What Sexual Personality Type Are You?

Sex advice can sometimes be generic, but who we are in the bedroom is extremely individual. There are as many sexual personalities as there are people — but according to sex therapist Vanessa Marin, people can actually be grouped into 11 sexual personality types.

It can be useful to know what type you are so that you know the best ways to improve your sex life, including the ideal toys to buy. Here are the 11 types and a product that fits each one.

The Decompresser: Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation

The decompresser likes to use sex for one of its most effective purposes: stress relief. If you’re a decompresser, you may engage in sex or masturbation to help yourself get to sleep or clear your mind before work.

Orgasms are probably important to you, since they can bring about a lot of that stress reduction. That’s why the Satisfyer is a great option for you — its clitoris-suction technology delivers orgasms efficiently and in large quantities.

The Explorer: Enby

For the explorer, sex is all about playing, learning, and experimenting. You like going out of your comfort zone and aren’t afraid to laugh at your failed bedroom experiments.

Enby is the perfect toy for you if you’re an explorer because there are endless ways to use it, from rubbing against it to tucking it into a harness,. You can also use it on a partner of any gender.

The Fair-Trader: Satisfyer Partner Multifun 2

If you’re a fair trader, equality is very important to you. You want both you and your partner to receive just as much as you give.

The Partner Multifun 2 is ideal for that because, when you wear it during sex, you can both feel it at the same time. In addition, if you don’t orgasm through penetration alone, it will help give you the clitoral stimulation you need.

The Giver: Rianne S Heart Vibe

As the name would suggest, givers take joy in providing their partners with pleasure. Their partners appreciate their generosity, but givers may sometimes struggle to receive themselves.

The Rianne S Heart Vibe will help make it a two-way street. Its versatile heart shape and waterproof capabilities can inspire couples to find the best creative uses for each person.

The Guardian: Pave Liz Finger Massager

This kind of person needs to feel completely safe and comfortable in order to have satisfying sexual experiences. The addition of a toy might even feel overwhelming for them.

However, this small vibrator, which goes right around your or your partner’s finger, will help provide you with extra pleasure while still maintaining a feeling of comfort and connection with each other.

The Passion-Pursuer: Black Jeweled Nipple Clips

If you love the kind of sex that makes time stand still, that makes you grab at each other and do it like animals, you may be a passion-pursuer.

Experimenting with pain (with clear boundaries and communication, of course) can help bring out the raw passion in you both. These Black Jeweled Nipple Clips are a great way to bring a some kink into your passion play.

The Pleasure-Seeker: jimmyjane Love Pods Halo

Some people simply have sex for pleasure. Pleasure-seekers usually like a lot of physical touch beyond sex and often don’t need an emotional attachment to enjoy sex.