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To take part in the BSDM lifestyle means to enjoy bondage, submission, dominance or masochism. This may also involve wearing leather or PVC and going to fetish clubs.

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Sex Stories We Love: So Much to Love About Our Top 10 Sex Blogging Superheroes

This week's roundup comes from our Top 10 Sex Blogging Superheroes! 
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Our Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes of 2014

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Does Monogamy Kill Desire?

As soon as we decide to settle down and become monogamous, there goes our desire, forever taken over by practical everyday life, by babies and school and who paid the bills. Unless we decide to spice things up. 
Review: Liberator Flip Ramp

This product really inspires creative, comfortable, playful sex. Learn more about it in the this full review of the product and features. 
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Sex After Breast Cancer

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With great pleasure sometimes comes a little pain. It's important to discuss the potential of both, especially when venturing into the world of anal play. 
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Celebrity Fake

A celebrity fake is a photograph or video which has been doctored or otherwise manipulated to present a false image which is generally detrimental to the... Read more 

Cave, Gape

Cave and gape are two slang terms used to describe any bodily orifice that is open, either for or as a result of sexual penetration. These terms are most commonly... Read more 


Catamite is a term that refers to a young male who is the passive or receiving partner during sexual intercourse with a grown man.  

Breast Self-Exam

A breast self-exam is a manual exam that women can perform on themselves to check for unusual lumps, in an effort to detect breast cancer at an early stage.  

male, male, female

Male, male, female is a form of threesome. As its name implies, the participants in this sexual interaction are a female and two males. The female participant is... Read more 
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