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The Cowgirl Position

Cowgirl is a sex position in which the woman straddles her partner as if she's riding a horse. It a postion that gives the woman a lot of control over the depth and... Read more

Past Terms: The Padlock PositionThe Nirvana PositionThe X-Rated Position

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I'm assuming that sex is not the only reason you are in this relationship. Otherwise, I doubt you would even bother writing for advice or calling...read on
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Check out the hot, controversial and unique things that happened in the world of sex last week. 
In Small-Town Georgia, Getting a Sex Toy Requires a Doctor's Prescription

Think walking into a sex shop is embarrassing? Imagine having to ask for a prescription to get off. One small town has made a prescription a requirement. Find out what that says about some of society's assumptions about sex toys. 
What Have Local Dildos Been Up To? A Lot

What do Spiderman, US Airways' Twitter account, and a fisherman's catch all have in common? Dildos! 
Erectile Dysfunction Drugs - Not The Ultimate Fix

ED drugs may promise a quick fix, but communication is the most important tool. Here, we explain several non-medicinal alternatives to combat erectile dysfunction. 
Sorry Princess, the Handsome Princes Are in Another Castle - Getting It On!

What is a "normal" family? A new kid's book about homosexuality gets added to the list of books that spark controversy. 
Sex Blogger of the Month: Jillian Boyd of Lady Laid Bare

In an effort to find and promote the best sex blogs on the Web, we're highlighting a new sex blogger every month. Here's our interview with Jillian Boyd of Lady Laid Bare. 
Bloody Hell! Is Period Sex Really a Big Deal?

A woman spends an estimated 3,500 days of her life menstruating. Do you really want to put your sex life on hold for all that time? 
Sex Stories We Love: Sleeping Naked, Techno Sex Gadgets and Sex on the Beach ... Or Not

From faulty marriage advice, to sleeping naked to sex on the beach, this week's top stories promise a little something for everyone. Enjoy! 
Women Ask: Can I Ever Enjoy Sex Again? (The Answer Is Yes!)

Are you one of many women who can no longer imagine enjoying sex? Don't lose hope! Restore your libido and get your sex life back on track with these helpful tools and tips. 
5 World Cup Statistics That Have Nothing to Do With Soccer ... And Everything to Do With Sex

Tired of hearing about soccer? Here are 5 World Cup statistics that having nothing to do with the sport. 
Let's Talk About (Strap-On) Sex, Baby

Think a stone dildo with a leather harness sounds fun? The Ancient Greeks did! Fortunately, the strap-on game has improved over time. Follow its history here. 
Honey, I Have Herpes

One million people in the United States are living with genital herpes, and one in every six people between the ages of 19 and 49 have the infection. But while the disease may be incurable, it isn't the end of a normal life. 
Sex Stories We Love: Sex Myths, Slut Shaming and a Very Controversial Piece of Art

Some weeks are full of gloriously sex positive news. Others ... not so much. This past week was a doozy. Check out some of the top sex stories we found. 
The Autoblow 2: It's Exactly What You Think It Is

Out of the package, the Autoblow 2 looks a lot like an insulated thermos with a fake mouth on top, but it's likely to provide a happy ending, both for users and its inventor. 
10 Things You Don't Know About Penises

If you think the penis isn't mysterious, there's a lot you don't know. Check out these interesting factoids about man's best friend. 
How Taking Control of Your Sex Life Will Lead to Better Sex

You can't always count on your partner to know what turns you on, but it's never too late to take charge of your own sexual satisfaction. Speak up and voice your desires today to have better sex tomorrow! 
When Your Partner Sleeps With Someone Else - And It Makes You Happy

What's it called when your partner's sexual freedom makes you happy, rather than green with jealousy? Let us introduce you to something called compersion. 
Sex Stories We Love: The Summer of Kink, Surrogate Sex Ed, and Lots of Sex Geekery

Summer is here and things are heating up in sex stories online. Check out the top posts from the past week. 
7 BDSM Tips for First Timers

New to BDSM? Here are some expert tips to help you get started. 
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Compersion is often defined as "the opposite of jealousy." It is an empathetic state of happiness and joy spurred by another individual's experience of... Read more 


YKIOK is an acronym that stands for "Your kink is OK." It originated on the Usenet newsgroup alt.sex.bondage and was often used in conjunction with the... Read more 

MMF Threesome

A MMF threesome is a threesome that involves two males and a female, and includes bisexual play between the two men.  


Celibacy is a word used to describe the state of being sexually abstinent. The word comes from the Latin, caelibatus, meaning the state of being unmarried. Celibacy... Read more 


Chastity is the state of being chaste or pure. The term was originally used to describe the sexual behaviour of a man or woman as it conformed to the moral... Read more 
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