There's a raging debate going on, and it's over the G-spot. Some scientists think it exists while others argue that it doesn't. Some women will spend hours talking about their G-spot pleasure and female ejaculations while other women will vehemently argue that they don't have a G-spot or hate it being touched. No matter which side of the argument you might fall on, this part of your sexual anatomy might be worth exploring. You'll never know until you try!
Learning About Your G-spot
If you've never explored your G-spot before, reading a book about G-spot pleasure should be your first stop. Not only will it explain the anatomy behind the G-spot, but it will provide a lot of tips for finding the G-spot, helping your partner find it, different ways to stimulate it, and of course, some information about female ejaculation.
Until you can get your hands on a great G-spot book (I recommend "The Secrets of Great G-Spot Orgasms and Female Ejaculation" by Tristan Taormino), there are some basic things you can do to have more success with your G-spot exploration. The most important aspect to G-spot exploration is to be extremely aroused before you begin. Especially if you've never located your G-spot, arousal will help the area to be more sensitive to touch and more pleasurable to stimulate. During your exploration, you may find your G-spot, but might find it uncomfortable to touch; that's totally normal. Some people do not enjoy G-spot stimulation, and if you're one of them, that's OK.
In searching for your G-spot, patience should also be high on your list of priorities. G-spot stimulation isn't a fast process for many beginners, and you shouldn't rush it. You may not locate it the first time or the first couple of times. Understand that part of the G-spot journey is spending the time to understand your body's pleasure in a new way; try not to get frustrated if you don't get the results you want right away.
With those tips in mind, I'm sure you're ready to consider purchasing your first G-spot toy. The following are some of the most-recommend G-spot toys for beginners. They tend to have beginner-friendly features or a beginner-friendly design that makes it easy to locate the G-spot.
LELO GIGI 2
Typically considered a classic G-spot toy, the LELO GIGI 2 is a slender dildo with a flat head designed to provide consistent pressure on the G-spot. The body-safe silicone toy is simple, powerful and, for many people, it works!
Njoy Pure Wand
Actually, this is a pretty big tool for a beginner, but it bears mentioning if you have prior experience. Made of stainless steel, the nJoy Pure Wand features a dual-sided, curved design. Each end is a different size to allow you to choose how large you want to go, depending on your mood. The rigid material provides the intense pressure that usually leads to good G-spot pleasure, while the material allows for full sterilization in boiling water. While the Pure Wand may be pricier than other options, the stainless steel design was created to last a lifetime. (Want to learn more? Read our nJoy Pure Wand Review.)
Jopen Key Comet II
If you prefer the feel of silicone material or want a cheaper alternative to the Pure Wand, the Key Comet II is probably your best option. Featuring the same type of curve as the stainless steel option from nJoy, the Key Comet II is made from a lighter silicone material, making it easier on the wrists for longer sessions. The Key Comet II also vibrates, providing more interesting options.
JeJoue G-Kii 2
Touted for its adjustable design, the G-Kii 2 is one of the only G-spot toys that can be entirely customized for your body. Using two flexible "joints" throughout the shaft of the toy, the toy bends (and locks into place). Not only that, but this silicone toy comes equipped with vibrations. Recharging the battery is just as simple as using the magnetic-clasp charging accessory to plug the toy into a power source.
It's possible that none of the above toys really look appealing to you. That's OK! While these are some of the most popular and most recommended G-spot toys, there are a multitude of other G-spot sex toys available for you. When looking for your beginner G-spot toy, there are some things you should look for. The material should be mostly rigid. Because the G-spot responds well to pressure, a rigid material and design helps pleasure that special spot. It's also vital that your toy have a deep G-spot curve. While very small curves may work fine for some people, the majority of people find that the larger curve helps them better locate their G-spot (especially when they haven't located it before).
Once you have your new G-spot toy, make sure to take the suggestions above when using your toy. And above all, don't put too much pressure on yourself. Explore and enjoy what your body can do. You may not find G-spot bliss after all, but you're likely to learn some other new things about your body.