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Impact Play

Impact play is a sexual practice wherein one person is struck by another person for the sexual gratification of either or both parties. It is a form of BDSM. Spanking, flogging, caning, cropping and... (Read on)

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Tantric sex is a great way to explore erotic expression and discover pleasure in all aspects of life, not only sexual expression. Sometimes, we think of sex as purely physical... (Read on)
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Nocturnal Penile Tumescence

Nocturnal Penile Tumescence is the medical name for a spontaneous erection which occurs during sleep or upon waking. Unlike typical erections, these spontaneous... Read more 


Bustiers are form-fitting women’s tops with built-in bras that are traditionally worn as a type of lingerie. Most are made from soft fabrics like silk, satin, or... Read more 


Babydolls is a term for women’s nightgowns or negligees which resemble empire-waist style dresses. Babydolls are short and expose the legs, typically falling at the... Read more 


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