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Yes, it's ok to just kiss and cuddle. Here's why some people are going in for all the fun without the fucking.

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Sex education is important at every step in our lives, not just in our youths. Here's how sex ed helps us discover and grow our sexuality...

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Sapiosexuality is when someone is emotionally or sexually aroused by another person’s intelligence. Here's a look at this kind of...

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Here are three ways to be a present and an active ally that enhances Pride instead of detracting from it.

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In a nutshell, demisexuality is basically about needing to an emotional connection with someone before becoming turned on to them. Here's a...

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I’ve heard about many people’s incredible solo play experiences. Given that May is National Masturbation Month, it seemed like a perfect...

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Studies on sexual trauma and PTSD, in particular, have shown that social support or a lack thereof has a potent and direct impact on the...

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We went straight to the experts and asked them what they think the top sex trends of 2020 will be. Here's what they had to say!

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Whatever your want from your sex life, writing it down can help. Here are 7 ways journaling could boost your sex life.

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Sex positive is a very common buzzword, but what does it really mean? Here are 8 things that being sex positive definitely does not mean.

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I've done it wrong and I've done it right. Either way, I just don't like it. Here's why.

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Between the sheets, 'should' ought to be considered a bad word.

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Think you need bondage or sex toys to have a sizzling sex life? Not necessarily. If you love vanilla sex, here's how to embrace it.

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There’s really no good reason for casual sex to be fraught with such a stigma. Here's how to hit the road and have safe, casual sex.

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Many people are fascinated and awed by pregnancy and lactation. So, maybe we shouldn't be surprised that this is also a common fetish....

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Poly, monogamy, and poly again. Here's why we did it.

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Be a force of good by considering the greater 'us' while deciding when, where, and around whom you sprinkle your kinky pixie dust.

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Jason Rogers is an Olympic medalist, but one of the biggest challenges he had to face was his struggle with sexual performance anxiety....

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Can being kinky and a person of faith co-exist? We take a look at religion in the kink community.

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