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Video: How to Charm a Clitoris

Published: JANUARY 30, 2020 | Updated: SEPTEMBER 28, 2021
There's so much more to the clitoris than what you can see on the surface. Here are some tips on how to charm a clitoris.

The clitoris tends to get shrouded in mystery and misinformation. Many people think it's just a button you can press, as though there's a sign hanging off it that reads "Push Me for Instant Pleasure!" There's so much more to the clitoris than what you can see on the outside, and learning how to charm a clitoris takes time and practice.


When it comes to charming a clitoris, having a basic understanding of the anatomy of a clitoris is extremely helpful. The part of the clitoris you can see on the outside is called the glans clitoris and it's only a small portion of the entire clitoral complex. The rest of the clitoral complex extends deep inside the body! There's so much more responsive tissue to that can be stimulated than just the glans clitoris!

Check out our video below to learn even more about the wonderful piece of anatomy we call the clitoris and how clitoral vibrators, like the LELO SONA 2 Cruise and LELO Smart Wand, are the perfect tools to help stimulate the entire clitoral complex, not just the surface!

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