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The Rocking Horse Position

The rocking horse is a variation of the woman-on-top cowgirl position. Instead of laying on his back, however, the man starts by sitting cross-legged and leans back... Read more

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I'm assuming that sex is not the only reason you are in this relationship. Otherwise, I doubt you would even bother writing for advice or calling...read on
Sorry Princess, the Handsome Princes Are in Another Castle - Getting It On!

What is a "normal" family? A new kid's book about homosexuality gets added to the list of books that spark controversy. 
Sex Blogger of the Month: Jillian Boyd of Lady Laid Bare

In an effort to find and promote the best sex blogs on the Web, we're highlighting a new sex blogger every month. Here's our interview with Jillian Boyd of Lady Laid Bare. 
Bloody Hell! Is Period Sex Really a Big Deal?

A woman spends an estimated 3,500 days of her life menstruating. Do you really want to put your sex life on hold for all that time? 
Sex Stories We Love: Sleeping Naked, Techno Sex Gadgets and Sex on the Beach ... Or Not

From faulty marriage advice, to sleeping naked to sex on the beach, this week's top stories promise a little something for everyone. Enjoy! 
Women Ask: Can I Ever Enjoy Sex Again? (The Answer Is Yes!)

Are you one of many women who can no longer imagine enjoying sex? Don't lose hope! Restore your libido and get your sex life back on track with these helpful tools and tips. 
5 World Cup Statistics That Have Nothing to Do With Soccer ... And Everything to Do With Sex

Tired of hearing about soccer? Here are 5 World Cup statistics that having nothing to do with the sport. 
Let's Talk About (Strap-On) Sex, Baby

Think a stone dildo with a leather harness sounds fun? The Ancient Greeks did! Fortunately, the strap-on game has improved over time. Follow its history here. 
Honey, I Have Herpes

One million people in the United States are living with genital herpes, and one in every six people between the ages of 19 and 49 have the infection. But while the disease may be incurable, it isn't the end of a normal life. 
Sex Stories We Love: Sex Myths, Slut Shaming and a Very Controversial Piece of Art

Some weeks are full of gloriously sex positive news. Others ... not so much. This past week was a doozy. Check out some of the top sex stories we found. 
The Autoblow 2: It's Exactly What You Think It Is

Out of the package, the Autoblow 2 looks a lot like an insulated thermos with a fake mouth on top, but it's likely to provide a happy ending, both for users and its inventor. 
10 Things You Don't Know About Penises

If you think the penis isn't mysterious, there's a lot you don't know. Check out these interesting factoids about man's best friend. 
How Taking Control of Your Sex Life Will Lead to Better Sex

You can't always count on your partner to know what turns you on, but it's never too late to take charge of your own sexual satisfaction. Speak up and voice your desires today to have better sex tomorrow! 
When Your Partner Sleeps With Someone Else - And It Makes You Happy

What's it called when your partner's sexual freedom makes you happy, rather than green with jealousy? Let us introduce you to something called compersion. 
7 BDSM Tips for First Timers

New to BDSM? Here are some expert tips to help you get started. 
Sex Stories We Love: The Summer of Kink, Surrogate Sex Ed, and Lots of Sex Geekery

Summer is here and things are heating up in sex stories online. Check out the top posts from the past week. 
Sexy Excerpt: 'Nyotaimori' by Rose de Fer

This short story from Violet Blue's latest erotic collection delivers sensuality, sadism and sushi all in one bite. 
Why Haven't You Heard About the Pill That Prevents HIV?

There's a pill that can reduce the risk of contracting HIV by 90 percent. The problem is, few can afford to take it. 
6 Reasons Why Masturbation Should Be Part of Sex Ed - At Any Age #AdultSexEdMonth

One reason masturbation is still so stigmatized is that not enough people talk about it. Here's why it should be at the top of the list for sex educators. 
Sex Stories We Love: Stupid Sex Laws, Bad Sex Writing and Amazing New Dildo Technology

This past week included good news, bad news and a truly amazing dildo. Check it out! 
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Sex Games

Sex games are games of a sexual nature, often played by couples as part of foreplay. These may be traditional games adapted to add a sexual element, such as strip... Read more 


A pomosexual is a person who rejects conventional labels of sexuality including heterosexual, homosexual, and bisexual. The term comes from a blending of the terms... Read more 

Sphincter Ani Internus

The Sphincter Ani Internus is a smooth muscular ring that surrounds a 2.5 to 4 cm region of the upper anal canal. It is formed by an increase of the rectum’s... Read more 

Ring of O

Ring of O refers to a certain style of ring that indicates the wearer is a BDSM practitioner. The name comes from the popular BDSM novel "Story of O," in... Read more 


Coprophilia is a fetish wherein sexual pleasure is derived from interaction with feces. The term comes from the Greek word kopros, meaning excrement, and philia,... Read more 
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