Sexual Assault

It is estimated that one in five women is assaulted in her life. The numbers for men are much lower, but sexual assault can happen regardless of gender or sexuality. Here we'll talk about sexual assault, hear perspectives from sexual assault survivors and get tips from experts on how to survive life after assault. You are not alone.

BDSM

Excerpt: Kaleidescope by Renee Flowers

This sexy excerpt from Kaleidescope by Renee Flowers delves into how a traumatized sub gains control through BDSM.

Sex Tips

How to Be There for Survivors of Sexual Trauma

Studies on sexual trauma and PTSD, in particular, have shown that social support or a lack thereof has a potent and direct impact on the sufferer’s chances of recovery. Here are some dos and don’ts for how you can support survivors of sexual trauma.

Sexual Health

How Vaginal Mapping Can Be a Part of Your Sexual Healing

Vaginal Mapping is about slowing down, deep breathing, and connecting with your body through exploration. Here's how this process can help survivors heal from trauma.

Sexperts

How to Be a Trauma-Informed Sex Partner

Being a trauma-informed sexual partner isn’t just about interacting with people who have openly disclosed trauma. It is the mindset we need to be working from with any intimate interaction.

Sexperts

How Sex Toys Can Help You Reclaim Your Sexuality After Assault

By utilizing tools such as masturbation and sex toys survivors can define what sexuality and bodily agency look

Sex Tips

What to Do When You're Triggered During Sex

Being triggered is common for those who've experienced trauma. Here are some things to do if it happens during sex.

Sexual Health

How a Sex Positive, Savvy Person Can Still Get Assaulted

Even the savviest most sex-positive people can be victims of sexual assault. And it's never their fault.

Sexperts

Is Your Relationship Unhealthy or Abusive? Knowing When to Get Help and Get Out

There are different types of abuse that can be present in a relationship. Here's how to spot some of the differences so that you can get help and get out.

Sexual Health

A Step-by-Step Guide to Negotiating Consent

You know consent's important ... but how to approach it? Here's a step-by-step guide.

Sexy News

Being With John Malkovich: What We're Missing In the Aziz Ansari Fallout

Our sex education is failing to address the issues at the heart of how we engage with each other as sexual beings.

Sexual Health

Decoding My Rape Fantasies

I can play with fantasies of consensual non-consensual sex while being aware that what I truly desire in a lover is mutual respect, love and affection.