As we roll into February and the world gets plastered with roses, heart-shaped everything, and odd winged babies with bows and arrows, we can't help thinking about one thing: Sex.
If February is the month of love, why not make it the month of really sexy love? Emphasis on sex.
Know what we find really sexy? Giving our partner exactly the kind of stimulation that they're hoping for. Honestly, what is sexier than communicating your wants and desires and then having those desires fulfilled? It's the best Valentine's Day present anyone could ask for.
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If one of your desires is to experience a G-spot orgasm or provide your partners with a G-spot orgasm, we're here to help!
It's important to note that some people don't like G-spot stimulation, and that's 100% cool. If G-spot stimulation isn't your thing, don't do it! Stimulating the clitoris or other erogenous zones can be just as pleasurable, if not more so!
However, some vulva-owners have found that G-spot orgasms are more full bodied and intense than clitoral orgasms. So if you're looking to up your G-spot stimulation game, look no further!
Looking for more sex position ideas? Check out our Sex Positions Playlist.
A Short Lesson in G-Spots
Yes, folks, the G-spot exists, and you can find it. It’s bean-shaped, and it feels like a rough sponge. It is located about one to three inches inside of the vagina. To find it, put your fingers into the vagina, palm side up. You will feel a rough spot on the upper wall of the vagina. Curl your fingers in a "come hither" motion to rub the G-spot.
Since the G-spot is super sensitive (it’s thought to be a bundle of nerves from the clitoris), it can trigger powerful orgasms. Since the G-spot is found within (not outside) the vaginal wall, you have to apply a bit of pressure to it in order to hit the sweet spot. It's also easier to find and pleasure the G-spot when the vulva-owner is significantly aroused, so don't skip over the foreplay!
While manually stimulating the G-spot is fairly easy, it is a little bit easier said than done with a penis or a strap-on. Some penises have a natural upward bend that makes G-spot stimulation easier, which can be easily mimicked with a strap-on.
That being said, sometimes it still takes some rearranging to find the best position to stimulate the G-spot. Here are five positions that can help!
Leapfrog
This is a modified version of doggy style. This position just changes the angle of penetration and positions the penis or strap-on to point down toward the G-spot.
The awesome thing about this position (and most of the ones that follow), is that it leaves the clitoris open for stimulation as well, which means you can go for the blended orgasm, if you so desire. If you find reaching around with your hand a bit awkward, consider adding a wand vibrator that can help make the reach even easier.
For more positions with sex toys, check out: 8 Hot Sex Positions That Are Even Hotter With Sex Toys
The Cowgirl and Reverse Cowgirl
Having the vulva-owner on top means they get to control the depth, angle, pressure, and speed of penetration. Depending on the angle of your penis or strap-on, the cowgirl or the reverse cowgirl position can be used to hit their G-spot.
The goal is to have the tip of the penis or dildo rub firmly against her front vaginal wall. Ride on!
The Seated Scissors
The Seated Scissors position is similar to the cowgirl position, but allows for a slightly different angle of penetration. For a better view, the bottom partner may prop themselves up on their elbows. The partner being penetrated may grab their partner's leg for support, or even rub their clitoris against it as they ride.
Read: These Girl-on-Girl Sex Positions Will Rock Your Vulva-Centered Sex Life
The Butterfly
The Butterfly position gently stimulates the G-spot and is also a "feel good" position for vulva-owners who love deep penetration.
In this position, the partner being penetrated lays on their back on the edge of the bed (or a table, if you’re feeling adventurous). They'll place their legs over their partner's shoulders and gently tilt their hips upward. A pillow (or sex wedge) underneath the hips of the partner being penetrated may make them more comfortable.
Read: Go Deep! The 8 Best Sex Positions for Deep Penetration
Afternoon Delight
The Afternoon Delight is a sweet, gentle, and super easy position that won’t tire either partner out. This position is perfect if the vulva-owner takes a while to reach orgasm. It's also a great position for stimulating the G-spot.
Everyone is different. Sorry to state the obvious, but not every position will work for every partner. However, that’s kind of a good thing because you and your partner can experiment with each position in order to find which ones work best for you!
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