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Yeah, Bob, We Get It. You Like BDSM. Why You Shouldn't Push Kink on Vanilla Folks. Yeah, Bob, We Get It. You Like BDSM. Why You Shouldn't Push Kink on Vanilla Folks. Yeah, Bob, We Get It. You Like BDSM. Why You Shouldn't Push Kink on Vanilla Folks. Yeah, Bob, We Get It. You Like BDSM. Why You Shouldn't Push Kink on Vanilla Folks.


Be a force of good by considering the greater 'us' while deciding when, where, and around whom you sprinkle your kinky pixie dust.

Battling Sexual Performance Anxiety: An Interview with Olympian Jason Rogers Battling Sexual Performance Anxiety: An Interview with Olympian Jason Rogers Battling Sexual Performance Anxiety: An Interview with Olympian Jason Rogers Battling Sexual Performance Anxiety: An Interview with Olympian Jason Rogers


Jason Rogers is an Olympic medalist, but one of the biggest challenges he had to face was his struggle with sexual performance anxiety....

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Can being kinky and a person of faith co-exist? We take a look at religion in the kink community.

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A long time doesn't always mean a good time for everyone involved. That said, stamina is still a sexual skill many people hope to develop.

Couples' Privilege Is a Thing and It's a Toxic Experience for Poly Practitioners Couples' Privilege Is a Thing and It's a Toxic Experience for Poly Practitioners Couples' Privilege Is a Thing and It's a Toxic Experience for Poly Practitioners Couples' Privilege Is a Thing and It's a Toxic Experience for Poly Practitioners


Couples' privilege is the acceptance of certain polyamorous relationships over others. And it can be toxic.

6 Ways to Feel Better about Your Body in Bed 6 Ways to Feel Better about Your Body in Bed 6 Ways to Feel Better about Your Body in Bed 6 Ways to Feel Better about Your Body in Bed


How can we feel sexy when we're feeling down about our bodies? Here are some tips to try.

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Could sex journaling make your sex life better? It sure can.

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The holidays typically brings a bevy of articles exploring whether it's OK to have sex when you're a guest in other people's homes. This...

Kinbaku and You: A First Timer’s Foray Into Rope Play Kinbaku and You: A First Timer’s Foray Into Rope Play Kinbaku and You: A First Timer’s Foray Into Rope Play Kinbaku and You: A First Timer’s Foray Into Rope Play


How is that simply tightening a knot can send both partners into a fleeting moment of bliss?

What Good Kinky and Vanilla Relationships Have in Common What Good Kinky and Vanilla Relationships Have in Common What Good Kinky and Vanilla Relationships Have in Common What Good Kinky and Vanilla Relationships Have in Common


Surprised to think that kinky and vanilla relationships have anything in common? Well, they have more in common than you think!

A Polyamory Tool Kit: 5 Tips for Managing Your Relationships A Polyamory Tool Kit: 5 Tips for Managing Your Relationships A Polyamory Tool Kit: 5 Tips for Managing Your Relationships A Polyamory Tool Kit: 5 Tips for Managing Your Relationships


Many people assume polyamorists spend a lot of time having sex. In reality, they spend a lot of time keeping their relationships organized.

The Sex Fairy Tale We All Need to Let Go Of The Sex Fairy Tale We All Need to Let Go Of The Sex Fairy Tale We All Need to Let Go Of The Sex Fairy Tale We All Need to Let Go Of


A lot of what we think of as sex is more about an imposed set of norms and expectations. This author explains how preparing to transition...

Tips for Having Awesome - and Pain-Free - Hand Sex Tips for Having Awesome - and Pain-Free - Hand Sex Tips for Having Awesome - and Pain-Free - Hand Sex Tips for Having Awesome - and Pain-Free - Hand Sex


Say goodbye to pain and start embracing pleasure, with these tips on how to make manual stimulation less uncomfortable.

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Unapologetically enjoying the company of younger partners doesn't warrant criticism, controversy or labels.

How Writing Erotica Helped Me Overcome Low Libido How Writing Erotica Helped Me Overcome Low Libido How Writing Erotica Helped Me Overcome Low Libido How Writing Erotica Helped Me Overcome Low Libido


Sometimes, boosting libido can be about stimulating your sexual imagination.

Sex Magic: Manifesting Positive Life Energy Through Erotic Play Sex Magic: Manifesting Positive Life Energy Through Erotic Play Sex Magic: Manifesting Positive Life Energy Through Erotic Play Sex Magic: Manifesting Positive Life Energy Through Erotic Play


How to use physical pleasure to create life-affirming magic.

Not in the Mood: How to Say No to Sex Without Damaging Your Relationship Not in the Mood: How to Say No to Sex Without Damaging Your Relationship Not in the Mood: How to Say No to Sex Without Damaging Your Relationship Not in the Mood: How to Say No to Sex Without Damaging Your Relationship


Science suggests that rejecting your partner in a kind, positive way may be better for your relationship than (grudgingly) giving in.

Pants Half Full? What People Think of Their Penis Pants Half Full? What People Think of Their Penis Pants Half Full? What People Think of Their Penis Pants Half Full? What People Think of Their Penis


From size and shape to the opinions of others, there are countless factors that influence one's cock confidence. Here's a reminder that...

10 Ways to Prioritize Sexual Intimacy on a Busy Vacation 10 Ways to Prioritize Sexual Intimacy on a Busy Vacation 10 Ways to Prioritize Sexual Intimacy on a Busy Vacation 10 Ways to Prioritize Sexual Intimacy on a Busy Vacation


Making sex a priority ensures it gets checked off your vacation to-do list, allowing you to arrive home rested, relaxed and (sexually)...

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