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A BSDM scene is a pre-planned space where BDSM activities take place, as well as the activities themselves. Generally the scene is discussed fully and consists of an agreed upon beginning, middle and end.... (Read on)

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Sexually Transmitted Disease

A sexually transmitted disease (STD) refers to a disease or infection that is transmitted through unprotected sexual contact. STDs are usually caused by different... Read more 


An erection is a physiological phenomenon during which the penis lengthens, becomes engorged and firm. This phenomenon is often linked to sexual arousal, whereby... Read more 


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Cis Gender

Cis gender (aka cisgender or cis) is the term for the gender identity of one whose body, personal identity and gender assigned at birth all align. Terms like cis... Read more 


Pansexuality is a sexual orientation that is marked by romantic or sexual attraction without regard to gender or sexual identity. Pansexuals consider themselves to... Read more 
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