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“My suggestion to every teenager, young adult and woman is that if you have painful periods that take you to the nurse’s office doubled over in pain, cause you to miss school or work, or make you cancel plans with friends, please find an endometriosis specialist for evaluation and education,” she says.
Difficulty Orgasming
From what you hear about the “elusive female orgasm,” you might think orgasmless sex was normal. For most people with a vagina, it is not typical to orgasm through intercourse alone. But if you have trouble reaching orgasm at all, that could be an issue worthy of attention.
Often, the source of the problem is psychological or behavioral. For example, it could be that your partner’s not paying enough attention to your clitoris. Or, you may feel uncomfortable or uneasy with your partner - or yourself.
Other times, the issue is more physical. Orgasm problems can be related to medications, such as the antidepressant class SSRIs, says Orbuch. So, it’s a good idea to talk to your doctor about this issue and, if necessary, to see a sex therapistto learn techniques for reaching orgasm and to work through emotional blockages.
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Irregular periods
You might feel lucky if you don’t get your period every month, but skipping periods usually points toward some sort of hormonal imbalance.
A few possible causes of irregular periods include polycystic ovary syndrome, chronic stress, thyroid disorders and malnourishment.
To stabilize your hormones and keep your periods regular, Fromberg recommends “low glycemic meals, robust nutrition, adequate rest and sleep, and working on healthy relationships and stress management.”
Pain During Sex
One in 10 women in one study reported pain during sex, but while it may be common, it’s not normal.
Painful sex is another symptom of endometriosis, says Orbuch, so it’s a good idea to talk to a doctor about it, especially if you’re also experiencing painful periods. Pain during sex can also stem from hormonal imbalances affecting sexual tissue, says Fromberg.
Other potential sources include vaginismus (involuntary clenching of the vagina) and other forms of pelvic floor dysfunction, which can be identified and treated by a physical therapist.
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In short, if your vagina is causing you any discomfort or distress, talk to a doctor, a therapist, or the appropriate professional about treatment. Having a vagina is a gift, and one that should be enjoyed as much as possible.