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Violet Wand

The violet wand is a common toy used for electrical play. The toy creates a shocking feeling through static electricity, and can provide a wide range of sensations from tame to extreme. The violet wand... (Read on)

Past Terms: MummificationUrethral SoundMedical Play

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It sounds like that you're most likely just really tense. After all, you've only known the guy for a couple of months. Vaginas have an amazing capacity to stretch; think about... (Read on)
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A mamasan refers to a female in a position of authority. It is usually the head of a brothel or adult massage parlor. The term originated from a combination of... Read more 

Double Digit Penetration

Double digit penetration (DDP) refers to sexual penetration using more that one digit. A digit is referring to the digits of the hands. DDP can be used during both... Read more 

Japanese Clover Clamp

A Japanese clover clamp is a variation of nipple clamp that has a distinct shape. It is known for its ability to increase tension on the nipple by pulling on the... Read more 

Lymphogranuloma Venereum

Lymphogranuloma Venereum (LGV) is a chronic infection of the lymphatic system that is caused by the Chlamydia trachomatis bacteria. The bacteria is transferred... Read more 


A ProDomme is a woman who can be hired to perform BDSM services. "Domme" is feminized version of the word "Dom" which is used to refer to the dominant partner in a... Read more 
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