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The Acrobat Position

The acrobat position is a more advanced variation of the popular reverse cowgirl. To get into this position, the man lays on his back and and his partner straddles... Read more

Past Terms: The 68 PositionThe Seated Ball PositionThe Lap Dance Position

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Although it's not technically dangerous to wear a butt plug long term, it is important that you learn to listen to your body and know its limitations...read on
Sex Stories We Love: Hometown Porn Hero, Sperm Races and Misconceptions About Sex

We're bringing the sexiest news to you each and every week! Here are this past week's top news stories about sex. 
Why a Feminist Like Me Would Actually Consider Getting a Boob Job

There are reasons to avoid breast augmentation surgery and to let my body continue to age naturally. But there are still powerful moments when I entertain the thought of getting it done anyway. 
The 12 Best Pieces of Furniture to Have Sex On

You can enjoy a relatively ergonomic romp on some of the furniture you already own. Check out your 12 best options. 
9 Sex Moves to Rock a Woman's World

Women are wired differently from men, which means that it often takes a little more than bump and grind to bring them to the big O. Here are a few new moves that might just do the trick. 
How Sex Toys Can Help You Play Nice With a Partner

Sex toys are a great way to bring a little adventure into the bedroom, to experiment with new experiences and to share them with your partner. Here are five things to know about playing nice - with toys! 
Sex Stories We Love: 50 Shades of Real, Everyday Sex and the History of Sex Dolls & High Heels

There are right ways and wrong ways to express ourselves sexually. This week, we explore where we draw the lines and open our minds. 
Arrested for 3-D Vaginas?  Go home, Japan.  You're Drunk!

In a world where phallic representations are found in transportation, buildings, weaponry and plenty of other places, is the vag getting the shaft? 
In Defense of Pubic Hair

In a 1985 issue of Playboy, Madonna sported a full bush. Now, pubic hair is considered so gross that we spend billions of dollars each year to remove it. So should it stay or should it go? 
Sexy Excerpt: 'Open Wide - Felatio' by Alison Tyler

Don't let the intimacy of oral sex intimidate you! Here, we provide a sexy selection of erotica excerpts featuring blow jobs to get you in the mood. 
The 4 Most Practical Things I Learned About Sex Came From a Tantric Sex Class

Can't separate tantric sex from Sting in your mind? Here, one writer debunks common myths about tantra and shares what she learned about how simply giving, receiving and connecting with one's partner can lead to better sex. 
Sex Stories We Love: Sex-Positive TV, Parenting and What It Takes to Be a Male Porn Star

This week's top stories include sex positive media, tips on becoming a porn star and a look at the "O Face." 
So, You Wanna Be a Dominant?

It seems like a dream come true - a dutiful slave (or two) at your beck and call, ready and willing to submit to your every sexual whim, no matter how raunchy. No, you aren't weird, you're just a dominant. 
7 Steps to Buying a Cock Ring

With so many options on the market, sex toy shopping can be a daunting affair. With these 7 steps, we've made it easy for you to stop browsing and start enjoying! 
Am I Addicted to Sex?

These days our world is driven by desire, but sometimes it seems we are sacrificing intimacy for lust. One woman asks herself whether her love of sex is preventing her from connecting with her partners. 
7 Things I Wish I'd Learned in Sex Ed

What is the state of sexual education today? Are teens getting current information or is the class script a blast from the past? From riding the crimson wave to the importance of consent, here are topics sex ed rarely addresses... but should! 
Sex Stories We Love:  Sharing What Turns Us On and Hookup Sex Humor

This week's theme is TMI - and what we can learn from what other people share online. Check it out! 
Summer Lovin': 3 Reasons Why We Love Outdoor Sex

Summer might make us feel universally sexy, but some of us just aren't outdoorsy types. Don't worry: You don't have to feel left out. Check out three of the hottest outdoor summer pleasures - and how to recreate them indoors. 
Squirting: Why It May Never Happen to You

Here's something that most sex sites won't tell you: Despite your best efforts, you may never squirt. Here's why. 
Why Cuddle When We Could Do It?

One writer attempts to reap the benefits of cuddle therapy while exploring the possibilities of non-sexual connection. Read on to find out whether she was able to resist the urge to do more than just snuggle... 
Sex Stories We Love: The Age of Erotica, a 3-D Vulva and How Short Men Tend to Be Long on Sexual Experience

Check out the hot, controversial and unique things that happened in the world of sex last week. 
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Androgynous is an adjective which describes a blend of masculine and feminine characteristics. The term is a combination of the Latin terms andro, meaning man, and... Read more 


Smegma is the cheese-like secretion that collects between the glans penis and the foreskin or around the clitoris and labia minora. It is made of a combination of... Read more 


Asphyxiophilia is a sexual practice where the breath is intentionally controled during sexual stimulation. This reduces the amount of oxygen received by the brain,... Read more 

Pubic Mound

The pubic mound is a mass of fatty tissue located over the pubic bone that is found in all mammals, including men and women. The female pubic mound forms the front... Read more 

Grapefruit Blow Job

The grapefruit blow job is a fellatio technique developed by Denise Walker, aka Auntie Angel, fellatio educator and founder of Angel’s Erotic Solutions. This... Read more 
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