Sex Blogger of the Month: F. Leonora Solomon of F Dot Leonora

Once each month, Kinkly presents one of the best Sex Bloggers that the Internet has to offer. This month, we are excited to feature F. Leonora Solomon of F Dot Leonora. F. Leonora's posts are exciting, well-written, and beyond steamy! Here are F. Leonora's answers to Kinkly's 10 questions!

Kinkly: Give us three words that describe your blog.

F. Leonora: Fanciful, passionate and experimental.

Kinkly: What inspired you to start the blog?

F. Leonora: I was going to my first Eroticon, and there was a meet and greet meme - my first post is literally called Hello Eroticon!

Kinkly: What's behind the name?

F. Leonora: I got flip about my abbreviation, and decided to call out the dot - from there on it had a mind of its own! Maybe it was also subconsciously because I like polka dots!

Kinkly: Who's your target reader?

F. Leonora: I do not have a target reader in mind, and my readers reflect that. I write things that apply to memes that I do or whatever strikes my fancy - but I do have themes that I circle. I guess that resonates with my regular readers, and I am appreciative.

Kinkly: What's unique about your blog?

F. Leonora: That it is my blog, and reflects whatever is unique about me. Someone else could do it, but it would not sound like me.

Kinkly: What is the topic you find yourself covering most often and why?

F. Leonora: Romance. I am violently romantic! I tried to run away from it, but I have not been successful! There is always someone falling in love in my stories. And when I am not writing fiction, I think my viewpoints are still pretty romantic!

Kinkly: What was your most popular post ever? Why do you think it drew so many readers?

F. Leonora: I think that it is my Kink of the Week: Anonymous Sex post. I wrote it as part of a blog swap with another blogger. When the Kink of the Week meme was anonymous sex, I wrote something entirely new for it. A friend of mine asked me about the swapped story, and I remembered it fit the meme so used it instead. I like it because it has a dark side. So do a lot of my readers!

Kinkly: What’s the best thing about writing a sex blog?

F. Leonora: Since sex is one of my favorite topics to explore, it is like being in a candy store every time I blog! And because it is such a vast topic, it is like going in that store every day and trying something new - but always getting that sugar fix ...

Kinkly: What's the worst thing about it?

F. Leonora: For me, there is not a worst thing in the creation of it. The worst is how people judge sex, and how they judge writings about sex. People also make assumptions about me because I write about sex. That is a drag. Fortunately, I am not around a lot of sex-negative people.

Kinkly: OK, now for the good stuff: Give us your best tip for great sex.

F. Leonora: Have an open mind. I am definitely a sapiosexual, and really believe that our minds are our most erogenous zone. Good sex comes from a sexy psyche.

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