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Why Plus-Size Boudoir Shoots Are So Damned Liberating Why Plus-Size Boudoir Shoots Are So Damned Liberating Why Plus-Size Boudoir Shoots Are So Damned Liberating Why Plus-Size Boudoir Shoots Are So Damned Liberating


When it comes to plus-size women taking it all off in a boudoir shoot, it's not about the photos ... it's about the experience.

6 Ways to Feel Better about Your Body in Bed 6 Ways to Feel Better about Your Body in Bed 6 Ways to Feel Better about Your Body in Bed 6 Ways to Feel Better about Your Body in Bed


How can we feel sexy when we're feeling down about our bodies? Here are some tips to try.

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I was devastated when medical problems forced me to put my very active sex life on hold, but the time off did teach me a few things about...

What I Learned While Selling My Underwear Online What I Learned While Selling My Underwear Online What I Learned While Selling My Underwear Online What I Learned While Selling My Underwear Online


My customers indulge in my most personal piece of clothing and that gives me a sense of power I've never experienced before.

How Feminist Porn Changed My Stance on Pornography How Feminist Porn Changed My Stance on Pornography How Feminist Porn Changed My Stance on Pornography How Feminist Porn Changed My Stance on Pornography


Is all porn ... porn? Sure, but feminist porn is still different.

How Birth Control Nearly Ruined My Life How Birth Control Nearly Ruined My Life How Birth Control Nearly Ruined My Life How Birth Control Nearly Ruined My Life


Birth control side effects taught me how to take charge, ask questions and ensure that I get a prescription that works for me.

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There are so many things I wish I'd known before those early sexual encounters with my girlfriends. Here's what I learned the hard way.

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Sexological bodywork – also known as somatic sex education or simply “SexBod” – involves therapeutic and erotic touch as treatment for a...

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Threesomes can be hard, but gay threesomes give me hope.

Masturbation Month: It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year ... Masturbation Month: It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year ... Masturbation Month: It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year ... Masturbation Month: It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year ...


Here at Kinkly, May is one of our favorite months. So let's get this party started!

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For this writer, orgasms are best when they come one at a time. And that's OK.

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Believe that monogamous couples are happier than polyamorous couples? Science shows they may be equally happy.

5 Things to Know When the (So-Called) Best Sex Toy Doesn't Work for You 5 Things to Know When the (So-Called) Best Sex Toy Doesn't Work for You 5 Things to Know When the (So-Called) Best Sex Toy Doesn't Work for You 5 Things to Know When the (So-Called) Best Sex Toy Doesn't Work for You
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Keeping casual sex truly casual means you have to make extra efforts to set boundaries not just for others but for yourself as well.

Why You Shouldn't Have Sex for Your Health Why You Shouldn't Have Sex for Your Health Why You Shouldn't Have Sex for Your Health Why You Shouldn't Have Sex for Your Health


What happened to sex for pleasure? Here's why it's time we brought that kind of sexy back.

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Who says science isn't sexy? Dr. Justin Lehmiller of Sex & Psychology is our Sex Blogger of the Month! Why? Because science is sexy!

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The holidays typically brings a bevy of articles exploring whether it's OK to have sex when you're a guest in other people's homes. This...

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We might’ve had something amazing if it had all clicked. Instead, we had an awkward threesome, some painful memories, and a lost friendship.

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Sex addiction is a controversial topic even among psychologists and sexologists. The most convincing arguments, however, seem to come from...

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