extender sex toy

3. The Union

The Union is a double-ended dildo, also referred to at times as a strapless strap-on. The wearer inserts the ‘bulb’ of the toy into their vagina and holds it in place by squeezing the muscles of the pelvic floor. They then use it to penetrate their partner with the elongated end, which can be bent to fit the unique anatomy of any body. The Union also comes with a small 5-speed bullet vibrator that can be incorporated into play for extra fun.


Like our other suggestions, the Union is known for its body friendliness. It’s made from high-grade medical silicone free of phthalates, latex, parabens, and fragrances. It’s also harness compatible and should be used with either a water-based or hybrid lubricant. The Union is also known for “staying put” more firmly than some double-ended dildos, which tend to slip or move around at times. With the toy securely held inside the vagina, it can be used for all types of fun, from vaginal to anal to oral play.

The Union Sex toy


4. The Joque Harness & Fusion Dildo Pack

This harness-and-dildo kit is a favorite among strap-on fans. The two-strap harness, made from lightweight, breathable materials, can be slipped on and off like underwear and is easy to adjust. It has an O-ring that’s stretchy and flexible, accommodating nearly all dildo sizes. You won’t have to search for a separate dildo with this kit, however, as the Fusion is included in the pack. The Fusion has a smooth, glossy feel and features an ergonomic base with contour curves designed to stimulate the clit during play.

Made from medical-grade silicone, the Fusion dildo is compatible with hybrid and water-based lubes. It’s composed of materials free of phthalates, latex, paraben, and fragrances. The harness is completely machine washable and easy to store. It also has two nifty internal pockets that accommodate small bullet vibrators. Like the Union, this toy is suitable for all types of bedroom fun.

Joque Harness and dildo fusion


5. The WowHer Clitoris Ring Vibrator

The WowHer has a ring at its base that’s made to slip over the shaft of a dildo. Then, the 5-mode bullet vibrator can be activated inside its sheath to provide clitoral stimulation during penetration. It’s compatible with dildos with diameters ranging from 0.8 inches to 2.4 inches, but can also be slipped over two or three fingers for hand-controlled play. The vibrator is USB rechargeable with a running time of one hour. Though not fully waterproof or submersible, the product is splash proof and therefore suitable for more slippery forms of fun. Made from medical-grade silicone, this toy is both body friendly and easy to clean.

This product is particularly fun for users who prefer strong vibrations. It’s also great for receivers who have trouble climaxing through penetrative sex alone. With the bullet vibe buzzing against the clit, reaching climax during strap-on sex becomes attainable.

WowHer Sex Toy

Give these products a try and see which you like best!

Molly Lazarus

Molly Lazarus is a kink and sexuality writer based in the Bay Area. She dreams of a world where consent-loving hedonists can explore the depths of their depravity without fear of persecution or sexual abuse.

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