Sexy Selfies

Published: DECEMBER 24, 2014
Technology can be used to enhance your sexual feelings. There are many great ways to take sexy selfies and erotic video. Make sure that your pics and videos are stored in a safe manner!

The technology age is amazing! It makes our world more convenient, efficient, and much more sexy. Here are some creative ways on how you can use your technology to enhance your foreplay and sex life.

Using a Webcam for Sexy Selfies

Webcams are perfect for hands free shots. Using a webcam will allow you to get creative with your selfies. On latops made within the past seven years, the webcam will probably be integrated into the computer which makes it great for setting up overhead shots. It can be used for other angles, too. I’ve taken some of my best shots with my laptop webcam.

Webcams are also great for portability if you want to take your sexy selfies in different locations. Set your laptop on the bathroom counter in front of the shower while you’re all soapy and wet. You can set it on the floor in front of you while you do something naughty.

Webcams are also an awesome tool for making videos. Short or long, cute, sexy, or nasty films starring you can be easily recorded! If you’ve ever had a fantasy of being a porn star this option is for you. Pictures are hot and sexy, but there is something about the moving image that gets the blood flowing. Seeing you in motion will drive your partner crazy. It mixes it up if you’ve only been sending pictures. To add even more excitement, have your partner direct you on exactly what it is they want to see. You can do anything from a sexy dance, a strip tease, or a full out masturbation video.

Cell Phones and Cameras

Cell phones and cameras are great for on the go nude selfie action. Tried, tested. and true they certainly serve their erotic purpose. The great thing about a cell phone is that you can take the picture and send it instantly. Your partner can do the same and you’ll both experience one hell of a sexting session.

Cell phones are also great for close up shots (but be careful anything viewed on extreme zoom is no longer sexy; there are reasons why the human eye cannot see certain things). Also, they are convenient for when you are taking pictures in places you probably should be taking sexy selfies at; sexy selfies sent from work will drive your partner wild. People love taboo things although they rarely admit to it.

Tips for Pics

  1. Lighting can make a huge difference if you’re in a position where you’re able to manipulate it to your advantage.
  2. Make sure you are groomed! That doesn’t always mean being bald and hairless (unless that's what you are into doing). Make sure that you look tidy and presentable in a way that your partner can appreciate.
  3. Pay attention to environment and surroundings! A lot of people are really unaware how unsexy a picture can become if their dirty laundry is on the floor behind them or the bathroom in which they are posing in has grime and grunge everywhere.
  4. Do you have a favorite asset that you’re most comfortable with? Flaunt it! I love my butt and so does the camera.
  5. Try new and interesting positions. A pictures from the rear, a picture from the front, a sexy silhouette, different clothing, no clothing, or a different location …variety is the spice of life.
  6. A "do you want to know what I’m doing right now" picture is always a home run.
  7. Surprise emails always brighten a dull work day! Just make sure in the subject you warn them not to open when coworkers are around.

Internet safety and privacy are concerns. There are many ways that our information can be leaked. Here are some ways to protect yourself, your pictures, and your partner.

PinkCherry Sex ToysIf you want more privacy between you and your partner, create folders on your phone or computer for the sole purpose of storing naughty pictures and videos. Set a password on the file or set it on hidden. To be double safe, set the file on hidden and place a protective password over it.

Another idea is creating a file sharing account, such as Drop Box, to which only the intended viewers have the password to see the files that are stored. There are some great apps out there that are made specifically for the sharing of sensitive and personal data. Once you upload the data (in your case the naughty pic or video) to your personal account, the file automatically deletes after an allotted period of time. You may have heard of this feature in apps like Snapchat.

If you can avoid it and the picture you are sending is extra risqué, avoid putting your face in the picture. If somehow it does leak onto the Internet there is nothing to distinguish you will the millions of other nude photos out there.

Lastly and yet most importantly, do not send such personal pictures to someone you do not trust that’s asking for trouble

Sending and receiving pictures is a hot way to start foreplay or to draw it out for the entire day. It's another way to keep the sexual connection strong and the passion burning hot!

Kitty Nelson

Kitty is a Toronto-based freelance writer with a degree in psychology and human sexuality. She is extremely interested in the world of sexuality and finding ways to bring a more positive and open-minded view to the world on the topic of sex and sees sexual education as her calling

She is also a self-proclaimed porn and sex toy enthusiast.

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