Since I’m a switch, I know how overwhelmingly intense it can be to receive a fist, and I love being able to give that experience to someone else. I love watching them be overcome and pushed to the brink with pleasure that is just a little bit more than they can handle, seeing their eyes go wide as my hand slips inside them for the first time and their hole closes tight around my wrist.
“As a fisting top: I love the process of working up to an entire fist. The feeling of the vagina closing around my wrist is magic and we are both transported to another space in time,” says sex educator Lizxnn Disaster.
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Why would you want to receive a fist?
I found my G-spot before I found my clit; my sexuality has always had penetration as a focal point. Penetration and power exchange. I’ll admit many of the intense things I do I do for the show, for the rush of power I feel when I show exactly how much I can take. I do it for the look of awe and fascination on someone’s face when they realize what I can do.
When I throw a massive spanking party for my birthday every year, where I receive more than 350 hits, I do it for the gasps and winces I hear from my friends watching. I do it for the way people fawn over my ass and the bruises that adorn it. I do it for the feelings of achievement, of knowing that my body did something amazing. Fisting is different. Yes, it’s about the challenge and the feeling of accomplishment and of pushing my limits, but it’s more than that as well.
“Best thing about being a bottom: you get to explore the far edges of pleasure and be amazed by what your body can do. You are stimulating all of your internal nerve endings and the length of your clitoral body, or crura. I'm a girth queen so fisting suits me well!” says sex educator Kenna Cook.
There’s nothing quite like the feeling of a fist inside you, Your hole feels stretched and full, but at the same time the opening is able to relax around someone’s wrist. The pressure on the G-spot is intense and focused. Sometimes there’s that dull ache behind the waves of pleasure, knowing you’re teetering right on the edge of your boundaries, knowing that you are powerful. I imagine it feels similar to crossing the finish line after your first marathon except, you know, with more orgasms.
I imagine it feels similar to crossing the finish line after your first marathon except, you know, with more orgasms.
Sex educator Katja von Huene explains it well:
“I love being vaginally fisted because it makes me feel deeply connected to the wonder, capacity and capabilities of my body. I feel that the mysteries of life and death are buried deep in my cunt, and being fisted helps me feel so connected to those concepts. It’s so grounding but also spectacularly transcendent. It’s a celebration of my magical-as-fuck vagina."
