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The Waterfall Position

The Waterfall position is a woman-on-top position. To get into this position, the penetrating partner lies face up with head and torso off the edge of the bed. The shoulders might rest on the ground. The... (Read on)

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Ouch. I have heard about this. As long as you’re OK with why he isn’t going down, I won’t go there. However, I absolutely understand why you would want to still enjoy foreplay.... (Read on)
8 Tips to Make Roleplay Sexy - Not Silly

Thinking about engaging in a sexy roleplay with your partner? Here are 8 tips to make it more realistic. 
Masturbation Each Day Keeps the Doctor Away

Masturbation isn't only a source of pleasure - it's a form of physical and mental therapy that keeps you in good health. 
Yoni Eggs: The Ancient Practice That Can Help You Find Your Sexual Center

Have you heard of Yoni Eggs and wondered how they could benefit you or why you should use them? Read this and find out how these shiny rocks can rock your world. 
Hand Jobs for Grown Ups

Think hand jobs are just for teenagers? Think again. These techniques will show you just how yummy manual sex can be. 
Everything You'll Ever Need to Know About Choosing the Right Dildo for You

Are you ready to buy your first dildo? Choosing one that is sure to satisfy is no easy task. We help you sort out what you need to look for. 
5 Ways to Spot a Good Dominant

Are you new to the BDSM lifestyle? Are you struggling to find a good Dominant? We provide some tips to help. 
Sex Stories We Love: Say No to Sand, Interplanetary Porn, and Harley and Ivy Sittin' in a Tree

In this week's Sex Stories We Love, you'll find out why beach sex is bad, if there's going to be a porn filmed in outer space, and more about the relationship between Harley Quinn and Ivy! 
5 Ways to Spot a Good Submissive

Are you new to the BDSM lifestyle? Are you ready to find a sub, but don't know where to start? Use these five things to help you spot the right submissive for you. 
The Call of Color: Hair and Attraction

Do you find yourself more attracted to people with a certain hair color? We did into the reasons behind that. 
7 Ways the '21 Grams Memory Box' Completely Misses the Mark

The combination dildo-funereal urn has inspired much interest, but is that really the best way to remember a deceased spouse? Kinkly has 7 reasons why this isn't a good idea. 
Bad Chemistry or Just Bad Sex?

How do you know if it's just bad chemistry or if the sex is just bad? We explore the difference. 
8 Tips for Using Genital Clamps

Genital clamps can be a lot of fun, but for new people they can be intimidating. Here are eight awesome tips to help you get the most out of your these kinky little wonders. 
The Top 4 Anal Toys for Beginners

Interested in anal play? Well, we have what you need....the best anal toys for beginners! 
Sex Stories We Love: #AdultSexEdMonth Stories You May Have Missed if You Were Skipping Class

Here are some of the #AdultSexEdMonth stories you might have missed during the first part of June. 
Life on the Edge: Edging and Why You Deserve It

Ever ramped up almost to orgasm then backed off, only to do it again? This delicious practice is called edging, and by keeping you on the edge of orgasm, it extends your pleasure. 
Public Nudity: Why's It Considered So Shameful in the United States?

America...land of the free...home of the clothed? Check out how America compares to the rest of the world when it comes to covering up. 
13 Myths About Sex and Disability

Do you have questions or ideas about sex and disability? Here are 13 myths you should know about sex and disability. 
Are Your Lubricants Hurting You?

Do you itch or burn during sex? It could be your lubricant. Read this to find out if your lube is hurting you. 
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Finger Up The Butt

Finger Up the Butt is a colloquial term for digital penetration of the anus. This sex act may be a component of the interaction between a sex worker and his or her... Read more 

Her/His Tongue Up My Ass

His/Her Tongue Up My Ass describes a sex act in which a person receives analingus from his or her sexual partner. The term is most commonly seen in the... Read more 

Low Dollar Looker

A Low Dollar Looker is a term which describes an affordable or inexpensive sex worker. This term is most commonly used on websites or online forums where johns post... Read more 

Light Kissing

Light kissing is gentle, sensual kissing that is less intense and passionate than deep kissing or French kissing. Typically, light kissing is done with mouths... Read more 


Monger is a slang term for an individual who regularly employs the services of sex workers. It is a shortening of the term whoremonger. Like the dictionary term,... Read more 
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