“I was not having amazing sex. I was insecure with my body, and having pain with penetration. So, when I moved to California in 2013, it was in first discovering legal cannabis, and then Foria’s line of THC-infused genital oils, that I was able to solve my pain issues and once again have comfortable penetrative sex.”
From there, Manta, already a sex educator with a background in trauma prevention, decided to fill an industry void and become an advocating voice for the safe, sustainable use of cannabis as a trauma-reduction aid and sexual pleasure enhancer.
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A Leading Voice
Over the past five years, Manta emerged as a leading voice in the growth of the depth and scope of positive conversations regarding how cannabis and its byproducts should be at the forefront of any conversation regarding pleasure enhancement in modern sexuality. As a journalist, public speaker, and educator, she has already established herself. When asked how else Manta intends to sustain her impact as an advocate, she outlined an ambitious future.
“I’m coming out with a book next year entitled Sex and CBD, which will have national distribution. As well, I was just certified by Betty Dodson as a bodysex facilitator. Plus, I am creating an online course. I worked on the syllabus with a few leading experts in sex and cannabis: Harvard-educated medical doctor Dr. Jordan Tischler, Velvet Swing proprietress and sex/cannabis educator Chelsea Cebara, and outspoken advocate Reba the Diva. We have also partnered on a sex and cannabis educator association, and are partnering on another book I am working on, an ‘ultimate’ guide to sex and cannabis. Also, I’d love to work on a certification program for sex educators and therapists who want to incorporate sex and cannabis into their offerings. I love training the trainers and teaching the teachers.”
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How Should People Learn about Sex and Cannabis?
When questioned concerning the what, how, and why of educating the masses regarding healthy and positive cannabis use in sexual activity, her answer was as conscientious as it was thorough.
“I always encourage people to start on their own, first. First, identify what’s getting in the way of you having the sex you want to be having. Of course, there’s no ‘right way’ to have sex. But, you can ask the question, ‘What’s getting between me and my ideal sexual being?’ Is it anxiety? Body shame? A stale sexual connection with someone or something? Pain? You can choose a cannabis product to use to assist you in working through that issue.
To field test, first open up a conversation about consent. That usually includes, 'This is what I would like to use, and this is how it is going to hit us and enrich our experience. Does this or does this not work for you?' Then, take a bit of whatever cannabis product you’re using and engage in whatever activity you’re wanting to feel more comfortable in doing.”
Manta continues, “The greatest misconception is that you have to be stoned to feel the impact. The desire here is for comfort. Comfort does not necessarily have to equal being high. People are afraid to get high because people equate being high with being out of control.”
“Someone told me recently that 'Science is the art of becoming less wrong over time.' We’re so early in all of this. THC is a vasodilator (it brings more blood flow to the skin’s surface). So we’re creating more opportunities for physiological arousal. Plus, it decreases inhibitions and increases positive ideation about physical appearance.
"However, there is no hard science to describe someone feeling less empowered about their body, smoking, and then feeling more empowered. It is anecdotal.
"We need things like MRIs done with people masturbating pre- and post-cannabis consumption to measure pelvic floor contractions. Survey sizes being large enough to create solid inferences and correction for data skewing is necessary, but that’s a start. Add in collegiate doctoral students doing thesis papers on the topic to create the bedrock science for the future, and there’s a lot to be excited about. Cannabis tourism for couples is the next big thing. Creating sensually-focused experiences for travelling couples is certain to become socially commonplace."
Excited regarding that future, Manta pauses and is amazed by the all she accomplished and what she intends to do. “I’ve smoked with rock stars and met my idols. I’m going to have a life-long career in the sex industry. That’s so fucking cool.”
What does she hope her sex industry legacy will be?
“I want to promote empowerment. I love my body, I love the sex I’m having, and cannabis helped me get here. I ask this question [to others] now: 'How can I help you get here, how can I shorten your learning curve?'"
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