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A tickler is a sex toy that is used during sensation play and consists of a long, thin handle with soft, downy feathers on one end. As the name suggests, these toys are typically used to tickle a... (Read on)

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As with all relationships, no two D/s relationships are exactly the same. So, to make a sweeping statement either way would be wrong. However, as a general rule I think this is a... (Read on)
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Paraphilia is a sexual disorder where an individual's sexual arousal is dependent upon atypical and extreme sexual fantasies and behavior. Paraphilia differs from... Read more 


Vorarephilia is a paraphilia. An individual is sexually interested in or aroused by the thought or sight of themselves or someone else being cooked and eaten. This... Read more 


Klismaphilia is a paraphilia whereby an individual is sexually interested in or aroused by the entrance of liquids into the anus or rectum. Most often this is... Read more 


Mysophilia is a paraphilia that involves an intense sexual arousal brought on by dirt or being covered in filth. It is classified as a paraphilia due to its impact... Read more 


Odaxelagnia is a sexual paraphilia where an individual has an unusual sexual arousal related to biting or being bitten. This particular paraphilia is often... Read more 
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