If you haven't tried bondage, maybe you don't think of it as romantic. But, oh god, it sure can be. Bondage, done right, requires communication, respect and mutual care. It's also, well, bonding. Tying someone up is sort of like undressing them in reverse. Instead of stripping them down, you add a few layers in the same sensual way you removed their clothes. Then it's up to you to shower them with all kinds of attention and pleasure; your partner has given you the controls and is opening themselves up to your total attention.
Sounds sexy, right? Here are a few simple products to get you started. (Hint: If you've discussed it with your partner, they make great Valentine's day gifts.)
Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System
This bondage product lands on a lot of our lists because, well, it's awesome! This ingenious bondage system is secured under your mattress with an attachment point and soft cuff for each corner. It allows you to set up a bondage scene in seconds and pack it away just as quickly and discreetly for next time.
Sportsheets Bondage Tape
Where bondage rope takes skill and practice bondage tape is about as simple as it gets - in a good way. This quality bondage tape will have you wrapping your partner to your heart's content. We've even got some sex positions that go great with bondage tape. You're welcome.
Lelo SUTRA Chainlink Cuffs
If you're looking for something a little more luxurious, look no further than these LELO cuffs. They're beautiful, silky and oh-so-sexy. They look and feel great and make a really sexy and decadent gift!
Sportsheets Expandable Spreader Bar & Cuff Set
If this bar doesn't look sexy to you, you aren't using your imagination! This bar and four soft cuffs is full of bondage options, all of which will be safe and comfortable thanks to its sturdy design and soft details.
Sportsheets Neck and Wrist Restraint
See all attachment points on this piece? It represents all the ways you can bind your partner. Create your own personal body restraint system!
Sportsheets Leather Leash & Collar
If you like the idea of pet play, or want to play with some dominance and submission, a leash and collar might be just the thing for you. Leather is a classic and high-quality option.

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