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Clothed Male, Naked Female

Clothed male, naked female (CMNF) is a term that refers to any scenario in which male participants are wearing clothes and female participants are nude. These scenarios are popular in the fetish scene... (Read on)

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Clit Clip

A clit clip is an erotic accessory. The clip, which looks like a long bobby pin, slides over the inner labia to sit over the clitoral hood, behind the clitoris. The... Read more 


The shocker is a particular technique used to stimulate a woman. In this technique, the woman’s partner inserts two fingers into the vagina and another finger into... Read more 


Gaydar is a slang term that refers to the ability to sense whether or not an individual is homosexual. The term originates from the combination of the words gay... Read more 


Girl-on-girl refers to sexual activity between two females. It is also a specific genre of pornography.  

Gold star lesbian

A gold star lesbian is a lesbian that has never had sexual intercourse with a male. The term refers specifically to penetrative penis/vagina intercourse between a... Read more 
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