Pillow Queen

Last Updated: December 24, 2018

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Definition - What does Pillow Queen mean?

A pillow queen refers to a woman who loves receiving pleasure, but does not reciprocate it. She makes minimal effort when it comes to pleasuring her partner. She literally hogs the pillows. The term is sometimes used to refer to men, too. Pillow-hogging non-reciprocal sex is not distinguished by sex nor gender.

Kinkly explains Pillow Queen

Regardless of how hot or physically attractive a person is, being labeled as a pillow queen can put a damper on one's romantic prospects. It is important to always think about one's sexual partners, too. Sex is not just about one person's pleasure. It is also about how partners are enjoying themselves.

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