Stripping Down Panty Fetishes

Knickers, pretties, tap pants, drawers, unmentionables … these are just a few of the most charming terms the Merriam-Webster dictionary offers up for “underwear.” Perhaps the number of terms we have available is one indication of our cultural obsession with underthings, especially underwear typically considered feminine. Although statistics around fetishes are few and far between, one study out of Italy found that 12% of people surveyed had a sexual preference for underwear.

Of course, another obsession of our culture is drawing lines between "acceptable" kinks and those that have crossed a line. While enjoying a beautiful person wearing pretty panties is widely accepted, even expected, what happens if your interest in the underwear goes beyond seeing them on another person?

What Is a Panty Fetish?

When I was a teenager, long before I was in the sex education world, I remember hearing that people sold their used panties and being both surprised and intrigued. Along with foot fetishes, used panty fetishes are probably among the most well known, and the most likely to be the punchline of a mainstream joke.

We’ve probably all heard “panty sniffer," probably because something about this fetish captures the imagination. Perhaps it’s the intimate nature of our undergarments, or because so many people can relate to being turned on by the scent of their lover.

It’s also a fetish that has often been the subject of “explainer” pieces or television exposés. One of the most popular oddities is Japan’s famous used panty vending machine. Yes, used panties could be purchased in vending machines in Japan. But, as fascinating as this is, the prevalence of these machines is overstated. While used panties were sometimes available in the past, that practice has mostly been shut down. In fact, the whole thing might be a bit of a mis-translation (although panty fetishes are very real!)

A Tech in Asia article by J.T. Quigly explains that there’s a bit of an intentional mistranslation at play, “The addition of two kanji characters makes it instantly apparent to a native speaker that the panties are not, in fact, used. Kakou, in this case, means that the panties were manufactured to appear used … like jeans that are sold with holes and frayed edges straight from the factory.”

In the psychology world, what we call fetishes are known as paraphilias. One scientific journal lists 549 types of paraphilia. And, although they’ve been studied for over a hundred years, we’re nowhere near a consensus on what causes a paraphilia to form. What is most certainly true is that they solidly pre-date easy access to pornography, or the ability to find and talk to people with similar interests. In other words, fetishes - including a fetish for used panties - are just a unique part of who people are as sexual beings.

The Hidden Essence

In Jesse Bering’s book "Perv," he discusses paraphilias at length, and makes an important distinction about new versus used fetish objects:

“For the fetishist, it’s the object’s physical connection with the erotic target’s body, as though it has absorbed the person’s hidden ‘essence,’ that makes it so arousing. This is an important point. Brand-new, never-before-worn pairs of shoes aren’t likely to turn on a shoe fetishist… Likewise, if your fetish object is men’s underwear, you’re not going to tear into the plastic wrapping of that crisp new pair of Fruit of the Looms you picked up at Target the next time you’re in the mood; you’re going to pull out the semen-stained briefs worn by your favorite porn star that you won online…”