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Blood Play

Blood play is an erotic or sexual activity involving blood, and it often goes hand in hand with a blood fetish, or hematolagnia, and other edgeplay. Individuals who... Read more

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I’m unsure of whether you mean a physical location or a metaphorical/psychological one, so I’ll cover both aspects. It’s interesting that you’ve...read on
Why I Love Working in the Sex Toy Industry

My job has turned me into an advocate for the sex toy industry. Here's why. 
Sexy Excerpt: '34B' by Bill Kte'pi from Rachel Kramer Bussel's 'Flying High'

What happens when two strangers plan a sexy encounter in the sky? Read an excerpt here. 
Sex Stories We Love: Sex Toy Recycling, Sex Ed and Boobie Love

Sex is full of ethical quandaries. Check out some of the ones we caught in the news this week. 
Pick Your Pleasure: 10 Steps to Choosing a Vibrator

Picking the perfect toy isn't easy. These 10 steps can help put you on the path to toys that hold the highest pleasure potential for you. 
Want to Know If You're In Love? Check Your Bra. No, Really.

This bra is pretty, but it won't do much for your sex life; it only unclasps when the wearer falls in love. 
Electrify Your Orgasms: TENS Units for Beginners

Want to add a little electricity to your love life? Get an introduction to one basic sex toy designed to do just that. 
Why Is It Mostly Women Who Write About Sex?

Where are the boys? Why so few men blog about sex. 

Redhead Bedhead gives a sneak-peek of LELO's latest toy, DEXTRUS. 
Sex Stories We Love: Rough Sex, Cocks in Socks and the Best Shaggin' Wagon Ever

This week has several great sex stories landing in the laps of unexpected civilians. Let's take a look. 
Holy Clit, Batman! 9 Amazing Facts About the Clitoris

You'll be surprised by how much this little organ packs under the hood. Check out the most surprising facts about the clitoris. 
What Does 'Sex Positive' Mean to You?

Wondering what this term really means or how it's defined? We asked some very sex positive people for their thoughts. 
Financial Worries Keeping You From Getting Jiggy With It? Join the Club

Recent studies suggest that income affects sexual satisfaction - but there are ways to beat the money blues. 
Sexy Stories We Love: The Sexy Dance, Transgender Surgery and Why People Hate Porn Stars

This week's round-up is quite a random mix of topics, from sexy dancing to sexy literature, porn stars and trans* surgeries. Let’s just dig right in! 
Why We Should All Be Talking About Sex A Lot More Often

For many people, sexuality is surrounded by confusion, misinformation and suffering. Talking about sex in an educational, meaningful way can elicit clarity, understanding and even joy. Any questions? 
Sexy Excerpt: 'My Journey Into the World of the Dominatrix' by Anne O Nomis

This books delves into the long history behind female domination as a profession. Here we share the forward, where the author describes what led her to the project. 
A Beginner's Guide to Submission

The fantasy of being ordered around, spanked, and generally coerced to perform sexual acts can seem thrilling. The question for those who haven't actually done it, however, is where to start. 
9 Things You Didn't Know About Putting on a Condom

Everyone knows that wearing a condom is one of the most effective ways to prevent unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted infections. However, it's what you don't know about putting on a condom that can change your life. 
Sex Stories We Love: Fascinating Fetish Facts, Belle Knox and  ... Steak

This week was a mixed bag in sex news. Check out some of the stories you may have missed. 
Sex Blogger of the Month: Sinclair Sexsmith

In an effort to find and promote the best sex blogs on the Web, we're highlighting a new sex blogger every month. Here's our interview with Sinclair Sexsmith. 
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Feminization is a type of roleplay that involves imposing traditionally female attributes on a submissive male partner. This is often used with female dominance.... Read more 


Petticoating refers to a type of fantasy roleplay that involves a submissive man being coerced into dressing in female clothing. This practice is said to have... Read more 


Gorean refers to a kink lifestyle that originated in the novels of science fiction writer John Norman. Those who participate in the Gorean lifestyle, or "... Read more 


Forniphilia is a form of extreme bondage where the submissive is bound so that they become a piece of furniture themselves, such as a chair or table. The term is... Read more 

Orgasm Denial

Orgasm denial is a kind of sex play that involves maintaining a high level of arousal for an extended period of time without orgasm. This practice is often used in... Read more 
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