A do-me queen is a submissive person in the BDSM scene who is more intent on receiving attention and pleasure than giving it. For example, a do-me queen will often try to persuade a dominant to perform certain sexual acts that they enjoy with blatant disregard to what the dominant wants. Do-me queens are usually considered to be topping from the bottom when doing this. The term do-me queen is usually used to refer to a female submissive who behaves like this, but it can also be used to refer to a man in some cases
The terms do-me king and do-me sub may also be used to describe submissives who frequently top from the bottom.
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