Maid Training

Last Updated: May 9, 2017

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Definition - What does Maid Training mean?

Maid training is a type of BDSM role playing activity in which a submissive performs a range of acts of domestic servitude to please their dominant partner. Maid training usually involves a submissive male serving a dominant female. In cases like this, maid training may be known as sissy maid training.

Kinkly explains Maid Training

During maid training, submissives perform the duties typically expected of a domestic maid. This may include cleaning the dominant’s house, cooking the dominant's meals, and washing the dominant’s clothes. The dominant may also teach the submissive how to properly behave. This instruction may include lessons in curtsying, deportment, and how to dress.

The dominant will oversee the submissive’s duties and administer punishment if they are not performed to a satisfactory standard. Punishments may involve spanking or flogging, humiliation, bondage, confinement, or anal punishment.

Submissives may wear costumes to enhance the role playing exercise such as a traditional frilly French maid’s outfit or a type of fetish wear, such as a rubber maid’s outfit. Such costumes can also help display a maid’s submission to the dominant.

When male submissives become maids, they are said to be “sissified.” Their genitals may be shaved, they may wear female lingerie and makeup, and generally they attempt to present themselves as women. These gestures may help make the submissive feel vulnerable, thus reinforcing his role in the scene.

A maid training session may be part of the interaction of a couple practicing BDSM. Some professional mistresses also specialize in maid training.

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