How to Use the nJoy Pure Wand
You might be looking at the Pure Wand right now, wondering how on Earth you’re supposed to use it. Aside from my favorite answer - however you want - I have a few specific suggestions, and I’ll also let you know what worked for me. (Get a G-spot warm-up in The 4 Basic Steps to G-Spot Bliss.)
The Light Thrust
If this is your first time using the Pure Wand or if you’re not sure exactly where your G-spot is, lightly and slowly thrusting will help you figure it out. I thought I knew where my G-spot was, but this move proved me wrong! It was actually a little bit deeper than I anticipated. A light, gentle thrust is perfect for warming up. Just focus on getting your blood flowing, finding the right spot and getting into a rhythm.
As the name implies, this move is all about the flick of the wrist. Instead of thrusting, you twist the Pure Wand from side to side while gripping whichever bulbed end is not inside of you (or your partner). While this wasn’t my favorite, it produced some unique sensations and seems to work for a lot of people.
Less intense than the Twist but more interesting than the Light Thrust, the See-Saw is also easy on your joints. I like to find my G-spot first, and then begin gently bouncing the toy up and down. As you push down on the exposed bulbed end, the internal bulb will press up against your G-spot (or prostate) and create an amazing feeling of pressure and fullness.
Alright, so you’ve been lightly thrusting, you’ve twisted, you’ve see-sawed, and you think you’re about to see the light at the end of the tunnel. You need pressure and speed and you need it now. Jack away, my friends! This is how some bloggers achieve vaginal ejaculation (aka squirting).
For me, the ultimate combination was light thrusting and the See-Saw. When I found my G-spot, I experienced sensations that no other toy has brought me. With less precise toys, I end up feeling pleasantly full, wet, and, well, like I have to pee. It’s great in combination with clitoral stimulation, but it’s not something I crave on its own. But with the Pure Wand, it was just ... different. I use the smaller end, because I prefer smaller insertables, and the way that it targets my G-spot is like nothing else. It’s very hard to describe aside from hell yes! It’s a sensation that I actually find myself craving, as opposed to just a side dish for the main course of clitoral vibration.
Of course, I do find that the Pure Wand experience is improved with the addition of a vibrator. I cannot (yet, maybe ever) have an orgasm from G-spot stimulation alone. Sorry, Freud, it ain’t happening. But spending some time with just the Pure Wand and then adding one of my favorite vibrators to my clit produces some amazing, immersive, surround-sound orgasms.
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The product was provided by PleasureTease in exchange for an honest review.