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When we let go of arbitrary definitions, we are left to do some of the defining for ourselves. That means you need to figure out what feels...

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For this writer, orgasms are best when they come one at a time. And that's OK

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Believe that monogamous couples are happier than polyamorous couples? Science shows they may be equally happy

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Here at Kinkly, May is one of our favorite months. So let's get this party

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Keeping casual sex truly casual means you have to make extra efforts to set boundaries not just for others but for yourself as well

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Bad body image can have a serious impact on sexual performance - and pleasure. Here's what to do about it

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What's it called when your partner's sexual freedom makes you happy, rather than green with jealousy? Let us introduce you to something...

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It's still possible to find joy in your body after experiencing trauma. Here are some things that might help

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Who says science isn't sexy? Dr. Justin Lehmiller of Sex & Psychology is our Sex Blogger of the Month! Why? Because science is

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It really is better to give than to receive. These sexy ways to give your partner pleasure during the holidays will be a gift to you as...

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Sex addiction is a controversial topic even among psychologists and sexologists. The most convincing arguments, however, seem to come from...

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We might’ve had something amazing if it had all clicked. Instead, we had an awkward threesome, some painful memories, and a lost friendship

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Being polyamorous taught me things about love that I wish I had known when I was monogamous

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Thinking about introducing bondage play into your relationship? We know that can be hard; we have tips on how you can make it

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The holidays typically brings a bevy of articles exploring whether it's OK to have sex when you're a guest in other people's homes. This...

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Middle aged women, don't be shy! Reap the benefits of a positive sexual attitude and active sex life on your overall health

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Casual sex isn't harmful or beneficial: It's both. Find out how it's likely to turn out for you by answering these nine questions

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Polyamory is hard, but navigating these complex relationships is all about learning new skills. These books can help

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