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Snapchat is a mobile device app that can be used to share pictures with friends and significant others. However, there are a couple features that make this app very... Read more

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The 4 Basic Steps to G-Spot Bliss

Every G-spot is unique, but there are a few basic steps that can help coax it out to play. Learn them here. 
5 Reasons Men Over 50 Love Blow Jobs

Oral sex can be a great way to expand our sexual repertoires as we age. Here are five reasons why men love it so much. 
Polyamory: More Than Enough Love to Go Around

According to polyamorists, there's plenty of love in the world to go around, and that love does not diminish when shared - it multiplies. 
Sex Stories We Love: Hometown Porn Hero, Sperm Races and Misconceptions About Sex

We're bringing the sexiest news to you each and every week! Here are this past week's top news stories about sex. 
Why a Feminist Like Me Would Actually Consider Getting a Boob Job

There are reasons to avoid breast augmentation surgery and to let my body continue to age naturally. But there are still powerful moments when I entertain the thought of getting it done anyway. 
The 12 Best Pieces of Furniture to Have Sex On

You can enjoy a relatively ergonomic romp on some of the furniture you already own. Check out your 12 best options. 
9 Sex Moves to Rock a Woman's World

Women are wired differently from men, which means that it often takes a little more than bump and grind to bring them to the big O. Here are a few new moves that might just do the trick. 
How Sex Toys Can Help You Play Nice With a Partner

Sex toys are a great way to bring a little adventure into the bedroom, to experiment with new experiences and to share them with your partner. Here are five things to know about playing nice - with toys! 
Sex Stories We Love: 50 Shades of Real, Everyday Sex and the History of Sex Dolls & High Heels

There are right ways and wrong ways to express ourselves sexually. This week, we explore where we draw the lines and open our minds. 
Arrested for 3-D Vaginas?  Go home, Japan.  You're Drunk!

In a world where phallic representations are found in transportation, buildings, weaponry and plenty of other places, is the vag getting the shaft? 
In Defense of Pubic Hair

In a 1985 issue of Playboy, Madonna sported a full bush. Now, pubic hair is considered so gross that we spend billions of dollars each year to remove it. So should it stay or should it go? 
Sexy Excerpt: 'Open Wide - Felatio' by Alison Tyler

Don't let the intimacy of oral sex intimidate you! Here, we provide a sexy selection of erotica excerpts featuring blow jobs to get you in the mood. 
The 4 Most Practical Things I Learned About Sex Came From a Tantric Sex Class

Can't separate tantric sex from Sting in your mind? Here, one writer debunks common myths about tantra and shares what she learned about how simply giving, receiving and connecting with one's partner can lead to better sex. 
Sex Stories We Love: Sex-Positive TV, Parenting and What It Takes to Be a Male Porn Star

This week's top stories include sex positive media, tips on becoming a porn star and a look at the "O Face." 
So, You Wanna Be a Dominant?

It seems like a dream come true - a dutiful slave (or two) at your beck and call, ready and willing to submit to your every sexual whim, no matter how raunchy. No, you aren't weird, you're just a dominant. 
7 Steps to Buying a Cock Ring

With so many options on the market, sex toy shopping can be a daunting affair. With these 7 steps, we've made it easy for you to stop browsing and start enjoying! 
Am I Addicted to Sex?

These days our world is driven by desire, but sometimes it seems we are sacrificing intimacy for lust. One woman asks herself whether her love of sex is preventing her from connecting with her partners. 
7 Things I Wish I'd Learned in Sex Ed

What is the state of sexual education today? Are teens getting current information or is the class script a blast from the past? From riding the crimson wave to the importance of consent, here are topics sex ed rarely addresses... but should! 
Sex Stories We Love:  Sharing What Turns Us On and Hookup Sex Humor

This week's theme is TMI - and what we can learn from what other people share online. Check it out! 
Summer Lovin': 3 Reasons Why We Love Outdoor Sex

Summer might make us feel universally sexy, but some of us just aren't outdoorsy types. Don't worry: You don't have to feel left out. Check out three of the hottest outdoor summer pleasures - and how to recreate them indoors. 
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Spunk is a slang term for seminal fluid. It may also be used as a verb, meaning to ejaculate semen. Spunk is a thick white or opaque colored liquid made up of... Read more 


Clap is a colloquial term for gonorrhea. It is generally preceded by the word "the." This term has been used as early as the 16th century. It refers to an... Read more 


Hung is a slang term used to describe a man with a large penis. The term hung most commonly refers to the penis’ length. It comes from the idea that when a long... Read more 


Desensitizer is the term for a sexual enhancement product designed to help individuals overcome sexual challenges. These products are usually topical creams or... Read more 


Pheromones are naturally-occurring, odorless substances that the fertile body excretes externally, conveying an airborne signal that provides information and... Read more 
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