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Pink Boxing

Pink boxing is a slang term for anal fisting. The term, generally, is used to refer to fisting a female anus.

Past Terms: BacchanaliaThe High Dive PositionThe Mermaid Position

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Clover Clamp

A clover clamp is a type of nipple clamp that's flat and measures about 2-4 inches in diameter. These clamps are typically attached to a chain, and are designed to... Read more 

Inversion Table

An inversion table is a piece of equipment used mostly by the BDSM community. It is made up of a platform, where a person is strapped down and can be positioned at... Read more 


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