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The Bend-Over-Boyfriend Position

Definition - What does The Bend-Over-Boyfriend Position mean?

The Bend-Over-Boyfriend sex position is a doggy-style sex position that puts the male participant on all fours with the help of a prop. The position offers a range of posibilities, including, bondage, teasing and anal sex (in this case, using a strap-on). The prop helps to provide comfort and stability for longer bouts of play. Heterosexual partners may swap positions for a Bend-Over-Girlfriend variation. This position may also, of course, be assumed by gay and lesbian couples.

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Kinkly explains The Bend-Over-Boyfriend Position

The Bend-Over-Boyfriend position gets its name from a series of best-selling sex education videos by the same name about male anal play using a strap-on. This practice is also known as "pegging." Although no props are strictly required here, the addition of a prop can help make the position more comfortable for both partners.

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