SEX POSITIONS
17 Hot Sex Positions That Are Even Hotter With Sex Toys
Finding the right sex position can be challenging enough -- let alone when you bring gadgets into the mix! Luckily, these awesomely arousing positions work especially well with sex toys. Go forth, raid your toy box and enjoy!
Masturbation can be amazing; partnered sex can be incredible. Add a sex toy (or several!) to either and, well, in a word, WOW!
It's not always that simple, though. Finding the right position for analog sex can be challenging enough -- let alone when you bring your gadgets into the mix!
As luck would have it, Kinkly hosts one of the largest databases of sex positions on the web -- and we've put together this list of the most awesomely arousing ones that work especially well with sex toys.
Before we get going, a note on the toys mentioned: We've selected an assortment of body safe sex toys and matched them with various positions. But you don't have to use the toys mentioned with their respective positions. (You don't have to do anything!) We're all different; your favorite toy might be someone else's least fave. Fortunately, the world of sex toys is wide! Explore and find the perfect toys to fit your preferences and budget.
READ: Yes, You Can Find Body-Safe, Affordable Sex Toys.
Something to bear in mind with many of these positions: Butt plugs and prostate stimulators can be worn by the partner doing the penetrating and, in the case of vaginal intercourse, by receiving partners too. Folks with penises can also incorporate cock rings.
In addition, for penetrating partners who are wearing strap-ons, Sportsheets is a great pick for your first harness, even offering a kit that includes two silicone dildos.
Now, let’s look at some fun sex positions with sex toys to try out when you want to raid your toy box!
Best Dildo Sex Positions
Arguably the oldest and all-time most popular type of sex toy, dildos have come a long way since our ancient ancestors (probably) gazed longingly at an excitingly shaped vegetable, polished length of very hard wood or used clay to craft something other than a pot.
Whether a state-of-the-art, smarter-than-smart sextech marvel or merely a satisfyingly phallic shape, here are some fun and exciting positions that'll take using this legendary sex toy to new levels:
Mesmerthighs Position
![Mesmerthighs Sex Position: One partner lies flat on their back wearing a strap-on dildo while the other partner straddles their legs to stroke the dildo.]()
Laying on one's back is a great way to help relax the body, which is essential for pleasure. If the receiving partner has a built-in penis, this is a great position in which to provide pleasure using your hands or a stroker, like the Tenga Spinner. If the receiving partner doesn't have a penis, you might try stroking a dildo inserted into a strap-on harness equipped with BumpHer for added clitoral stimulation.
The Mesmerthighs Position also allows for chest or nipple stimulation and won't strain your or your partner's back.
READ: The 10 Best Sex Positions for Back Pain.
Other great toy picks for this position:
For folks with penises: VeDO Grip, Tenga EGG.
For folks with vulvas: Blush Dr. Skin Lucas, Sportsheets Skyn Silicone dildos.
Hole Lot of Love Position
![Hole Lot of Love Position: A person stands on their knees, squatting over a sex toy mount with a dildo in it.]()
Fans of larger dildos will like this next position, as it's much easier to ease yourself down onto one than trying to wrangle it while laying on your back. The Hole Lot of Love Position uses the magic of a sex toy mount, like the Liberator Tula in the illustration above, to keep your dildo in place while you ride off into the sunset. And what's more, if you're penetrating yourself anally in this position, that leaves your genitals open for dual stimulation!
The only downside to the Hole Lot of Love Position is your dildo will need a big enough base to stand upright and be equipped with a suction cup or some other anchor point. Practically made for this position is the study, stable, and, most of all, extremely exciting FemmeFunn Vortex Wireless Turbo Rabbit.
Other great toy pics for this position:
For folks with penises: Your favorite penis vibrator or masturbation sleeve.
For folks with vulvas: WeVibe Melt, Satisfyer Pro 2, b-Vibe Triplet Anal Beads.
Lion's Roar Position
![Lion's Roar Position: The receiving partner is on their knees and forearms and backs themselves up to sit on the giving partner's penis or strap-on.]()
If your bedroom, bathroom, or -- if you're lucky enough to have one -- playroom wall is smooth enough, how about affixing a suction-cup dildo the right height to back yourself onto it? One of the best toys for this type of play is the Evolved Big Shot Vibrating Squirting Dildo.
This will look a lot like the Lion's Roar Position, only the in-behind partner will be replaced by a sturdy, vertical surface.
This position is just as hot with a human partner, too! If that's the route you're taking, consider making this Doggy Style variation easier with a strap, like the Plus Size Doggie Strap from Sportsheets. This can be especially useful for receiving partners in large bodies.
READ: 6 Sex Positions Made for Big, Beautiful Bodies.
Whether you're practicing your Lion's Roar alone or with a partner, this position leaves whatever you're not penetrating ripe and open for stimulation!
Other great toy pics for this position:
For folks with penises: Fun Factory NŌS, Fun Factory Cobra Libre 2.
For folks with vulvas: Dame Eva II, We-Vibe Chorus.
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Missionary with a Lift Position
![Missionary with a Lift Position. The receiving partner is laying back with their hips elevated thanks to a Liberator Ramp. The penetrating partner is on their knees, leaning forward, to penetrate their partner. The penetrating partner is holding a We-Vibe couples vibrator that can be worn during intercourse.]()
There’s a whole market devoted to “couples'” toys (Spoiler alert: couples can use ANY toy!) and if there is any position in which these toys can really shine, it's Missionary.
