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Bondage Mittens

Bondage mittens are mittens without separate thumbs that are often used in bondage scenes. These mittens are made from rubber or leather, and can be loose fitting or tight around the hand. Loose-fitting... (Read on)

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Clit Clip

A clit clip is an erotic accessory. The clip, which looks like a long bobby pin, slides over the inner labia to sit over the clitoral hood, behind the clitoris. The... Read more 


The shocker is a particular technique used to stimulate a woman. In this technique, the woman’s partner inserts two fingers into the vagina and another finger into... Read more 


Gaydar is a slang term that refers to the ability to sense whether or not an individual is homosexual. The term originates from the combination of the words gay... Read more 


Girl-on-girl refers to sexual activity between two females. It is also a specific genre of pornography.  

Gold star lesbian

A gold star lesbian is a lesbian that has never had sexual intercourse with a male. The term refers specifically to penetrative penis/vagina intercourse between a... Read more 
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