Pony Play

Last Updated: March 23, 2020

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Definition - What does Pony Play mean?

Pony play is a BDSM activity involving role play with one participant playing the role of pony and their patner acting as their rider or trainer. The focus of pony play is on the treatment of the pony, the pony's actions, and the pony's mental state rather than appearing as a pony. The pony is often two-legged. Bit gags, bridles, hoove boots, saddles, whips, harnesses, and butt plug tails are all available to complete the pony look.

Kinkly explains Pony Play

There are several variations of pony play. The three most common are:

  • Show pony: focuses on the costume (harness, plume, etc,) and demonstrating traditional dressage skills
  • Cart pony: the dominant is pulled in a cart by their pony
  • Riding pony: the dominant "rides" their pony. This can be dangerous depending on the strength of the pony. It is common for the pony to assume a four legged stance with their rider's legs astride them bearing most of their own weight.




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