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Porn Star Experience (PSE)

Updated: MAY 8, 2023
Reviewed by Kinkly Staff
on May 8, 2023

Porn Star Experience is a type of service offered by some sex workers that simulates a sexual situation akin to a scene in porn. Frequently known as PSE, sex workers who offer a Porn Star Experience for their customers can be guided by clients in hardcore, kinky and taboo sex acts, or will be asked to produce a porn-like situation.

Less frequently, Porn Star Experience refers to high-definition virtual reality pornographic content designed to put the viewer into the movie.

In sex work, this kind of sexual transaction differs from the Girlfriend Experience (another service offered by sex workers), which focuses more on a sensual and romantic scene. With a Porn Star Experience, the services requested include acts that are common in mainstream pornography, but less so in real-life sexual relationships. These include things like exaggerated moaning and dirty talk, difficult and adventurous sexual positions, anal sex, deep throating oral (possibly to the point of gagging), facial or body ejaculation, spanking, BDSM and other fetishes, or using sex toys.

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How the Porn Star Experience is negotiated and played out depends on the laws and regulations where this act is negotiated. For example, in Nevada, where sex work is conducted legally, the use of condoms is non-negotiable. In other places, people may push for a "bareback" experience, more like the pornographic content they watch. This, of course, poses a high risk of STI transmission.

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More About Porn Star Experience (PSE)

The Porn Star Experience offers sex work clients the ability to live out the fantasies and desires that they may not be able to experience in their committed or previous relationships. After all, the sex portrayed onscreen in mainstream porn is not often a reflection of the sex people have at home. Porn portrays a type of sex that is designed to be exciting and appealing, but may be largely unattainable.

Why do people get off on a Porn Star Experience?

For example, porn frequently features partners who are always sexually interested and available - people who desire and crave your body and who are happy and willing to engage in all of your fantasies. In real life, people cope with stress, being busy, illness and body discomfort and more. As a result, they just aren’t sexual every second of every day. The Porn Star Experience, therefore, offers a hyper-realistic version of sex that fetishizes ideals about sexual connection and availability as much as it offers specific sexual acts. Plus, very few people have, in fact, ever brought the pizza delivery person into their home for a wild romp!

Some Porn Star experiences can be elaborate with role play, specific clothing or costumes or props (pizza anyone?). Other scenes are more focused on the specific sex acts desired.

Not all sex workers will offer this kind of scene. As the Porn Star Experience involves more extreme sexual acts than the Girlfriend Experience, it's crucial that sex workers are able to trust their client. For this reason, some sex workers will not offer the Porn Star Experience to new clients.

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Safety and the Porn Star Experience

Just because a sex worker offers the PSE does not mean that consistent consent check-ins are not required, or that the client has full control to do whatever they want. The sex worker is providing a paid service that they can consent to or refuse, and the paying client must be prepared to respect either decision that the worker makes.

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