Term of the Day

The Camel Style Position

The Camel Style position is a face-to-face sexual position. In this position, the woman lies on her side. Her male partner straddles her outstretched leg to enter her. The Camel Style position has many... (Read on)

Past Terms: Cambria ListUrethraLatex

Latest Question

This is a really great question and one that I think reflects the societal message that we are constantly fed by mainstream society that sex and sexual exploration is the stuff of... (Read on)
Why We Need to Stop Bashing '50 Shades of Grey' Already

50 Shades changed the game of sex. Here's why it is a bad idea to continue to bash the series. 
Top 10 Unintentionally Awkward Sex Scenes

A video on YouTube lists the top 10 unintentionally awkward sex scenes. The problem? The choices are blatantly obvious. 
What Do Feminism and BDSM Have in Common?

When you look at what they have in common, feminism and BDSM should be allies in helping everyone achieve smarter sex that takes place within a more egalitarian world. 
6 Steps for Choosing the Perfect Kegel Balls for You

Thinking about buying some Kegel balls? Not sure where to start? These six steps will have you exercising your pelvic floor - and experiencing greater pleasure - in no time. 
Sexy Excerpt: 'Melt' by Elizabeth Coldwell

Do you love sexy bondage stories? We have the perfect, steamy excerpt for you. 
Sex Stories We Love: Lascivious Lawbreaking in the Library, Plant Sex and Sexy Spine Curves

Breaking sex laws in the library, plant sex, sexy spines, and much more! Check out this week's issue of Sex Stories We Love! 
Is Virtual Sex Real Sex?

Sexting, phone sex, cyber sex, and more. Is virtual sex really sex? Kinky minds want to know! 
The Ultimate Guide to Giving a Great Blow Job

Want to be awesome at giving head? Here are eight simple steps to get you from the setup to a happy ending. 
5 Unexpected Ways to Boost Your Sex Drive

Boosting your sex drive is one of the most enduring human interests. Here are a couple of things that might just do the trick. 
Why Some Couples Are Giving Up Orgasms (but Not Sex)

Sex and orgasms don’t have to go hand in hand. Karezza is encouraging many couples to prioritize intimacy over The Big O. 
Sexy Excerpt: 'Twisted: The Customer's Waiting' by Giselle Renarde

This excerpt from Alison Tyler's collection proves that bondage can bring a partner closer to their object of desire - both figuratively and literally. 
Sex Stories We Love: Nudity on Facebook, a Gay Gene and Personal Growth in D/s Relationships

Have you been keeping an eye out for new stories, issues and debates in the world of sex? We have! Check out the Sex Stories We Love from the past week. 
Review: Revel Body SOL Sonic Vibrator

This unique vibrator promises the BEST. BATH. EVER. But does it deliver? Check out our latest review. 
3 Steps to Sex Positivity

Just because someone is sexual doesn’t make them "sex positive." Find out what this buzz phrase really means. 
LELO Makes a Movie - and It Doesn't Star a Single Sex Toy

LELO's recently released movie trailer is unusual, but leave it to this creator of pleasure objects to leave us crazy with anticipation. 
Things Men Don't Give a Crap About During Sex

With sex comes intimacy and with intimacy comes....insecurity? Here are several things you shouldn't worry about when getting down. 
Love Life Need a Boost? Sex Furniture Will Put You In Position

The latest sex furniture is so sleek and modern, no one needs to know what else you're using it for. 
Sex Stories We Love: Infidelity Information, Illegal Sex Ed and the Domme Life

This past week's news is proof of the growing public discussion and debate around topics related to sex and sexuality. Check it out! 
Sex Blogger of the Month: Dorothy Black of 'The Dot Spot'

Sex Blogger, Dorothy Black, sits down with Kinkly to talk about her blog: 'The Dot Spot.' Learn her #1 sex tip. 
6 Steps to Choosing Bondage Restraints

Interested in bondage restraints? Want to bring some 50 Shades of Grey action into your life? Check out our six steps to choosing the right bondage restraints for you. 
View All

Roman Shower

A roman shower is the act of one sexual partner intentionally vomiting on another. This is typically done by people with emetophilia; that is a fetish that involves... Read more 

Petticoat Fetish

A petticoat fetish refers to a sexual attraction towards individuals who wear petticoats. In some cases, it can also refer to the act of wearing a petticoat for... Read more 


A blindfold is a piece of fabric that is normally used to cover the eyes. Available in a variety of shapes, fabrics, and styles, blindfolds are used in various... Read more 


From a sexual standpoint, degradation refers to a consensual technique used to embarrass, demean, and humiliate the submissive partner. This technique procures... Read more 


Dollification is a sexual fetish where one partner is 'transformed' into a doll through makeup, mannerisms, or even plastic surgery. The doll-like partner normally... Read more 
View All

Connect with us

Kinkly on Pinterest
Kinkly on Pinterest
Kinkly on Twitter

Sign up for Kinkly's Free Newsletter!

Get Kinkly in Your Inbox



  • I know nothing about sex, because I was always married.
    - Zsa Zsa Gabor

PARTNERSthat turn us on