Especially when engaging in vaginal intercourse, couples' vibrators that boast the ability to fit neatly between partners can be brought out. Also, vibrating cock rings get a chance to shine here. In the image above, our couple is getting comfy with a Liberator Ramp and getting ready to roll with the We-Vibe Unite couples' vibrator.
Other great toy picks for this position:
To add a little variety to your missionary adventure, take it upright with the Standing Missionary Position or switch it up with the Reverse Missionary Position!
Stand Down Position
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This unique take on Doggy Style creates more space to add a sex toy (or two) into the mix. And if the penetrating partner doesn't come with a built-in penis, our fan-favorite Sportsheets Strap-On & Silicone Dildo Set can make this position accessible!
For the receiver, the Stand Down Position can mean everything from playing with a massager to slipping a vibrator on their clitoris or penis. You might even try adding a vibrating cock ring to pleasure both partners simultaneously!
Other great toy picks for this position:
For folks with penises: Fleshlight Quickshot, bSwish bHandy.
For folks with vulvas: WeVibe Touch, WeVibe Tango, We-Vibe Tango X.
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Elevated Oral Sex Position
![Elevated Oral Sex Position. The receiving partner is laying back on the Liberator Ramp while using the Liberator Wedge as a pillow. The giving partner is kneeling with their face between their partner's legs. The giving partner holds a vibrator in their hand which can be used on the receiving partner.]()
Elevated Oral is a super fun position in which to incorporate toys because of the sheer range of possibilities. That's because elevating the receiving partner's hips makes the partner on the giving end able to get at them without leaning all their weight into their arms so their hands are free for toy use!
This provides a great opportunity for g-spot teasing and intense shaft pleasing. In the image above, the couple is making use of the Liberator Ramp and the We-Vibe Rave.
Other great toy picks for this position:
For folks with penises: Fleshlight Quickshot, bSwish bHandy (its open end makes it ideal for shaft stimulation during fellatio).
For folks with vulvas: We-Vibe Rave, Dame Arc, Hot Octopuss Kurve.
Head Rest Position
![Head Rest Position. The receiving partner is laying on their side. The giving partner is also laying on their side at a 90-degree angle to rest their head on the receiver's thigh while providing oral sex. The receiver holds a wand massager between the giver's thighs during oral sex.]()
The Head Rest Position is a fun sex position for pleasing the person who is pleasing you! The setup makes it easy to use a toy on your partner while they provide you with oral stimulation. Fun, right? The couple above is making use of Magic Wand Rechargeable.
READ: Best Oral Sex Positions When You Want to Get Wild.
Other great toy picks for this position:
For folks with penises: Fleshlight Quickshot, bSwish bHandy.
For folks with vulvas: We-Vibe Touch, We-Vibe Wand, We-Vibe Melt.
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Tummy Time Position
![Tummy Time Position: A person lays on their stomach with their head propped up with a pillow, tucking their arms under their hips to pleasure themselves.]()
Stretching out on your back is fine and all, but for anal or vaginal penetration toys -- like with the myriad pleasures the Lovense Gush has to offer -- flipping 180 degrees onto your stomach in the Tummy Time Position can unlock new worlds of pleasure.
Fans of this position like how comfortable it is -- and love how they can lift one leg for easier access.
This might make it tough for folks with penises to stroke themselves off, but it does expose the butt and relax the body for ultra-easy anal play. Do with that information what you wish.
READ: How I Enjoy Hands-Free Anal Orgasms.
Other great toy pics for this position:
For folks with penises: We-Vibe Vector, Lovense Edge 2, Nexus Stimul8.
For folks with vulvas: WeVibe Melt, Dame Zee, FemmeFunn Dioni.
Slippery Missionary Shower Position
![Slippery Missionary Shower Position: The penetrating partner stands upright while the receiving partner stands facing them with one foot on an elevated surface.]()
We know what you're thinking: There are two people in that image. Stay with us!
Steamy times (pun intended) can be had in the Slippery Missionary Position whether you're playing partnered or solo. Though, heed a few provisos:
- Only use manufacturer-certified waterproof sex toys, like the wet and wild We-Vibe Tango X.
- Take ample precautions to avoid slipping in the tub or shower. This might involve laying a towel on the floor of the shower/tub or getting an anti-slip mat.
From there, the possibilities are pretty much endless! Grab your favorite toy and get dirty (while you get clean).
Some of our favorite toys for this position:
For folks with penises: Bathmade HydroMax Penis Pump, Tenga Spinner.
For folks with vulvas: Waterslyde Bathtub Water Diverter, Satisfyer Pro 2.
For everyone: Glas Double Penetration Kit, Sportsheets Nipple Suckers.
Horseless Rider Position
![Horseless Rider Position: A person grinds against a pillow while wearing a vibrator tucked into underwear.]()
If you have a very sensitive clitoris and/or like broad stimulation between your legs, the Horseless Rider Position is pretty much made for you. What's more, it's bananas versatile -- all you need is a pillow, a vibrator and a pair of underwear!
Simply scrunch up your pillow until it's at a density you like, slip the vibrator into your underwear and get busy. Any old pillow will do, but if this is your go-to, the Liberator Humphrey is an ultra-firm pillow designed to be ridden -- and it even comes with a mount in case you'd like to add some penetration!
Great toy picks for this position include:
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Scissoring Position
![Scissoring Position: Both partners sit on their hips facing each other. Each partner puts one of their legs between their partner's legs to line up the genitalia for frottage or penetration.]()
The Scissoring Position is a long-held favorite for those who love frottage.
