The Bend-Over-Boyfriend Position

Last Updated: March 15, 2021

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Definition - What does The Bend-Over-Boyfriend Position mean?

The bend-over-boyfriend sex position is a doggy-style sex position that puts the male participant on all fours with the help of a prop. The position offers a range of possibilities, including, bondage, teasing and anal sex (in this case, using a strap-on). The prop helps to provide comfort and stability for longer bouts of play. Heterosexual partners may swap positions for a bend-over-girlfriend variation. This position may also, of course, be assumed by gay and lesbian couples.


diagram of the bend-over-boyfriend sex position

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Kinkly explains The Bend-Over-Boyfriend Position

The bend-over-boyfriend position gets its name from a series of best-selling sex education videos by the same name about male anal play using a strap-on. This practice is also known as "pegging." Although no props are strictly required here, the addition of a prop can help make the position more comfortable for both partners.

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