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Flagellation is the act of whipping or flogging a person. Although it may sound painful it is a common erotic activity in BDSM play. Dominant players will often flog their submissive partners with toys... (Read on)

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Sock fetish

A sock fetish is a sexual interest in socks. This includes attraction to and arousal by the wearing of socks and their sexualized removal.  

Sensual Domination

Sensual domination is a new style of dominance which focuses on delighting all of the senses. When practising sensual domination, both partners agree to take turns... Read more 

Emergency Contraceptives

Emergency contraceptives (EC) is an umbrella term referring to any contraceptive measures that, when employed in a specific time frame after sexual intercourse, can... Read more 


Autoandrophilia is a sexual paraphilia whereby a woman is sexually aroused or interested in dressing and seeing herself as a man. This is a sexual fetish that is... Read more 


Maiesiophilia is a fetish that involves an individual that is sexually aroused by pregnancy. Generally, the fetish is seen in cultures in which pregnancy is seen as... Read more 
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