Kinkly: What's unique about your blog?
F. Leonora: That it is my blog, and reflects whatever is unique about me. Someone else could do it, but it would not sound like me.
Kinkly: What is the topic you find yourself covering most often and why?
F. Leonora: Romance. I am violently romantic! I tried to run away from it, but I have not been successful! There is always someone falling in love in my stories. And when I am not writing fiction, I think my viewpoints are still pretty romantic!
Kinkly: What was your most popular post ever? Why do you think it drew so many readers?
F. Leonora: I think that it is my Kink of the Week: Anonymous Sex post. I wrote it as part of a blog swap with another blogger. When the Kink of the Week meme was anonymous sex, I wrote something entirely new for it. A friend of mine asked me about the swapped story, and I remembered it fit the meme so used it instead. I like it because it has a dark side. So do a lot of my readers!
Kinkly: What’s the best thing about writing a sex blog?
F. Leonora: Since sex is one of my favorite topics to explore, it is like being in a candy store every time I blog! And because it is such a vast topic, it is like going in that store every day and trying something new - but always getting that sugar fix ...
Kinkly: What's the worst thing about it?
F. Leonora: For me, there is not a worst thing in the creation of it. The worst is how people judge sex, and how they judge writings about sex. People also make assumptions about me because I write about sex. That is a drag. Fortunately, I am not around a lot of sex-negative people.
Kinkly: OK, now for the good stuff: Give us your best tip for great sex.
F. Leonora: Have an open mind. I am definitely a sapiosexual, and really believe that our minds are our most erogenous zone. Good sex comes from a sexy psyche.